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They should marry traditional women. The risk is low and the rewards are high30
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Well, the thing is, you don't just show up at the church and get a random woman assigned to you. Actually, you get to select the woman far in advance and then you have unlimited opportunities to spend as much time with her as you would like. Finally, you can decide for yourself whether she is an insufferable feminist, gold digger, or has any other disqualifying traits. So, if you do your homework and you are careful in making the decision, I would say that it is worth taking a "rick."44
I don’t care. If someone doesn’t want to marry, they don’t have to. It’s their choice, but I will find a man who wants to marry me🤷🏻♀️
Also, I don’t generalize men and I don’t generalize women. Not all men and not all women are the same… Foolish to think that.24
Yes. I think marriage is very important for society. I think everyone should get married. Creating a family, finding a soul mate and having children is the main goal in a person's life. All other goals that modern man believes in are fake. That's why people today are so unhappy. Because they have fake values, fake dreams, fake ideals, fake goals, fake criteria for success. But it is very important to choose your spouse carefully. Before you marry someone, you must first really make sure that this is the right person for you. If, for example, you are conservative and the woman is liberal or vice versa, if the woman is religious and you are not or vice versa, if you want the woman to be a housewife and she wants a career - or vice versa - she wants to be a housewife and you want a second salary in the family or a career woman - of course this relationship will fail. Even if you understand each other well at the moment and the relationship seems happy, at some point these differences will cause controversy and anger. Therefore, when you are a woman, make sure that your potential partner shares your values, views on the world, life, morals, society and so on. Of course, no two people are the same and you can't expect to agree 100% on all issues, but at least on fundamental issues like politics, religion, family vision, you have to be absolutely on the same page. Nowadays, when everyone has social networks, it is almost always very easy to understand someone's views. For example, if you want a traditional woman, it is clear that if you see a woman advocating liberal causes on her social media, such as feminism, BLM, LGBT rights, or other things you disagree with, it is clear that this is not your woman. Given how vocal liberal people are about their views, it is almost impossible for a liberal woman not to be loud about it in her profiles and behavior. Modern feminist women, in my opinion, should be ignored and no one should marry them. But I believe that there are still good traditional women who are suitable for good men. If you find a partner with whom you share common values, common goals and common views on life, the chance of this marriage failing is almost negligible.10
Inside the red pill there are men who genuinely believe women will fall in love and fuck with the men that conquer their civilization. Even after they kill their husbands. In other words that the women in historical events like the raping of Nanking loved every second. And they believe this so much they even had this in a speech at a convention!
Does that means red pills believe they should rape women? Of course not!
Generalizations are one step into ignorance. You think all feminists are the same? My wife is a feminist. Never bothered me with any social issues, loves to cook, I genuinely don't remember the last time she denied me sex and does believe in equality. She makes more than me and didn't left me when I was unemployed for a while. And she is a modern woman feminist!
Some of them are literally everything guys want and need. But as soon as they hear the bad word "feminist" they avoid them due to that ignorant generalization.
I married her, couldn't be happier.23
Or how about going to middleeastern countries if you hate it so much that you can't rape your married wife or that she is allowed to divorce herself? I also think the modern feminism has many problems but whoever is mad at feminists for changing laws that allowed rape in marriage etc is potential rapist. Feminists also did not create these antiman marriage laws. They just change the marriage laws that was a life threat for women. The so called antiman divorce laws are created by men and not feminists. Yes these antiman marriage laws should be changed but stop blaming all the dating failures on feminists since it makes you unmasculine. Masculine men are not afraid of taking responsibility and owning their mistakes. I am middleeastern woman who wait till marriage and i am happy to be a middleeastern woman when i see western emasculated guys on gag who just blame all their shit on women. Then the same men who complain about women's bodycount and age waste women's youth and bodycount. Do not waste women's body count and youth if you are not going to marry her. Marriage is the only way to secure that a man does not use the woman for sex aka is serious with him. And to be honest i am not sorry for men who divorce their wives for being alimony although she was not toxic/abusive since he wasted her youth and bodycount and so decreased her dating value. As a result he deserved to pay a price for doing so. If men determine women's value on youth/bodycount women will determine man's value on his masculine looks and money. You dont like it? Then dont be hypocritical17
Maybe guys should get out more and discover there are lots of good women out there, instead of coming up with reasons to justify a chosen single life. And just because a woman has a "feminist" perspective doesn't make them non-marriage worthy. Hell, I prefer a woman who can think for herself and stand her own over a "do whatever a man says" bimbo. Marriage is a commitment and its success depends on the compatibility of the partners involved and especially how they resolve conflict together. Whether someone is feminist or not has no bearing on that dynamic.20
In 2022 and beyond Absolutely NOT! Men are not marring women anymore, they are marring the State and the Government. And when, not if, but when woman will get a divorce, Big Papa Government will step in and strip a man of EVERYTHING he ever had. They will take away his children, they will transfer a house (houses) to a woman, in which she be screwing a battalion of guys, they will force a man to pay astronomical amount of alimonies until kid turns 18, they will take away most of his savings and they will NOT allow him to leave a country until his slavery term be over. When it comes to a so called ""marriage"", women get absolutely everything. Their dream of getting married comes true, they get children another dream comes true, free house (houses) to live in after divorce, free money to support her life style through alimony and getting most of men's savings and a total freedom to sleep with the army of guys.20
Feminists are hypocritical immoral people, so not only should you not marry them, you shouldn't even be friends with them or socialize with them either. Why purposely be around someone that hates you and is against you having equal rights as them?
And on the topic of marriage, no, men shouldn't get legally married because the laws favor women that screw them over and steal from them. Women like it that way, including the women that claim they don't because no women ever do anything to get laws changed so men wouldn't get screwed over in divorce.20
meh, just being a "modern woman/feminist" doesn't equal a bad partner...
marry if you want to. no one has to in this day and age.67
Not if you live in a country with unfair marriage laws, you should reject them, and when enough men refuse them there might be enough pressure to actually get them fixed. Don't just accept the unfair treatment. Keep your relationship as you want it, don't involve the government until it is fixed. And if they get fixed and women no longer want to get married we know it was only because of the money.30
It only depends on who you going to marry. Men have to full capacity to decide what woman is Worthy of being his wife. Most modern day women are never good candidates because of games and how they choose to carry themselves. The pressure of marriage should not be on anyone, but each person to consider that there is more than potential to look for in a partner32
I think Marriage can be an amazing thing. I also think it’s a good thing that women have become more equal in society and not thought of as the “housewife” in a marriage any longer40
The same could be asked about equally bitter men. Perhaps they should avoid each other.39
It’s a legal thing. It may be advantageous or not. If a man and his partner are both working and plan to continue childless, it’s up to them. If the woman is going o sacrifice her career to raise children, then she needs the protection of marriage and community property.0
I think everybody should decide for his own. I wouldn't marry a men who is not suportive about feminism. And dont say "I will never find a man" sry allready found a supportive partner.20
I don't care. Just find your own happiness, fellas. Whether that's with a woman, or (like me) without ever having one. This world is too miserable to deny yourself that.20
I say marriage is still a good end goal so long as the woman is vetted properly and prenups are in place, otherwise you as the man will get rocked in divorce court if things go south.10
Marriage is passe. Millennials can't afford bs weddings and diamonds and useless crap. Marriage carries so much societal and psychological baggage that it ends up ruining many perfectly healthy relationships. Religion is on the decline and I hope marriage goes with it.10
I think whoever wants to marry should have the option to, and if they don’t, then they don’t have to.20
The costs have risen, the risks have risen even more, and the benefits have fallen. When something rewards less and pays off less, you get less of it.20
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My advice to guys is TAKE YOUR TIME. If she's in a hurry to get you locked down there's your sign. If you plan on being together forever there's no hurry to marry now is there. Don't let her pressure you. Let some other guy take that bullet. Always properly vet her. If she's bad she'll eventually show it.
Sounds like someone has been on or experienced plantation trap lol.
@GreenLanternI0I never heard that term before. Lol