Saving for marriage and waiting for marriage is rare? is it meant to be special? are you waiting for marriage yourself?

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marriage is something I would like and want

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

@Anonomyous

I guess that's why you keep on erasing my replies. But that is okay. You don't want to hear the truth. You know I'm right.

So it's not my problem your sexually bitter. I wouldn't want that in my system. So thank you for spearing me the possible heartache. I can be free to experience that however way I want and DESIRE as a virgin with whomever I CHOOSE. And be happy knowing its with the right individual. Enjoy YOUR marriage. But keep your bitterness out of my sexual choices. Because guys like you would have nothing to offer me except your garbage. Therefore I am entitled to higher expectations of you since your experienced. and it is quite a disappointment. I don't know who made you so bitter. I apologize for the women who gave you the wrong impression about sex. But it's your life, your choices. And I am not responsible for who and how you chose to have sex or your poor experiences. That has to do with something wrong inside of your soul that got tempered with or abused. And only you can fix it before it affects your wife.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My parents waited for sex until they were married. I found a love letter they gave each other on the day of their wedding (they don't know I did, it was well-hidden) that confirms this.
I know that they were very happy about waiting for it, their sex life is great after being married for more than 25 years, and I honestly don't think it's that hard to wait.
I'm an 18-year old stunning virgin (so I've been told), and while I've had to discuss the WHYS with people my age, I'd prefer for others to accept it.
I have religious reasons for waiting until marriage, but to be honest nobody could check whether I'm still a virgin or not. It really is between me and God.
Mot importantly, I have extremely personal reasons for remaining a virgin until marriage, which I will not get into too much detail here, but they include not feeling comfortable in my own skin and being very vulnerable emotionally.
Simply put, I cannot have sex with someone before I become more emotionally stable.

markscott · Accepted Answer

We waited, and it was very well worth it.

Adrian2306 · Accepted Answer

nope nope nope

Anonymous · Answer

Sexual compatibility is WAY too important in a marriage to leave it to chance. Anyone should know that sex is not just sex. Everyone is different and you CANNOT assume because you get along with someone that they will be compatible wit you sexually.

Try before you buy.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

I will wait for marriage to have sex (or else be a lifelong virgin); it's the only way for me.

Manab · Answer

Most women don’t value men who wait. They treat these men as someone to settle down with after having fun in life. They want to be with you cause you provide security but never actually love you ever.

RebeccaSJ · Answer

As a Christian, I was raised to wait for marriage and that was my plan. It turned out to be harder than I thought, and I didn't make it.

Sabretooth · Answer

yes to all three-as well as to avoid std's drama, pregnancies, ruined red-and other things.

Gatman34 · Answer

Marriage is dumb

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