Is marriage dead now?

[Anonymous]

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I say marriage is dead now 😔

[sixofspades]

You just have to find the right person. Honestly wish friends with benefits was dead, because I do also truly believe that's all people want now a days and it's sad.

But no, I don't believe marriage is dead and I also believe loyalty and commitment still exist, just gotta find the right person, someone you can trust, but definitely never let you guard down especially not with people today.

[Asker]

Can’t say for sure but it’s a very slim possibility I might found someone. I recently earn her trust but I’m not for sure if the trust is friendly or more and I’m not very good on decoding peoples hints

[sixofspades]

Wdym by more? I'd be careful here, because trust like this, aka trust that goes deeper then just a friendship, like I'm talking true love kind of stuff here, can not only completely break a person by destroy the entire relationship, so know what you want from them before anything.
But I'd like to know if I can help more, what are you looking for in them, and what hints have they given you?

[Asker]

Ohh.. I get it now… and then her behaviors is starting to get more clear now but I wasn’t 100% sure until now..

[sixofspades]

Alrighty, hope everything works out for y'all and nobody gets hurt, good luck to you both.

[Asker]

Turns out she wants me but she can’t

[sixofspades]

Can't wha? Tf

[Asker]

She’s taken or she already in a relationship

[sixofspades]

I mean it's cool that she's loyal, and for the other guys sake, if the relationship is going good, I'd just let them be. Nothing wrong with just being friends, but strictly friends man - don't make a cheater, if you wouldn't want to be with one.

Also I get having small attractions towards other people is completely normal and healthy when you're in a relationship already - we are only human - but if she's like dropping hints and acting on those attractions, then I don't know about her man, I'd be cautious with her; she might be indecisive, which can end up with you getting hurt.

[Asker]

She sounds annoyed about her marriage when I asked about her about her wedding ring and she’s telling me that she lives close by. So I am having some concerns about it and thought about Keeping my distance from her.

[sixofspades]

Yeah I'd get distance from her, I don't know what yalls relationship is like, so i might be wrong, but it sounds like she's bored in her marriage and is looking for hook ups, distractions, or "spice" which is means she probably has a toxic character.

[Asker]

I’m not sure why she so attracted to me plus there’s why more better looking guys with higher stamina out there then me.

[sixofspades]

Maybe she's thinking something super scummy like "easy to get, easy to leave" I don't know though, maybe you should try and ask her; all I know is she sounds toxic

[Asker]

That’s what I talked about with someone else but yeah I’ll keep my distance from her

[sixofspades]

👍👍👍

[LazerBean]

No, it is alive and well among certain people groups.

[Guy13]

Until the country crashes under the weight of its decay and debt, Marriage is "dead" in comparison to Grandparents era.

[Asker]

Yep and all the black dudes are knocking up all the women from all different races

[Guy13]

Probably be a, "I can't feed myself much less a kid... how am I supposed to work if I don't eat... what you want from me?" going around at that time too... "Go ahead.. violate me for Court Ordered child support"

[Asker]

Yep that’s what all the women wants now. Their more superior now. From the late 20th Century you can easily find a very hot smoking women until 21st Century came. The internet, cellphones and social media

[Anonymous]

everything is dead now. look at the state of the world bro.

[Anonymous]

How can it be dead?

I'm married, and almost everyone I know is married.

[Asker]

Everybody I know wants friends with benefits or long term relationships with no marriage certificates. Women having childrens from 2 or more different biological fathers and more.

[Guy13]

"Me Too#"- I love that. And the first question is, "You want me to marry half my stuff away, Why... So, you can divorce me and go get the other half from the next guy.. NOPE, going to skip that ride."

[htmndg183]

Nope.

[Asker]

Divorce rates are still climbing and always will

[htmndg183]

Not in my culture and social circles.