Guys, if your girlfriend proposed to you before you ever thought to, would you be offended or put off by it?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yeah, I’m not marrying a girl that proposes to me

No, I’d be happy to know she wants to marry me

I couldn’t care less, I just want a girlfriend period

I’m better off single

[NathanDavis]

hmm... let me think about this one

First of all, no, I would never ever be offended if a girlfriend proposed to me.

and then, put off... I don't think it is the term I would use, if I had not even considered nor had marriage in my radar, then I would feel like it is not ideal as I would very much rather that we were both in the same page, and that we were sure that both of us are on the same page about many things, being the most important point in case "would he have kids? or no kids?" this and many other things are a must for me, to discuss them first, so yeah... I wouldn't like it much if she just wanted to marry me before we spoke about any of this

now, one thing that could feel very off would be if she proposed me way too soon... lol

whether that is one week, one month... or just sooner than I might feel it makes sense to take such a leap or that big of a jump

now if I had been thinking about marrying her, but she proposes to me before I propose to her... I would feel ecstatic about it... lol

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I would hope that if we were at the point in our relationship where she felt comfortable enough to propose to me, that I would be very elated, and somewhat sad that she beat me to the punch 🥰

[Miristheiss]

Proposing is my job. Know your place with me. If you actually think I'm going to go for a woman taking my traditional role upon herself means that she doesn't know me at all.

Plus she's probably too much of a feminist if she thinks proposing should be something either of us do.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I've had 4 women propose to me. I never took it as a bad thing.

[JacobJordan]

nope it would not bother me in the slightest

[Yannae]

If she'd do it right now, I wouldn't be offended but I wouldn't say yes either. It's too soon.

[SotiCoto]

Marriage is expensive. Divorce is moreso.
Both are better off avoided.

[Joshydavid25]

Nah, I would be happy that she wants to marry me.. That she took the initiative..

[Andres77]

Please! Then I don’t have to try and read her mind.

[Pudsmucker]

I wouldn't be offended. Sometimes you just need to have somebody to push you in the right direction.

[XRatedTexter]

I'm open to anyone that proposes to me. The only thing in life that matters are actions. and if she took the time to do it before I asked then I would say I DO. Just Do It

[Billlewis]

I'd love it if she claimed me like that.