Would you let the person you're thinking about marrying know your TRUE body count?

[Anonymous]

[Adronicus]

Sure, I'm not ashamed, mine was 7 until I got my first place at 19 then I went absolutely wild for 3 months. The havoc that caused I'll never forget. Ruined friendships, several divorces. Took me a longtime before I trusted myself again. That's why to this day I'll never pursue a married woman or even one with a boyfriend.

[NathanDavis]

I only have truth for a partner, and that is it... no fake versions and true versions, not twisting anything

truth and trust, it is

[snackthatsmilesback]

Why would I tell them a fake one in the first place? Okay mine isn't very high, but still, I'd think it would be more trouble to lie about peices of your past to your spouse for ever than to just tell them if they ask and talk through it if they have any concerns. That's what we did. Not like many people would immediately dump you even if your body count is insane; you'll probably get a chance to talk first at least.

[ChrisOfTheAlienRace]

What if I can't remember everything that happened when I was drunk at parties as a teenager?

[aided_]

i dont think hed stay with me if i did
i mean who wants to marry a serial killer!

[Anonymous]

Sure. Why lie about it? If he's got a problem with my past, maybe I shouldn't be marrying him.

[Anonymous]

Yeah if you're not truthful to them or if they can't accept your past then it's not meant to be married

[mandyfire98]

Absolutely, it's not that big of a deal.

[jahaims]

Mandatory