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I'd rather work since being a house wife is harder.
You're not wrong.
I’d like to be able to some how find a happy medium.
there’s nothing worse though than the thought of having to ask a man for money
Why not? Too much feminism in your life, hun? I’m fine with independence with the working rights, but when a situation where there’s a lack of it comes up and it becomes the worst thing ever, there’s a problem.
That's the dumbest answer yet. There is no "happy" medium. Either you work as a mom or you stay home. Anything else is an attempt at a cheap cop-out when there's no cop-out to be had.
@Gavyn being 30 or something and having to ask your husband for money so you can buy something for yourself seems fucking horrible and I’d never wanna have to do that. What did I say anything about feminism. You’re 16 maybe you’ll understand once you get a job and have your own money and not need to run it by anybody.
@Kiran04 & that was a dumb answer I just meant it would be nice to be able to somehow be both a good mother when you’re at home with your kids and still have food on the table at the end of the night for ur family, but still be able to be independent and work and have your own money & not be dependent on a man. So that’s what I meant by a happy medium but maybe I shoulda said have a healthy balance somehow. :)
Sure, you can work part-time. That's about the only compromise you have available. But either you want to be independent or you want to have a family. Family cohesion only works when all parties involved work for the benefit of the family. If one decides she wants to be a strong, independent womyn then the family is doomed to failure. Family means putting others above yourself. That does not mesh with the feminist ideal of "don't need no man". You DO, in fact, need a man to have a strong family. Just like a man needs a woman to have a strong family. To deny that is asinine.
Wrong a women or a man can be a teacher so you have the holidays off when your kids have them off and you can also get off around the same time as your children and work near your home at a close school district. I NEVER said I didn’t need a man. I SAID I never wanna have to depend on a man for MONEY. There’s tons of women who are independent and have careers and make money for themselves and their family and she doesn’t need to ask her husband for fifty dollars if she needs a new pair of shoes at the end of the day. It becomes a problem when she puts her career before her family. How does an independent women make a family doomed to failure huh? & well thank you captain obvious of course we need a strong man and women when it comes to a family no shit Sherlock lmao
Or you just share a bank account and make sure it’s in the month’s budget? That’s not the same as asking for money, you know. Or are you just so prideful that you can’t stand having share funds with someone else?
Both have their postive and negative sides
absolutely right!
Well statistically those women who stay at home as housewives and have everything handed to thrn are most likely to cheat. So prefers her to go to work and occupy herself without soneone elses dick
Kinda of backwards. Women that go put and work everyday are going to be hit on by men all day... I have never seen statistics that prove that stay at home wives are "more likely to cheat" and I think you're just talking out of your arse.
Not true and there are not statics for that...
Well, do you know with whom most women cheat with?
A coworker/boss.
Office romances are the number one reason for cheating to occur.
So thats the opposite end of the spectrum.
It could happen either way. So check out her morals before checking her position/profession
Her chosen profession will demo her morals. Ain't nobody marrying a hooker. The stats are out there if you can't use google your behind the times
Well just cos I wanna be a housewife doesn't mean I wanna sleep around.
Just because you don't wanna do something doesn't mean statistics don't exist
There are no statics for that you dummy
Clearly your education isn't even at googling level hence you want you scrounge of a man for the rest of your life
Well when I tried googling the statics all I found was cheating houswife porn. Is that your statics?
@nickyBBB B I N G O
Did you have fun watching?
Nope I prefer male solo, what about you
I prefer some kinky bdsm or scat if im feelin really naughty
Well scat is pretty nasty lmao
You like bdsm as a sub don't ya cos you sound like pretty much of a b**** I'm sorry
Aww don't be bitter cause you liveca life of begging. Wecpay girls like you to leave not to stay 😗
Lol no not really but do you pay girls to stay with ya?
No we pay girls like you to leave.
Hooker with a wedding ring
Lol it's okay you can give up now I know mommy said never give up but you failed hard on this one ya can't come up anymore alright
Try better comebacks next time 🙂 don't worry it takes practice, but practice makes perfect. Best wishes 💓
Is that what momma told you while teaching you to suck daddy 😗
Lol well depends on which daddy and momma we are talking about 🙂
The 1 you suck dry
Lol the only thing I sucked dry was my finger when I was a baby honestly
Explains a lot
Oh does it.
Does it..
JOHN BOY MUSCLES
Well that names explains a lot lemme tell ya that
Indeed
Lmao I never had such a good guess before
Looking at your profile you are a sub lol I knew you wanted to be a woman's b**** 😂
@nickyBBB LOL
Glad you find me interesting enough to look all the way back to my first post. Unfortunately you ain't that interesting to say the same
Lmao my profile is private.
Wouldn't know. Like i said not interested in bums
Lol bums okay
I think you meant women but okay I'll leave you now with the tiny bit of dignity you got
Thats not true man. You would think for example a doctor would have high morals. Not truen apparently doctors are on top 5 cheating professions, for men and women.
I personally know a female doctor married to another doctor that cheated with a buddy of mine.
Well, not rrally abuddy, he is kinda a scumbag.
I prefer her to be a stay at home wife, but can volunteer or do something in the community for not to get bored, but once kids our born I want her home raising the kids full time properly.
Working. I don’t want my security depending on someone else.
I would prefer working if the your husband supports you in that
Work!! I'd work and not get married too. I'm such a workaholic
I want a job for sure or else all this ambition will go to waste. THAT BEING SAID, when I do have kids, I would want to be there to watch them grow up so I would want to be a housewife eventually. So, I guess both :)
How about both, I wanna be a housewife if I have children but only until there able to go to school after that I wanna work.
i would say between when kids are born and when they start school mom should be at home. once they in school she can work if she chooses cause after school programs. I'm not a fan of day care ion trust em
Working mother. I should say that the tendency is that mothers in general work part-time and quite often at home.
I would want my SO to be a working mother because I don't her to be fully dependent on me and the kids might get some extra inspiration to work hard by having a mother who is successful in her career.
I've never wanted kids, so I prefer having a career! However, if things change and I do decide I want kids (doubtful) I'd want to be a stay-at-home mom, at least until the kids are older.
I would do both I hate staying in the house to long...
Is prefer any future mother of my kids to be a stay at home mom.
Well my girlfriend doesn’t want kids and she wants to stay home and make music
😂😂😂😂 ur girlfriend will hate adult life
Why do you say that When im 18 i already have a interview lined up for Apple support and I get to work at home but the problem is their Acceptance rate is lower than Harvard’s
Lol 1 ur age say 16 and ur pic looks 16 so I'ma go with that and if I believed that tech support was a career and can support yourself great but that has nothing to do with ur girlfriend because realistically 1% of high school sweethearts get married and she will have 2 depend on u to support her every financial need and the music business is expensive that's why most aspiring musicians have a regular job too realistically her not working for her specific goals isn't realistic she needs to go to college and work she can find music related jobs that way she's still doing music 24/7 but not working to do music is stupid and it will screw her in the long run
Also I wtf is apple support because I'm 100% sure that's not a job position at Apple and I'm also 100% the acceptance rate thing u said has no evidence that is true and if it is wth would they hire a none college educated kid and because tech support for high up companies that hire domestically is usually fresh out of college students who use that just as a stepping stone to get into the apple company
It is indeed a job and the rate on which they employ people for that job is less than 5%
I found apple care support on indeed nothing about 5% acceptance rate and they $11 per hr 😕😂🤣😂🤣😬
If you think you can full support her and your self ok
I would want to work a couple days a week so I still have time for my children and I am not home all the time
working wife/mother cuz im not meant to sit on my ass all day long. i have goals i wanna achieve
Housewife for sure. You get to do what you want whenever you want. The hours are flexible. And you only do as much as u feel like.
I'd either share the household or work home-office or just stay at home. But I would never dare keeping her from working if she wanted to.
There is not a lot of girls who would stay at home these days. Every one wants to achieve their dreams specially educated women
So, house wives can't be educated? Staying at home and enjoying life with your family isn't anyone's dream?
Not today's women. But iam not generalising . The majority on the Internet talking about a housewife as follower to her husband and not functional like him I think that is why a lot of women end up choosing a career
Fair enough. And sadly, your initial statement isn't wrong.
Would you let your wife work when you have children?
"Let" her work? It's not entirely up to me, but I'd prefer if she didn't work while they're too young for school. Infants and toddlers need 24/7 care, and that care has a dramatic effect on their outcome. Would you want someone else to raise your kids while you went to work? I sure as hell don't. I want someone I trust, someone who's family to raise them. That job is of paramount importance. It supersedes work. Once they're old enough to attend school, mommy can go back to work.
In my country both male and female work...
yes, everyone works but what would be your preference?
That both work.
A working wife/mother, because I have ambitions and I would go nuts if I can't pursue them.
I work outside the home two days a week for now. The other five I'm a SAHM.
I would prefer to be a working mother, mostly so I have a good reason to spend all the money on shopping
No ladies is not only for this. I think ladies is equal to gents n have all freedoms to enjoy there lifes
I'd prefer her to be at home, for one reason only mothers tend to be better at nurturing a kid than fathers. Obviously if she wishes to she can work and we'd divide the time for caring for child or get a maid if wealthy enough.
Honestly I dont want to be a wife period its just too much stress and crap but if I had to pick it would be working wife I like knowing that I did something that day that didn't involve the house
In our current society, there is a bias against stay at home moms. It is an individual decision made by a family. We decided to let my wife stay home, and there is a financial impact.
There's actually a bigger bias against working moms but ok
Working, in any case at the end both wife and husband should do the house task
I think if y'all can afford to live off one income should determine this.
I'd prefer a housewife, I think the housewifes deserve a huge respect for what they do.
I’d like either if I could have my dream job. Video game design.
I'd rather be a working woman, to help my husband financially.
Working wife and a mother. beeing a mother is very important to me as a woman
Trying to be both, but if it's too difficult I prefer take care of my babies
You can do it lol
Haha thanks
I would much rather be a housewife. Stay home with the kids and cook and clean... that would be nice!
Housewife. I was raised that way and I feel it would be best for my child. I have a son and would rather be a housewife than working outside the home.
I definitely want to keep my career I have worked so hard my whole life I’m not going to suddenly stop
I prefer to do everything together, work and family...
Reasonable man. 😊
Work until I have kids
Both have there advantages. But I’d rather work if I had a job I loved
I am a housewife supremacist.
Sorry to hear
@imalwaysrightyes Why on Earth would you be? It's normal, natural and healthy.
You need to work and stop being lazy
@imalwaysrightyes You need to be a real man and stop expecting a woman to pay your bills, or simply die alone the way that untermensch, irresponsible, overgrown soyboys like you always have.
Dont need to be rude if you are lazy and dont want to work
@imalwaysrightyes I do work. In my home. Every day. My husband works outside of our home. Every day. That is called "traditional marriage". Do not get married if you are a NEET who cannot support a family.
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Traditional is old fashioned and it dissapers during the time , more men understand that having a lazy woman that doesn't work is just stupid. Women need to work and pay for bills 50/50
@imalwaysrightyes Real men understand that having a working man with a cooter for a roommate with benefits is not marriage.
L I T E R A L L Y A S O Y B O Y.
There is no such thing as real men, the same thing about real women. Stop sitting at home, find a job
@imalwaysrightyes There very much such a thing as a real man and a real woman. The very fact that you deny nature, is proof of your failure to become a man.
@imalwaysrightyes
Do you even know how much work a house wife does?
I wouldn't want to be a housewife.
That sucks.
Working. I don’t want to be dependent 100% anyone.
Me either that is unrealistic to me.. they can leave you at the drop of a hat with out money...
housewife. I like to stay indoors and read books.
A housewife but also work from home. So both.
Working mother. I want to be independent
Working. I like to be productive
I think a working wife\mom
I'm happy with either, but probably working.
I'll be a working single mother any time.
Haha this should be good...
id prefer not being a motherhood
wow im such a retard, mother**********
I prefer housewife.
If I could work from home, that'd be perfect.
I would rather be a working wife.
What about us women that don’t want to be moms?
Then you women don't get the answer the question, duh. If it ain't about you, don't answer it.
You’re missing the point.
You have no point. If you don't want to be a mom then move along.
If you don't want to be a mum, then you can choose to live a single, unmarried life!
There's also greatness and happiness behind that future life you may be anticipating!
I was trying to make that point to the asker. That there are more than 2 options in life.
And now I’m moving on from this conversation with you. Good night.
Thank you @sean893 :)
Exactly!!!
The asker was not insinuating that there are only two options in life. You did that all on your own. Your bad. Now move along.
Take your own advice asshole. My reply was never about you, but you felt the need to comment and keep commenting. Move along and bother someone else.
I'm not the one bitching about her precious snow flake needs not being accommodated in a question that wasn't meant for her, so I can stay as long as I please. You, on the other hand, can move along.
You’re a hypocrite. You’re the definition of a snow flake. You felt the need to comment on my question even though it didn’t apply to you. I wasn’t bitching you idiot, I was asking a question.
I didn't feel the need. I wanted to and I did it. Being a snow flake would entail expecting things to change to fit my needs. Nothing was required to change for me to add an opinion to your comment. Only my own power and action was required.
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please be kind here. In the question I wrote a working wife/mother. so its either a wife, just a mother or both. If you don't want to be a mother its fine, it's your life afterall. My question is applicable to anyone. hope this helped.
not a woman but id prefer being a stay at home dad