Consenting adults shoyld be able to enter any relationship they wish. If multiple individuals can make a relationship work, however that works, then good luck to them. Whether a man with multiple wives, a woman with multiple husbands, or any combination of men/women that works for them.
I know it looks selfish and all but polygamy is what nature intended. And So did Kings and lords😁. Many wives mean many children to carry the genes forward but The other way makes less sense mind you.. No matter how many husbands, u can still give birth only one child at a time..
So polygamous relationship where a guy with many wives is normal if you wish to be a part of.
Yup. But it's not everybody's cup of tea. if the guy is Rich and can handle things well, they don't seem to mind. So naturally very few such relationship in any society
I'm a very jealous person so polygamy would never work for me and I have a really hard time understanding how anyone could be ok with it but it's not my place to dictate what other people do. If that's what you're into go for it.
Some cultures use it as a support and financial system, but when it comes to love, it seems to be a bit unfair and unbalanced. At least in a heterosexual poly relationship, one person is getting all the love and the attention but can't reciprocate 100%. Anyway, I don't know how people on poly relationships do it. I'm a selfish bitch 😂😂😂
People like that are sick. The women dont even love each other its just a constant fight of getting love of that one guy. Its basically just a life where the guy has all the power and i dont like that idea
The guy is usually more dominant bc he has 3 or more girls behind him. If one girl starts to act up he can literally just be like go idc i got 2 more. Plus he can literally choose with who he wanna sleep with that night have sex with like 3 girls. Nah thats way to many privileges for a dude. Its weird as fuck
Not all partners in a polyamorous relationship live together. Maybe in his situation they do but not everyone dynamic is like that. If it's true polyamory it's not just about sex. It means loving more than one. The woman is also allowed to have more than one relationship
I may not be a girl but I think its gross, stupid, and is near perfect breeding ground for psychological damage. Much like huffing ground up mold & kerosene in moist dumpster.
What you're describing is POLYGYNY. The counterpart to that being POLYANDRY - one woman with several men. POLYGAMY is the general term to describe relationships with more than two partners involved. In any case, if all participants are genuinely happy with it, there's nothing wrong with it.
honestly I don't feel like it's bad or immoral unless it's like one guy and 4 wives. humans can love two or even more people at the same time, so to me a three people couple or something like that is cool. more love ^^
100% never going to happen with me. I don’t share nor do I want to be shared. It may be good for some people and I’m not someone to judge but as far as for myself, no.
May be good for the guy but not the females. The guy gets sex every night while the woman may get some every 3 days if she is lucky. I suppose they could have a foursome but again, that is to the man's advantage, not the woman's.
Marriage isn't just about sex, but even if it were, judging by society's view (though likely true) of sexual apatite, men have far more desire for sex than women. Your estimate sounds like a sensible proportion. Polygamy is not for everybody, not even me, and it doesn't have to be, but I don't see why it should be shunned when other unconventional behaviors are praised.
It’s not about being jealous I simply do not like to share. What’s mine is mine and that’s what makes it awesome.. if what I can have of someone, anyone can have? Then I don’t want it.
Oh no... I think it's immoral sorry. That's just never ever going to work. Unless you're born into it I guess it has some chance but it's so fucked up
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No offence but I bet that some horny man made up that polygamy was acceptable then pretended God wanted it. Clearly there’s some hidden motivations behind it
People who let their partner have multiple partners have no self respect for themselves whatsoever, it's disgusting and not at all even close to the definition of a relationship, polygamy just needs to die out honestly, you can't be "in love" with multiple people.
I'm fine with it if everyone consents. I would have 0 interest in this. It's a double whammy because the woman has to share and is still expected to be monogamous to their husband who gets multiple partners. So yeah miss me with all that.
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if you are into it then ok but i want my guy to focus on me and my needs x
If he still can satisfy you
It's fine for adults. They can do whatever they want. It's not cool at all when girls are given in marriage to older men.
Which is what happens.
Consenting adults shoyld be able to enter any relationship they wish. If multiple individuals can make a relationship work, however that works, then good luck to them. Whether a man with multiple wives, a woman with multiple husbands, or any combination of men/women that works for them.
I know it looks selfish and all but polygamy is what nature intended. And So did Kings and lords😁.
Many wives mean many children to carry the genes forward but
The other way makes less sense mind you.. No matter how many husbands, u can still give birth only one child at a time..
So polygamous relationship where a guy with many wives is normal if you wish to be a part of.
That means more single guys and guys with multiple wifes
Yup. But it's not everybody's cup of tea. if the guy is Rich and can handle things well, they don't seem to mind. So naturally very few such relationship in any society
I'm a very jealous person so polygamy would never work for me and I have a really hard time understanding how anyone could be ok with it but it's not my place to dictate what other people do. If that's what you're into go for it.
Honestly I feel like it’s an excuse to just hoe around and it looks messy af. I mean just look at Bhagavan Antle from Tiger King...
Some cultures use it as a support and financial system, but when it comes to love, it seems to be a bit unfair and unbalanced. At least in a heterosexual poly relationship, one person is getting all the love and the attention but can't reciprocate 100%. Anyway, I don't know how people on poly relationships do it. I'm a selfish bitch 😂😂😂
Not so sure I would do it, but there shouldn't be anything wrong with it if all agree to it.
People like that are sick. The women dont even love each other its just a constant fight of getting love of that one guy. Its basically just a life where the guy has all the power and i dont like that idea
How do you see how the guy has all the power. There are many different dynamics of a polyamorous relationship so each one is different.
The guy is usually more dominant bc he has 3 or more girls behind him. If one girl starts to act up he can literally just be like go idc i got 2 more. Plus he can literally choose with who he wanna sleep with that night have sex with like 3 girls. Nah thats way to many privileges for a dude. Its weird as fuck
Not all partners in a polyamorous relationship live together. Maybe in his situation they do but not everyone dynamic is like that. If it's true polyamory it's not just about sex. It means loving more than one. The woman is also allowed to have more than one relationship
Are u in a polyamorous relationship?
Yes I am
Dont know why ur only telling me this tho there's like 50 people under me hating on it
I may not be a girl but I think its gross, stupid, and is near perfect breeding ground for psychological damage. Much like huffing ground up mold & kerosene in moist dumpster.
What you're describing is POLYGYNY. The counterpart to that being POLYANDRY - one woman with several men. POLYGAMY is the general term to describe relationships with more than two partners involved.
In any case, if all participants are genuinely happy with it, there's nothing wrong with it.
honestly I don't feel like it's bad or immoral unless it's like one guy and 4 wives. humans can love two or even more people at the same time, so to me a three people couple or something like that is cool. more love ^^
Interesting to see a girl your age can think like that. I'm not OK with polygamy but still interested to know what you think.
Where do you live?
100% never going to happen with me. I don’t share nor do I want to be shared. It may be good for some people and I’m not someone to judge but as far as for myself, no.
May be good for the guy but not the females. The guy gets sex every night while the woman may get some every 3 days if she is lucky. I suppose they could have a foursome but again, that is to the man's advantage, not the woman's.
Marriage isn't just about sex, but even if it were, judging by society's view (though likely true) of sexual apatite, men have far more desire for sex than women. Your estimate sounds like a sensible proportion. Polygamy is not for everybody, not even me, and it doesn't have to be, but I don't see why it should be shunned when other unconventional behaviors are praised.
@optimized180 I wouldn't say praised, more like tolerated.
It’s not about being jealous I simply do not like to share. What’s mine is mine and that’s what makes it awesome.. if what I can have of someone, anyone can have? Then I don’t want it.
I would NEVER do it, to me it's exactly the same as cheating, but if other people are comfortable with it it's not up to me to tell them how to live.
Oh no... I think it's immoral sorry. That's just never ever going to work. Unless you're born into it I guess it has some chance but it's so fucked up
No offence but I bet that some horny man made up that polygamy was acceptable then pretended God wanted it. Clearly there’s some hidden motivations behind it
Assuming it's about horny things, what is the problem of this, but consider this that horny guys will like more to have sex without any commitments
People who let their partner have multiple partners have no self respect for themselves whatsoever, it's disgusting and not at all even close to the definition of a relationship, polygamy just needs to die out honestly, you can't be "in love" with multiple people.
Why?
Why, what?
I'm fine with it if everyone consents. I would have 0 interest in this. It's a double whammy because the woman has to share and is still expected to be monogamous to their husband who gets multiple partners. So yeah miss me with all that.