What do you all think Christmas is about?

[massb]

I had this discussion with my girlfriend and she said me and my family don't love each other because we rather spend time with each other and do things than give presents? We are all grown and literally have everything we want. So we rather just spend quality time together. She and her aunts always get each other gifts to show love i guess. But I dont think no on is right or wrong. What do you guys think? Is Christmas about presents , quality time and love. Both or something else?

Presents

Quality time and love

Both

Something else

[NathanDavis]

friends, food and family...

[massb]

I agree

[live2dance25]

For me, it’s about quality time and love. The commercial aspect (such as buying gifts) does not excite me one bit.

[massb]

Same I agree but all she cares about is presents smh. Then she tries to tell me me and my family dont love each other cuz we dont buy each other gifts? Gifts dont equate to love

[live2dance25]

I agree. You can’t control what others think, you can only be your best self and try to meet her in the middle. I’m sorry you are having to deal with this.

[massb]

Thanks, I appreciate it, I hope you had a great Christmas