Get to the root of the problem and try to understand it's cause. Opt for a couple counselling and try to ignite things. Try to understand why exactly there is a lack of intimacy, is it because you don't find each other attractive or is it some sexual problem.
If you don't find each other attractive, then of course leave.
If there's a sexual problem, try to find options around it, if nothing at all works, then leave.
I've been through it. It's a hard choice to leave on the basis of sex, but it IS impory and a very important part and desire of life. I realised I took the right decision after I did.
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Is there any warmth or intimacy at all in the marriage? What are you getting out of the marriage? Are they likely to change our have you seen all there is?
People go through difficult period in their life, particularly partners. Sometimes you need to roll with it. sometimes you're just following a dead horse. Only you can decide.
If there's no kids, run don't walk.
If you were smart enough to get a pre-nup, then run don't walk.
If there's no pre-nup and there's kids, learn how to have an affair without getting caught and wait until the kids are 18. Then leave.
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Well first you go to couples therapy and figure something out. You married for better or for worse.
You don't. You don't walk away. A vow is a vow. Never abandon your spouse. Go seek help for the issues, and work on them together.
If you start to fell unwanted. He might be cheating.
Do you have children? If so THINK OF YOUR KIDS FIRST!
When you're tried everything and it has no affect.
depends on your sense of value
After being in half a dozen of them may be.
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