Basically she felt like the whole thing was wrong. She’s very introverted, and I guess at one point in time her fiancé asked her if they had an engagement party who would she want there. She said intimate, just her and him, no big crowd. He ended up inviting all of her close friends and fam (including me), it was a max of like 35 people, he thought it was intimate and their families would be hurt to miss it, but it stressed her out and triggered anxiety. Then he presented the ring, and this is the bigger issue. She’s upset because the ring is far from her style.
Her and I argued a bit because I feel she should just be happy, and maybe that’s all he could afford. She says price isn’t the issue, it’s the look. She feels like it shows he doesn’t know her at all, like first the party then this ring that doesn’t match her. In a big way I can understand that, but maybe I’m biased because I know he meant well, and without much direction he picked the ring he thought she’d like. Now she’s contemplating the engagement, and felt put on the spot to say yes because she didn’t want to embarrass him. So now I wonder, are these things really such a big deal to be dealbreakers?
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