Why would my husband delete me as his background?

[Anonymous]

My husband is deployed and recently he was screen sharing with me and I noticed that I was gone from his background, our wedding picture was replaced with some generic plain background. I asked him about it and he said he did it when we had a fight. Im deeply hurt. I wouldn't just erase him like that. Am I being over dramatic or is this a red flag?

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

I'd be upset too. People fight but him deleting your picture off satisfied him as to remove you, in a way... I'd just be aware more could be going on. Sorry, I hope I'm wrong. Maybe he handles his emotions in a weird way

[chubbyperoQT]

I guess it's a red flag. I mean, if i would get into a big fight with my s/o i wouldn't be as petty as that. Why the need to delete the picture of the most important event happened in your lives as a couple?

[_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI]

He didn't delete the pictures he just changed his computer/phone wallpaper to plain default background instead of their wedding photo.

[Asker]

So what is your thought on it?

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

@_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI yeah but his response to do so was to remove her from it... and he's deployed so he already had space... who deletes an image of their spouse when they're mad...

[_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI]

Sounds like overreaction to me. He just changed the background wallpaper after you had a fight and probably forgot to put it back.. The photos are still in his phone/computer.

[Darkdevil_]

Oh dear i'm sorry for that. But it's clear, everything is open.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Darkdevil_]

Mmm he is does not love you

[Daniel_Dano]

That's sad hopefully he recovers his senses