For you, what makes a girl "wifeable"? Or makes a guy "husband material"?

[desertflwr]

so I was listening to my favorite song rn (which is called "Wifeable" by Masego and Xavier Omär) and I started thinking what is or makes someone a candidate for marriage (at least for my own self)... well I didn't quite figure it out but I'm very curious about what y'all have to say about your own feelings on the subject! 🤔👀👂🏼

[thatguywithakeyboard]

Let's be honest a woman who is clean, tidy, upfront, honest with herself and her feelings and can cook is a great example of what we "man" look into a potential wife. Before someone jumps the gun and screams "misogyny" let me say this. Even truth I can't cook I would be there in the kitchen cooking with my wife, because as a husband & wife we are supposed to support each other.

The ultimate question rolls down what do women see as "husband material". Is it an over hyped muscle buff or maybe snotty rich kid?

[Tarnygosh]

When it comes to husbands, it's less physical and more about their character. I don't care much for muscles as he won't get time to go to the gym when we are sicker or poorer. I want a man who will love and stay loyal. Who will put the kids first before me, who has patience, is considerate and finds fun in the small things. The rest is small print really.

[desertflwr]

@thatguywithakeyboard the only jumping the gun is you babe. I'm not attacking anyone for their standards. we all have different ideas of what we want from a significant other. I think the only time it becomes a probably is when someone wants more from a partner than they are willing or able to offer yknow?

[thatguywithakeyboard]

@Tarnygosh interesting view. But I believe kids and wife is essentially family and they are #1 priority either way. You can also be poor but rather happy, having money doesn't always bring forward happiness.

[thatguywithakeyboard]

Jumping the gun is a rather old remark. Gotta ignore my odd way of writing 🙂

But I can see how expectations have to be mutual, instead of one partner chasing unicorns.

[Traxton]

she has to be gorgeous, smart, kind, things like that. I want to be able to look at her and fall in love over and over. I want to be able to sit down and have an intelligent conversation and fall in love with her laugh.

[wicket]

he's not gonna mess around with other girls is serious about us can be honest and real with me tell me whats bothering him and dont bottle it up inside he has to have a passion for something as in working to accomplish stuff and not just lazy and sits at home takes care of his body makes me smile when im down taller than me lol and just a sweet guy overall make my heart melt!! lol this is a long list

[mersteriosity]

He has to be so different from everyone else. Somebody with great strength, who is ambitious and capable of achieving that dream. Basically the kind that loves me for a week and drops me like that.

[ashley1996]

Hmm.
Honest, funny, sweet, loyal, similar interests, good hygiene, fun to be around.

[EpicDweeb]

I'd want the girl I marry to be able to cook... mostly just cause I'm bad at it. In theory I'd love to cook but I didn't like getting my hands dirty as a kid and now that I want to learn, I don't have the time to do it. Anyway, besides that, I'd want her to be a Christian. I've been a Christian my whole life, and it's important to me that the person I marry share my world view. i don't believe relationships ever really work well when the people involved have differing world views.

[sarath1997]

since I am a vergin I expect one...
and she should be having good humor sense...
should be responsible cause I am not...😂
and most important a great great friend with whom I can even talk about her friend looking at me... and have a laugh at that...😂 I don't think it is too much.. but definitely rare... to get...😩

[sarath1997]

and loyal , trust worthy, kind with me... only...,😂😋, caring , and special... to me... for whom I should think that if anything bad happens I should be willing to give my life for her😊 .. and little above avg looks... , should like sports...👌

[lord_chilled]

Well she needs to be able to enjoy feeding me and fucking me.
After that check, id want to have a girl with similar values and interests, in my case i want a bunch of kids and a big family. No dogs and cats tough. If she's in with that, thats all i want

[desertflwr]

no pets? geez you're heartless

[lord_chilled]

Nah no pets, not my style. Besides, id make a bad pet owner anyway, so the animals are better off with someone else 😊

[NotJustHereForLulz]

Stay in the kitchen and obey me. Jk, don't kill me.
I actually want someone has both a personality and values that are compatible with mine, has her own autonomy, isn't scared to speak up, and is truly in for the long haul.

[Cloudjumper]

there's no such thing, if i love her then she's gonna be the one, you accept the qualities and the flaws

[chos000]

I would probably ask myself if that person worth to give half of my life. And ask myself if im qualify to be her husband before she's qualify to be my wife.

[Cody01]

Know how to cook like I do or even better which would be great, nice attitude, independent, funny, adventurous, at least on a physical level decently attractive, etc.

[RichTheC]

Worth waking up early for but also worth sleeping in late with.

[ShortCircuit]

Being both attractive and a virgin - an extremely rare combination.

[mrapollocreed]

she needs to have a nice attitude and take care of herself.. the rest, i don't really care.

[ArminXTR]

Well for me I am happy with two types of women. First one is the girl that is extremely chilled, really really caring and not afraid of being spontaneous. Second is the type that genuinely wants to make her man happy.

[itisi_ethan]

Being Not Only independent But Able To Fully Give You Their Attention.

[Gray_Wolf]

If man can protect his woman and be gentleman then he's a husband material, If woman is loyal and likes to satisfy her man then she's a wife material

[Razal]

Respect
Responsibility
Trustworthiness
Loyalty
And Love of course

[StainedClass]

Gotta be able to cook and take care of kids and not talk back.

[rsstanford]

Lol 😂

[MuratM]

She should able to cook best foods

[desertflwr]

I can't believe you got 3 down votes 😂😂

[MuratM]

Hhh i love foods people are judging me :(

[SwolDishWasher]

I like weird pretty and loyal

[StainedClass]

Need a more savage answer or I unfollow.

[SwolDishWasher]

@StainedClass who the fuck are you​?

[candyaurora]

The gentleman type who is not a chauvinist.

[kamelot]

not being an arrogant egotist

[Williamdhie]

If she is still a virgin

[LastNightmare]

will my answer allow me to have wife

[legalboxers]

someone who completes me

[Mhandl]

They still produce wives?

[mrsticks]

Nothing.

[AlexBlack007]

Understanding