Never too old but to have kids the older the harder to conceive and even with adoption when marrying older it's best in adoption situations that the couple be healthy and take care of themselves.
I got married at 37 and had a baby at 38 without doing anything special. The only reason I didn't get pregnant earlier was I was on birth control until I got pregnant and my ex and I had conflicting schedules so that caused some delays. Looking back I should have gone off birth control earlier and got pregnant faster but back then I wanted to get pregnant after I got married so my child when she were going through her teenage angst years she couldn't throw it back on me. Now no one really cares that much in the U. S.
In some place in Asia and the Middle East women over 30 have a harder time finding men wiling to marry them and in some cases the men expect the women to feel grateful they were picked. Not all men feel that way of course. This could change soon because both women and men especially in Asia are waiting longer to get married and many never want to get married.
The key for the woman is to check her fertility levels if she wants to have kids. What she needs to check is her FSH levels. The lower the numbers the bigger the window to get pregnant. Follicle Stimulating Hormones
No. You're never to old for that. I do believe that the ideal time to get married is between age 18-28 (for everyone), that doesn't necessarily have to mean that only because someone couldn't get married in that time window it somehow means that they can't do it ever again. There are elderly people learning to read and write for the first time, or working out and lifting weights, or getting a college degree... So who are people to tell YOU that you, in your freaking THIRTIES, can't get married?
As long as you're breathing, you're never too old, period.
If that's the case, then I'm screwed since I'm 32. I've always wanted to get married, it would be sad to think I missed the age appropriation deadline. I don't think that's accurate though, being as my cousin just got married two years ago and she was 45yrs old.
No.
Get married when you feel it!
If you’re never feel it, don’t do it just cause everyone else does.
Find love. Doesn’t matter when, just find it. That’s all.
Never too old to fall in love and get married. 30's fine. When people get around the 40 mark and never been married you gotta be careful. People get weird. set in their ways when they don't have to adjust their schedule for anybody else. Or share a car. Or share a bathroom for that fact.. in all for marriage. But never get married because you think the clock is gonna run out.
u Why would anyone think that is too old to get married?
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No way! It's never too late. Love can be found at any age. Even elderly people in their 70s etc. do remarry.
P. S. You don't need to anon this. I typically avoid anon-asked questions, unless they're really really personal or awkward.
Well I hope not.. haha never been married might get married I want to have a wedding if I do! But im in no rush rather marry right then just I am almost 30.. if I dont get married till 40 but he's the man of my dreams so be it! I am happy on my own looking for someone to make me happier with him.. thats a one lover kinda person.. im old style believe in respect and romanicing.. its just like people use cookie cutters thinking of what works for one will work for all
Well I certainly hope not! I’m 32, soon to be 33 and I’m single. I hope to marry and have kids still. It hasn’t been my choice to remain single, I would have loved to have married in my early/mid-twenties. But it’s been really hard finding and meeting the right guy. Most people mistake me for at least 8 years younger than I am. So I don’t look “old” or anything. But yes, I’m aware of my biological clock. I’ve still got time, but I’m definitely anxious about it.
Well, people who said yes are obviously not 30 or over 😂😂😂 when you get to that age you don't feel like you're very old. you're not 20 but your certainly not bloody old... Its just 30. Those are the best and the most mature years. I personally think it's the best time to get married.
I came pretty close to making that 30 mark before getting married and call that a blessing in my case. I was so wild throughout all my younger years that had I got married earlier before I began to slow down some the marriage would never have lasted. I'm now 36 very happily married and comfortable with my life.
No I’ve always believed that love is one of those things that don’t really pick an age. You can fall in love and celebrate love (i. e marriage, renewal of vows, anniversaries, monthsaries, etc) at any age. Everyone goes at their own pace, and it all just depends on when someone feels ready to commit to someone in that way. After all, marriage is not a joke. Most of all, you can never say or dictate when the right person comes along.
No, not at all. But the window of opportunity to find a compatible guy is closing fast. By forty it's nearly impossible, even if you're perfect. All the good ones are already snapped up and married off, and all that's left are the dregs, rejects, nerds, and divorcees with kids in tow.
Just a quick reply - I answer the question with a question:
Did you see on the news recently of the 100 year old man in a nursing home who met there a woman who caught his eye and to whom he proposed and they married?
The bride was 103 years old. I think that really answers the question - though the staff in the nursing home teased the groom for being a cradle robber.
At the risk of sounding the hopeless romantic - you are never too old to fall in love and live happily ever after.
Nope, heck my grandma got re-married age 77 and
the guy was her second Husband. He showed her the
world from 1993 to he passed away 1998 . He showed
her wonderful years cause my first grand-dad never
showed her nothing but living in the Country.
LOL. No. That's so funny. It reminds me of being a teen ager and thinking that 30 was old. Or the line in the song My Generation "I hope I die before I get old"
I married a 38 year old when I was 40. I didn't even start thinking about settling down until I was in my mid-30's. I've known women who got remarried in their 70s.
It's not marriage that you get too old for. It's having children too late that people should be realistic about.
The later you have them the greater the possibility of health issues.
A woman us actually in her prime for bearing children in her early 20's.
Also you want to have as many years with your kids as possible and be young enough to enjoy life with them.
Don't even think that! I'm already 1 year over that limit. Don't jinx me! I say it's never too late.
No! I actually got engaged at 32! ... I'd post a picture but he's actually an ex. I was dumb and let a good one go. Don't ask please. It's hard enough to tell the story but yes I was THAT close to become a Mrs.!
Also, why would women be too old? ! There are 50 year old couples on MyTime. com that meet and marry! I don't understand your question. Are you just trying to HURT people with your generalizations? ! If so, that is a mean thing to do!
but now you're 35 and single.
@PrinceOfAljazeera... it is a race after all right? ! Sheesh! ... So I should just accept him even though I wasn't happy completely with him? ! Just so that I was not "35 and single"? ! Some people can accept baggage in the form of an ex wife/ex baby mama and a child with the person... sorry I couldn't? !
well anyways that what happens when you old women dont give young guys a chance.
Marriage is a commitment and it’s often to show your dedication towards someone you might not find love till later in life it doesn’t mean your too old to get married and 30 isn’t even old
No I walked past a church the other day and there was an elderly lady getting married. One of the wedding guests told me she was 82 and he was 80 and they got together 5 years ago and chose to get married. You're never too old to find love <3
@hisokadb what's funny? It was very beautiful to see elderly people like that still finding love ❤️
Well, that's pretty old, as in, 30 is nowhere as pretty as 20 (unless your name is mena suvari) and it's already getting old to have kids.. so I don't exactly see why a man would marry someone who's 30 when he can just go marry someone younger and be a lot better off for it
When you get married young you grow together and become who you are together. I would think being single till your thirty would be more difficult because you have your own routine etc. Also your dating pool is limited and your expectations might be higher.
Says who? Which planet do we live in? Don’t we see many single women and men getting married in their 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, and 70+?
Besides, many women and men don’t even fancy marriage as it was 10 to 50 decades ago.
Well then I'm fucked 😂😂
In all honesty, the reason I haven't gotten married yet is because I had not found the right person.
I intend to make my first marriage my last. I dont intend to separate or divorce him at all.
Of course not! There are women that get married well into their 30s and even 40s.
Yes, it is harder to find partners the older you get, but doable. But if your life is in order and you find a guy that's into you, age shouldn't be a factor
No, different people have different lives and experiences. If a woman finds someone worth committing to at age 30+ she should get married.
I would marry a 30 year old woman, assuming I loved her and she was worth marrying.
Of course not. Marriage is a legally binding agreement made with the government. Now, whether having children is a good idea after 30 is another story. I feel like the main reason under 30 is the norm is because there are certain dangers to having children later in life.
It gets harder, but not impossible. With student loan debt and lower wages, this will probably become more common than you realize. Just keep yourself healthy.
No, the trouble is in finding a good man that isn't taken or wants to marry you after 30.
No, your never "too old" for it, but it gets more difficult (the older you get the fewer options you have available to you).
Too old to marry? That's new. In world where someone barely can find true love bringing age factor when one does is irrelevant.
No
You can get married at 100 if you want to
There's no rush.
A lot of people these days are either taking longer to mature, or feel like they're worthy of even being in a relationship so there's a lot of people who get married at 30 or later even
In this day and age... the answer is of course not! Maybe a bit late to have babies think its 33-35?
But anyone can get married even when they are 80. Who cares
Oh, by all means marry at any age! Seriously, there is no monopoly on relationships. You can enjoy the rest of long life... Or join the rest of us... And still marry a couple more times easily in your lifetime!
No they are not they are still sexy and still deserve to feel love and be loved.
NEVER! In my idea after 30 is the best. You can marry at 35,40,50,90 whenever you like girl. ❤️
No. Even if you're just taking about ot being "socially acceptable" the answer is still no.
No, it's not like marriage becomes illegal for them.
Nah. Lots of people marry quite old like 40s 50s etc
30s are the ideal time to marry.
You are, hopefully, more mature and wise about what you need for the longer term.
I would also prefer first to live with a woman for some years before marriage, if wished.
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if you've been with a girl for quite a few years before she's 30, you love her and there's an emotional connection, then marrying her at 30 is totally fine.
If you meet a new girl when she's 30, there's no point in marrying her.
then you could find a younger more attractive women, that are in peak fertility ranges if you want kids.
There's no point in marrying/committing/ emotionally investing in an older woman that's loosing her youth and beauty, when you could find a younger women that's more attractive and you can have some crazy years with her. You can grow old with her later when you've had all the fun.
You can't have fun with a 30 year old woman.
shit, I just got carried away.
@ThisGuyDucks that's what I am afraid of
@ThisGuyDucks what about 25? 27? 28? 29 and a half?
So you suddenly turn into a hag when you hit 30? You're ridiculous
@gothgirl997 when you're a near 30 year old woman, and a guy wants kids, he has very little time to make all the big decisions because biology fucks women more than it fucks men when they get older.
I'm not saying women turn into have, I'm saying she's not worth it anymore.
Why risk being with an older woman that you must impregnate as soon as you ca't (if you want kids), when you could be with a younger woman you can do crazy shit with and then have kids later when you've had all the fun
y'get? I'm saying the same thing again and again.
*a hag
@ThisGuyDucks
Your ignorance makes me laugh 😂
I'm not even gonna bother answering
Time to mute.
@gothgirl997 ditto. Moronic ignorance.
@gothgirl997 @SarahsSummer you can disagree with me, that's your opinion.
You don't have to call me moronic and ignorant.
I'm entitled to my opinion
I believe what I'm saying is true, but you are free to disagree.
@ThisGuyDucks ignorance is something that can be alleviated with just a bit of knowledge. I wish you good luck in that endeavor.
I mean I don't want to indulge in name calling and ad hominems, but it makes sense.
You're a near 30 year old miserable, insufferable single woman that will berate any man that's near yourself.
What kind of man would look at you and say "yup, I need that in my life".
I totally understand why my comment would trigger you and to be honest that's what I intended 😁, such a fragile ego.
@gothgirl997 don't know why you're getting your panties twisted, you're only 22, plenty of time to find a simp and drive him to suicide.
G'day ladies.
@ThisGuyDucks not single dude. Never have been. You? Nevermind. DC.
Not at all, some guys (including me) think a woman becomes even more attractive after reaching her 30s.
No. A lot of women want to advance in their career before starting a serious relationship.
As a 30 years old single mom with 2 kids, I feel this is the youngest time of my life
to you it might be the 'youngest' time of your life, even though it's literally not.
But to guys you're definitely past the young stage.
@ThisGuyDucks you are telling the terrible truth
That's great😊 The state of mind really makes a difference❤️
i think it depends on when the individual decides they feel like they want to settle down with their significant other. in this day and age, in dont think its that uncommon for women to get married after 30
You are never "too old" to get married! Look at some of these couples in their 80's. Their first SO passed away and now years later they find love again and get married. Too cute.
What the heck is this nonsense? Of course they can, like any other... Jeez
Ahhh by the update I understood, by some religions and cultures, yes, 30 yo single is uncommon and you will receive a lot of pressure. But it is your life, not anyone's else. Everyone in their time, it is not a race or something to rush in my opinion.
No, my mother got married at 30, my aunt got married at 33, and my colleague married his bride when she would’ve been in her late 40s (& yes, it was each of their first marriage) 🤵🏻💍👰🏻
No they're not too old. But it would be a red flag. Some women hit that big 3-0 and start panicking. So you have to be concerned if this is just a phase of hers.
My parents know a guy who married at age 72.
It was his 4th marriage, but hey.
Its fine, go for it [:
your never to old to get married if your in love with that opposite of your sex person ! Thanks
You can never be too old to find love and get married.
Of course not! If they find love and want to get married, they're free to do so.
No they are not too old after 30. I married my wife after she was 30. I loved that she was already a strong, independent woman.
No people get married when they are 90. There isn't an expiration date in our marriage ability.
I really want to hahaha
Of course women over 30 are not too old to get married.
Yeah, pretty much. They're only good to be ridden by young bucks looking for a cheap fuck, otherwise, no value for any sort of relationship.
OF COURSE NOT! Don't be silly. There is no "too old to get married" age.
You're never too old to get married. You don't need kids after getting married for it to work or count. My mom was one of five kids and originally only two of them had kids. Now 3 of them do, but all 5 got married.
Yes. It’s not a good idea. After 30, harder to get pregnant less energy and when your kids are teenagers, you will be in 50s.
The way I see my love life going, I'll be single until I'm at 30-40
My friend who's never been married before is getting married in November she'll be 41
I personly would love to find a single women in her late 20 early 30s the would know what they want in life
No way! I'm probably not going to get married til I'm at least 30!
Never too old. It's just that the odds are highly against it.
I sure hope not. I got married to my wife at 38. Why would marriage have anything to do with the age of a person? (except too low of course)
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