Why do some girls enjoy being submissive to their bf/husband? Do guys like girls like this?

[Anonymous]

Outside of the bedroom...

[UnknownReflection]

Males are naturally more dominate and females more submissive. It's just instinctive.

Furthermore, i assume the reason behind girl's interest regarding this would be related to the same instinctive attribution. Of course, i'm sure as long as it doesn't go off limits. I don't think anyone would handle a life of being controlled, abused and imprisoned. Moreover, i would say girls enjoy it when a man acts in a certain way, performing manhood attitudes, seriousness, toughness and confidential. Managing certain moments, taking control of certain situations and leading the way. Clearing what's must be done and what's it's better to be done. This is the natural dominate instinct of males and many females feel protected, secured, cared, seen and beloved when that happens. They enjoy when they see heavily performed manhood attitudes at some point. It appears attractive.

Personally i have a mixture belief regarding this. I have certain traditional values within me that allows me to believe sometimes it has to be just my way and i have to carry certain responsibilities. I expect my manly duties and attributions to be respected. However, this has no link to force or abusive dominance. I don't believe in such. A relationship is a two sided partnership. So i always try to keep the balance between these two elements.

Good Luck.

[Anonymous]

Oh yeah, many guys prefer submissive women. It's just a personal preference. I have a dominant personality and I just get along better with submissive women. It works well for both of us. You may not understand of you have a dominant personality too because you're not going to get along well with a dominant guy. I think a lot of women would prefer being submissive to a dominant man IF her treated her respectfully and she didn't have the cognitive dissonance it seems a lot of women can't get past.

But think about it... what qualities do most women value in a man? Strength, confidence, assertiveness, knows what he wants and how to get it. Do those sound like the traits of a passive, submissive person? No, they are the traits of someone with a dominant personality. Why would you want a man with dominant personalty traits and then expect him not to be dominant in your relationship?

[KrisPW]

For us, it's a way to tap in to our biology and instincts and things get very hot when we do. But that is limited to the sexual and we treat each other equally for everything else.

[Anonymous]

Who can say why. It's partly cultural. But not all women like being that way, nor do all men want that.

[JSmuve]

Because some (most?) girls are naturally submissive and prefer guys to be the dominant one in the relationship. You ever heard a girl bitch about wearing the pants in the relationship? Because I sure have.

[edgyfox]

I like more when Girls are in charge. That way there's no way I could accidentally hurt them.

[daddysir77]

yes, I'm a Dom 24/7. wife is my Sub, I have a Little and and part time slave.

[amitcs90]

Yeah its true.. guys like his partner submissive, and if gal enjoy it they can explore more

[TheMoroccangirl]

It's biologically set.

[tonymontana1]

Like it only inside the bedroom 😂

[Anonymous]

yes some like them