I’m ready to settle down and get married but I’m too young for this. What should I do?

[erika25]

I’m 24 and I’ll be studying for 2 years to get my master degree, but I’m done with students and their life styles… I just wanna live in a beautiful house with my future husband and future cats lol. I can do this while I’m studying but my boyfriend don’t wanna get married before hitting 30. I also want to make a baby in the next 3-4 years. However, my current life is far from my dreams… What should I di?

[Dawty]

What is a marriage anyway? If you are living together but the boyfriend having sex, what is the difference between doing this and getting married? Is it the wedding? Is it the paper? Is that the way your family and friends feel? It doesn't really matter if you're married or not on the paper. One really matters is your mindset, the mindset of you and your man. Now, I can relate to getting married. I am married myself. However, it's not the piece of paper that makes a difference. It is the mindset.

[SecretsofKB]

My sister got married at 23 and went on to finish her doctorate. They waited on kids but bought a house during her school. It is doable.

[erika25]

Yeah but he doesn’t want to get married now. lol

[ArtemisSilver]

You could always drop me a line, I'm looking for much of the same things in a woman.

Shame about your boyfriend but it's his loss for not giving you what you want.

[OlderAndWiser]

So you want to be married because of the lifestyle you think it will bring to your life?

You aren't ready to be married.

[LazerBean]

Find a man who has the same goals and plans as you.

[erika25]

yeah but don’t wanna break-up with him I love him so much :/

[LazerBean]

I mean if you're willing to compromise with him that's fine if, but that rarely turns out well.

[VikingWarLord]

Drop your current dude and marry a richer older guy

That's how it should be.

Younger women marrying older rich guys who have their shiit together.

[Anonymous]

You're never too young for anything. Some people get married at 22.

Do what you feel is right. by the way I just followed you, can you follow me back? I'd like to talk. Thanks

[erika25]

Followed back :)

[Anonymous]

uh continue on like it's nothing? it's not a big deal and with how much time you have...