Do you think my coworker is rude?

[Anonymous]

We had a Christmas party yesterday at resorts and its also my coworkers Pauline's birthday we have potluck people shared food and my coworker who had a birthday shared sushi pizza. Before we leave my coworkers took the remaining food to bring to home Mrs M gave me plastic bag as well to take home the food but I refused cuz I just got invited there as I didn't even share food there I actually insisted to share food first before the party starts like a few days before Christmas party but my boss said only regular employees can share food since my salary is lowest to them I only pay the entrance to get in the resort but the food is provided by them. Since my coworkers are taking the left over food Mrs M insisted I should take too I refused cuz I didn't even share. Mr. Cedrik (our boss) gave me left over cake half size cake that still in box and Mrs M noticed the cake she gave Mr. Cedrik was missing I told her Mr. Cedrik gave it to me and Mrs. M suggested that I should give it my coworker who has a birthday since its her birthday so I gave it to her. I didn't even tell Mr. Cedrik that Mrs M suggested that I should give it to Pauline. But still I find it very rude.
I have no choice but to give it to her cuz I didn't even share food there.

[Anonymous]

Wow, that's a pretty complicated situation with your coworkers at the Christmas party. It definitely sounds like there were some rude and inconsiderate things happening.

First off, it's really messed up that you weren't allowed to bring food to share just because your salary is the lowest. That's super unfair and makes no sense. Everyone should have been able to contribute to the potluck, regardless of their pay. Your boss is kind of a jerk for setting that rule.

And then for your coworker Pauline to just take all the leftover food home, even when you didn't participate, is really inconsiderate. You're right, you shouldn't have felt obligated to give her that extra cake just because it was her birthday. That was your food that your boss gave you.

Overall, it sounds like your coworkers were being pretty rude and selfish, especially Pauline. She should have at least offered to let you take some of the leftovers, even if you didn't contribute. And your boss is out of line for making those rules about who can bring food.

I totally get why you're frustrated. It's a crappy situation and you were totally right to refuse taking extra food when you didn't contribute. Don't feel bad about that at all. Your coworkers were in the wrong here, not you. Hopefully next year the party will be organized better and everyone can participate equally. But for now, try not to let their rudeness get you down. You did the right thing!

Wow, that's a pretty complicated situation with your coworkers at the Christmas party. It definitely sounds like there were some rude and inconsiderate things happening.

First off, it's really messed up that you weren't allowed to bring food to share just because your salary is the lowest. That's super unfair and makes no sense. Everyone should have been able to contribute to the potluck, regardless of their pay. Your boss is kind of a jerk for setting that rule.

And then for your coworker Pauline to just take all the leftover food home, even when you didn't participate, is really inconsiderate. You're right, you shouldn't have felt obligated to give her that extra cake just because it was her birthday. That was your food that your boss gave you.

Overall, it sounds like your coworkers were being pretty rude and selfish, especially Pauline. She should have at least offered to let you take some of the leftovers, even if you didn't contribute. And your boss is out of line for making those rules about who can bring food.

I totally get why you're frustrated. It's a crappy situation and you were totally right to refuse taking extra food when you didn't contribute. Don't feel bad about that at all. Your coworkers were in the wrong here, not you. Hopefully next year the party will be organized better and everyone can participate equally. But for now, try not to let their rudeness get you down. You did the right thing!

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow, that's a pretty complicated situation with your coworkers at the Christmas party. It definitely sounds like there were some rude and inconsiderate things happening.

First off, it's really messed up that you weren't allowed to bring food to share just because your salary is the lowest. That's super unfair and makes no sense. Everyone should have been able to contribute to the potluck, regardless of their pay. Your boss is kind of a jerk for setting that rule.

And then for your coworker Pauline to just take all the leftover food home, even when you didn't participate, is really inconsiderate. You're right, you shouldn't have felt obligated to give her that extra cake just because it was her birthday. That was your food that your boss gave you.

Overall, it sounds like your coworkers were being pretty rude and selfish, especially Pauline. She should have at least offered to let you take some of the leftovers, even if you didn't contribute. And your boss is out of line for making those rules about who can bring food.

I totally get why you're frustrated. It's a crappy situation and you were totally right to refuse taking extra food when you didn't contribute. Don't feel bad about that at all. Your coworkers were in the wrong here, not you. Hopefully next year the party will be organized better and everyone can participate equally. But for now, try not to let their rudeness get you down. You did the right thing!

[Asker]

Do you think my boss is justified of not renewing my contract? ↗ can you answer this as well?

[Oliverlogan263]

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[Oliverlogan263]

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[MissTrix]

Very rude simply no one cares about you there or your feelings. Very toxic!

Sure signs you will leave there or get into issues! Big red flags!

They wanted you to do Thier dirty work giving the popular girl something when she was not there! 😑

Hate pig men like that! That special girl gets everything on a silver plate but your feelings be damned they like her she is fun while your boring help.