Why do so many woman marry in their 30s?

Question

Like all the females in my family married in their thirties except three of them and the ones who married in their 20s either divorced or had divorce scares throughout almost their entire marriage.

blank_expression · Accepted Answer

They seek marriage because the party is over and it last call, but it doesn’t mean there is someone waiting. They have expelled that young energy on career and now it is starting to feel like work. They are starting to plateau at where they will end up and see that they have the same bills that need to be paid to maintain their lifestyle. Their looks are fading and they sense it as the hounds have moved on to the 20 something-s. They feel being trapped which they are. They seek a man that they can control and has equal or better income for supplemental to have more square feet which is non-sequitur typically. Their fertility, basic egg count has dropped below 10% of being 18. Men typically are looking for a mother to be of their children but these women are stigmatized with career and jaded such that they don’t project the motherly type. I can’t imagine personally becoming involved with a work competitor partner that will add nothing to my life but tasks. Why are so many women getting married in their 30s? Are they? Most have ended up with no chair when the music stopped.

In_Trance · Accepted Answer

Before 30 is too young

Alwayreckles93 · Accepted Answer

Times had changed woman in their 20's don't know how to cook , clean do their own laundry and still live and depend on mommy and daddy's wallet. My cousin she is 22 she doesn't know how cook the most basic priority in life she goes to my family's house to eat, Now that is sad fr a 22 year old not to know how to cook. Especially millennials not to bash on my own generation but most are still attach to mommy and daddy and don't grow up until the age 30 . I have met people my own age still living at home. People from the 1950's 1970's 1980's were all on their own once they turn 18 parents were way to hard on them discipline them and teach them responsibility at such a young age. She woman back them were ready to be wife's. Now a days doctors Scycologist recommend it is best to wait for marriage because now a days 20's year old are still acting like teenagers. My grandmother got married at 22 with my grandfather my grandfather died two years ago. My grandmother even tells me how much it ha changed.

menina · Accepted Answer

Perhaps that's when they feel emotionally and financially ready to give such a big step.

rosemilk · Answer

My friend didn't want to get married after 30. So she rushed at 28, didn't even bother canceling her covid wedding when the surge of cases was up REALLY high and she's still not happy. She wants another wedding... She could have waited. But she was so adamant about not being 30 and marrying. I don't see the difference of 2 years but okay... She still has student loans and doesn't have a career in her field, lives in an apartment, and doesn't have much money saved up. And she buys junk constantly. I think it's better to be in a good mental health space, with money saved up, a good career first. But she's so concerned about what age she got married she doesn't care about anything else. It's kind of sad... Don't look at the age... Look at the situation you're in and if it'll be a healthy marriage because of the situation 🌸

MzAsh · Answer

It’s smart. Marrying in your 20s is a big risk because in general you’re still developing and not as mature as you are in your 30s.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Because women want to lead a life and find a career.

they have a choice these days to actually have a career and get a head (rather than simply give it).

They also want to live life, have various relationships, some may lead to marriage but they don’t chase it.

They are invariably more financially secure, emotionally secure etc.

piscies · Answer

There are people in that age bracket who wants to settle down but also to be adventurous and I am looking for a new girlfriend someday many people get curious to create a relationship to see them as a person first and foremost and also they like to be loved

Dinklex3 · Answer

I'll be more financially stable in my 30's and ready to settle down 🤗 The people I know who married in their 20 are divorced now or struggling.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I have 4 sisters and all but 1 got married young ( not even 20's). But I'd say if a woman hasn't taken that jump by 30. She at least feels like she experienced most of what's out there. She starts taking her length of fertility into account. When she goes to the clubs it's not that she gets ignored now but she typically not first pick anymore as guys chase the 20 somethings.
I wouldn't say it's any 1 reason.

exitseven · Answer

A lot of women concentrate on their careers and defer getting married. Also a lot of young people have extended adolescences and don;t really settle down until they are in their 30's.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they’re losing their looks and have to settle before no one wants them anymore, that biological clock is ticking, sorry for being so blunt but that the biggest reason why

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t necessarily want to get married, but I think it is better to get married in your 30s since you are more secure. It seems to me that people in their 30s have a better idea of what they want in life in general. I think most people in their 20s are too young to get married because they are still figuring important stuff out.

I personally like the idea of a unmarried couple being together for decades and getting married in their 60s / 70s. I think it is cute for some reason.

Anonymous · Answer

By the time you've finished your education, grown your career, had fun and traveled, the 20s are getting old. A lot of women only worry about children and marriage in their 30s although hopefully they've a man in place before this - relationships take a while to bed in after all.

splashmustache · Answer

Because a grown woman thinks more logically and takes better decisions for her life, it's my idea.

petrifythepatriarchy · Answer

Because they can and they want Marriage is overrated anyway. It's just a piece of paper. If you're in a healthy relationship, in my opinion you don't need society's validation

OddBeMe · Answer

That’s actually better than in their 20s. Thirties at least they found their careers, etc.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Thats when they finally get to old to ride the cock carousel and suddenly want a husband to pay full price e for thier used up snatch

Anonymous · Answer

Because they're smarter lol. Not only are they set in life (career wise etc), but have the experience to know exactly what they want and don't want in a partner (they know themselves better) and are able to make much better decisions.

Overmind · Answer

Because women want their cake & eat it too & who can blame them if society allows for it? Also maybe they need time to know what they want, women seem very confused when younger about that.

Marhaban-1 · Answer

Because what you look for in a relationship changes then

Anonymous · Answer

most women i have met can't figure out what they want when they are in their 20's. So that makes good sense.

acooke-13 · Answer

People like to live their lives first before that kind of commitment.. I sure am, I'm going to travel and find myself before settling down!

yoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyo · Answer

Maybe fear that they would have missed some opportunities to be adventurous? I don't know but that's my guess 😂

LadyCroft · Answer

Women who marry in their 30's but then brag about feminism and being independent are comedy gold for me.

Apple1996 · Answer

Seems like they get married that late cause they finally feel the need to settle down

Shihab91 · Answer

Mmmmm people no longer believe in marriage but sometimes they realize they are wrong as they get older

alance99 · Answer

I dont think age has any co-relation with marriage being successful or not so whenever a girl feels its the right time and right guy for her she should get married

zagor · Answer

Because if you want kids the 40's is pushing the limits of the biological clock.

UncleJessieRabbit · Answer

I heard somewhere that men actually peak socially and financially in their 30s, therefore they are considered more worthy marriage material.

StunningANDbrave · Answer

Epiphany phase, realizing they can't compete with their 20yo selves and are looking to settle.

Anonymous · Answer

Working on their career I guess as for me I see myself marrying in my late 20s 25 to 27 I would complete my study by 23 and than get a job etc

Zygum · Answer

Different people have choice, your family members have their choice

FreyaRed · Answer

they do what they want

have_a_good_day · Answer

it's when the panic kicks in 😅😅

Avicenna · Answer

They don't see a need to settle down until then

jimmy2 · Answer

One feels growed up at 30

NibirX · Answer

Hyper focused in career.

Twalli · Answer

They want kids

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