My boyfriends mum said if we get married she’s not coming. Should I be offended or will she change her mind later?

[Anonymous]

For context: she said she’s not coming because it’ll be in Catholic Church and she said it’s boring.

She’s not coming

She’ll change her mind

[OlderAndWiser]

Call her bluff. First, ask her if she is just saying that to hurt you or if she really means what she is saying. Then ask her to explain her position. If she insists that she's not attending, then tell her that it's limited seating and if she doesn't plan to attend, you will send her invitation to someone else.

[Asker]

She said it’s because it’s boring at Catholic Church

[OlderAndWiser]

That is one of the sorriest excuses I've ever heard! I don't think she is being honest with you.

[Asker]

Me either. But her words still hurt. How can you miss your own sons wedding for something so silly?

[OlderAndWiser]

She is probably telling her son to not marry you.

[dynamicyandere]

That’s such a petty reason not to come. I think someone else will probably talk to her and help her realize that. I think she’ll change her mind and attend.

[dynamicyandere]

Thanks for the MHO!

[Asker]

No worries!

[Guy13]

That's a trifling Mother-in-law that likely does not think you are the one for her boy...

[Asker]

I hope that’s not the case

[Guy13]

Me too…I have a soccer friend yiu is pure Brit and Anglican Church who fell for Irish Catholic. So much happening there BUT 3 years in they are happy 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

That’s the thing we’re happy together but his mum gives me a hard time over my religion because they’re atheists

[Guy13]

Ohhhh, they do not want any “condescending religious person” Presence that demonstrates how wrongheaded and wrong hearted their Rebellion against God is….

[Guy13]

www.huffpost.com/.../how-richard-dawkins-lost-_b_6172040

[Guy13]

townhall.com/.../richard-dawkins-and-his-oh-god-moment-n1371850

[Guy13]

See if this does not Earn you little Respect but tested by Doing. Not overly accommodating BUT Tested in knowledge and behavior. 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[Guy13]

There’s one in The Beast and Guardian too

[Guy13]

I think: God 1 Atheist 0 will get you more detail…even Transcripts 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

Yeah but I don’t even bring up my religion with her for this reason

[Guy13]

👃 💨 💨 👃…..🙀. On your own now 👧 .

[baserunner611]

Grandchildren change anything

[Asker]

I’m not having a baby any time soon

[baserunner611]

Love chance anything, you witch for future mother in law. Don't say anything about this

[Asker]

Hmmmm