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Why are people so offended when a woman proposes to her boyfriend? (Page 2)
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Because he still has to pay for the ring and she gets to wear the ring. So when she pops the question and he says No then she just wears the ring he paid for anyway and finds someone else to be with. Either way it’s just showing off something she picked out for him to pay for.
Meh, I personally wouldn’t, maybe if it wasn’t in public but who knows. Anyways, it’s up to the couple. You do you
I’m not offended by this. But I do feel sorry for the girl purposing first before the man. Cause it seems like the girl is more into the guy than he is of her to not purpose to her. Which is heartbreaking.
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With your way of thinking I could say it seems like the guy is more into the girl than she is of him to not purpose to him. It works both ways.
That was not a good elaboration. Can you explain it more.
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You talked about the girl proposing and I talked about the guy proposing.
Because people still think that marriage is something that men "give" to women, and if you ask for it, it means you're desperate.
The irony is that even though I would happily propose myself, I would never do so for women like that.
People are dumb asses. Why else? And a lot of women are entitled. You have to ask them out, you have to pay for them, You have to ask them to get married. What work do they have to do? Overall I find marriage silly. But there's no rule that the man has to do all the asking.
People are stuck in their ways and the ego takes over because someone does something different than them it infuriates them.
I look at it like this. Ignore the ignorant and enjoy your life who you want.
People getting mad about that... Wait till you hear about simply ✨not getting married ✨
It offends women’s ego. If one woman bends the knee to a man then it makes it possible for any of them to do it. It’s collective bargaining.
If they all convince each other never to compromise and demand more then none of them can be expected to do things like that or compromise. So women who don’t play that game are seens as scabs to the female union.
I should disagree with you on principle alone but when you're right you're right high five bro
It goes against the "social norms". Humans don't like changes, changes are unpredictable and our species enjoys having a predictable outcome of a determined situation. In a relationship, we "expect" the man to propose to the woman because that's what we grew up with.
It there's a problem about a woman proposing to a man? Of course not, do it if you feel like doing so! It will make an amazing story to tell your grandchildren
They are stupid. I agree with you. If you want equality, you should not hate on women/men when they dont follow the gender roles. It is ok if a woman wanna propose a man and it is also ok when a guy want to be a housewife
Who gives me a dislike on every opinion?
Your title could have used a “some” inserted in there because I am pretty sure this isn’t a widespread thing
I think it works. It was a general question. She didn't say everyone.
If that’s how you want to look at it sure
@Kas19 Yeah it was just a general question
Dont care about people just do what you want to do.
It is not my style... but.. i wouldn't care if others do it like that. Its their life. Who are we to judge?
People are dumb who cares who proposes? If they are happy than congratulations to them. It shouldn't matter. If a man can do it so can a woman.
I don't see it as a bad thing. If guys can so it so can girls :)
Its like the equivalent of a man trying to bully a girl into giving up her virginity. Thats a big part of why many people are offended. Women control sex and men control relationships. Thats just how it is.
Female empowerment and autonomy is only acceptable to the social media crowd when they are making decisions that the social media crowd find acceptable.
The problem of free will is that they are free to make the 'wrong' decisions.
Because women literally can't do anything right, according to men and other women.
When a girl proposes to a man to me it shows he’s not man enough to get shit done. That’s just me tho.
i don’t know any that get offended. probably because i dont pay attention to morons. I think it’s great, a girl should know she has every right to do that.