- You're still referring to her as your girlfriend
- You haven't ask her yourself ''Will you marry me'' with a real ring
- There is no wedding date set
No, you're not engaged. You guys are still just dating and enjoying the moment playing house.
It's a little concerning that she's gone ahead and purchased the ring herself. It would suggest she has wanted and has been waiting for this for along time and just cannot wait for you to get the ring so she took matters into her own hands. Unofficially your engaged she has bought what sounds like a promise ring. It can't be an engagement ring because it's not from you. To make it official you will need to do this properly. At least you know in advance what her answer will be.
If you've discussed marriage and agreed that you should get engaged, then you are engaged. Doesn't matter what kind of ring she has, or even if she has no ring.
You should do the gentlemanly thing though, go ring shopping with her, buy her a nice (non-fake) ring, get down on one knee and propose. She should say yes as you slip the ring on her finger.
You are engaged and she is trying to shame you into getting her a nice ring. Everyone is laughing about how cheap you are...
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u You should consider yourself "fake engaged." Is that what she deserves?
You should have bought the ring, it's called a promise ring or something like that. Be a fucking man and not a little bitch boy and go buy her a ring if you love her, even if it's not expensive. You don't have to ask her to marry you yet, it just means you love her. She will probably be really happy.
Dude, wtf is wrong with you? You are NOT engaged unless she has a ring, (a REAL one, from YOU) and an agreed upon wedding date.
I'd be most concerned about your girlfriend lying to everyone about being engaged... that's fucked up.
I would get down on one knee and propose with an actual ring just to be on the safe side.
She’s playing house. Until you purchase a real ring and propose, y’all just pretending.
In her mind. You two are engaged!
Might as well do the deed or hit the street.
You will become dog meat in her friends eyes if you don’t.
And why exactly don't you ask HER instead of us?
As long as its meaningful, it can be the ring out of a Cracker Jack box.
What even differs between a real ring and a fake ring in this context?
What is a fake engagement ring? She can't afford the Gold?
You guys are engaged
It's the principle that matters!
It means she is about to baby -trap you.
She sounds stupid and delusional.
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