It wouldn't bother me (except if I wasn't sure I wanted to marry her). I've had two relationships where she initiated the relationship and that didn't bother me so I don't think that proposing would be any different. I don't really believe in most of these traditional rules about the man should do this and the woman should do that. I think whoever wants to initiate something should be able to do it.
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It would irk me a lot and I would be embarrassed.
Instant 'no' too.
If I don't get assertive and vulnerable enough to stick my neck out and propose, then I'm not worth marrying.
If she's not willing to follow my lead and wait for my move, then she's not worth marrying.
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No, it would be beautiful! There isn't anything wrong with Women proposing, and they are allowed to traditionally on the 29th of February each leap year...
The optometry and psychological evaluation of her would be quite costly though... 😂🤣😂🤣I'd take the ring... then get on one knee and propose to HER!😛
No, I'd be flattered; I'd take it as proof of love.
My type would do so, it would be very nice I think.
I don't think embarrassed is the right word. I wouldn't have liked it though.
I'm old school and I'd be mortified. Just me being old.
Well if a girl does propose I would prefer her to keep it private and not turn it into a big spectacle.
I'd be happy since that's how I'd want to become engaged.
I would not be embarrassed by a woman proposing to me, per se, but I would not say yes to a woman who thinks she's going to be wearing the trousers in the marriage, so it might be a moot point.
Not necessarily because I didn't do it first, but I don't want to get married. So it'd be a pretty uncomfortable moment saying no.
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