Is it pointless to get married in today’s climate?

[cth2188]

Why or why not?

No I have no desire to get married I was on the fence about it , but finding a mate compatible to me would be very hard less more marriage..

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+1 y

No I don’t want to get married and no I don’t want a relationship with a man / just want to remain single as I have been the last 8 years

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+1 y

At one point I wanted marriage I rather stay single then settle and due to this climate I’m not expecting it anymore… just married to God

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Nope. I think it’s important to think a bit more clearly before you commit to the decision and who you commit to. I can’t tell someone how to live their lives but despite being a child raised through parents who are separated and witnessing my own heartbreaks, I still believe in love and marriage, I’ll just be smart about it

[cth2188]

Ok thanks

[t-8900]

No. Some people want a life long soul mate. Some want to fly solo. Marriage will always have a point for that's that want to cherish and express their love. So many think of it as a business contract. But that's the wrong way to look at it. In order for you to even consider marriage you first need to be capable of trust and to letting your guard down and accepting that you can get hurt in a relationship. But the pay off is amazing should you find the right person for you. The exchange of vows is a sacred thing to me, even if society wants to scoff at it. Maybe you don't have a religious background and maybe you prioritize things of the world more. And if so that's fine, go live your best life. Mine is in the arms of my woman. May you be blessed with good health and happiness for all your days. 🙏

[Razp_Sorbet]

I like the idea of being married but my anxiety hates the idea of the ceremony.

[cth2188]

My anxiety goes up some of these guys nowadays aren’t worth marriage

[Jersey2]

I’m blunt so, if your age is correct then you only have a very limited time for kids which is a large point of marriage. You can find someone if you are somewhat normal but you have to look and be ready to be flexible with your spouse.

Getting married later, like in your 50s is just something people do so they don’t die alone. Families are great. I don’t know why millennials haven’t gotten married in large numbers.

[cth2188]

I have my kids from a previous relationship and no I don’t want anymore kids

[cth2188]

No I don’t want to get married or be tied to anyone

[PAcc92]

For men it absolutely is.

What do Men get in marriage? The right to lose half their property and be enslaved for alimony?

Yeah, pass.

[jasco]

Honestly I don't know, I thought about it and so far it just become more difficult to find someone, its becoming more difficult to get a chance and its just not worth it anymore.

[notwoke]

In the modern feminist culture there's zero upside for men. It's only good if you hate sex and money and like being trapped and controlled

[Rob17792]

Depends on who you get married to. The right one will make it heaven on earth the wrong one will make it hell on earth

[jimmy2]

Lol i hear you. Its still better in marriage but as God word say some women do not marry

[Julious0202]

no it's not pointless, i wish i could find the right woman and be able to marry

[TheFlak38]

for women no. When a woman gets married she gets heaven on earth. For a man it's a living hell