Are you married, if not do you think you will ever get married?

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WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

Never been married before and I've been questioning the idea of marriage lately... like what's the point? Marriage does not mean a lot to many people these days. I don't think it is necessary to tie the knot to show your love. Just a personal experience, but if someone decides to break up with their partner, it is far easier to just go your separate ways if you were in a relationship rather than married to them. If you marry someone, you have all the legal stuff tying you down to them and most of the divorces are not pretty. It is also egregiously expensive.

I don't think I'd find "that one person" either. I lose interest in people (romantically) very easily and it's hard to maintain the connection for me. I'd much rather be in a serious relationship with someone than get married to them. Just because I would not marry them does not mean that I do not love them, but I do not need a piece of paper to prove my love to them. I don't want to have kids either. The thought of pushing out a kid seems very scary to me. Besides, I cannot be responsible for another human being for 18 whole years! I, for one, know that I was a little shit as a teenager. Kids are annoying sometimes, despite their cuteness. I could never put up with that.

Sour-rose · Accepted Answer

Nope. For both. Why? Because i really... reaaaaallly don't wanna deal with some dumb mofo who says he's going out with the boys and then he brings them and they party all night in MY HOUSE and just... i got this dumb n*gga, fkin' up me and my house...

Rapport · Accepted Answer

Sometimes I find myself liking the idea of marriage, but seeing how things go in divorce court be making be making me look the other way.

I know getting a prenup is a thing, but still, divorce court be looking brutal.

I know some people would say "tHeN jUst dOn'T gEt a DiVorCe" as if it's that simple.

Like the dudes who gets fucked over in divorce court ever expected the marriage to end in a divorce, I don't think any guy that gets married expects it to end in divorce.

The idea of marriage sounds nice, but it seems like it's a frigging gamble for a man to do it these days.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

never been married before...

maybe I will, that's something I would have to discuss with @MissFuture

at the moment, I am open to considerations, maybe I end up with someone for the rest of my life and we marry, or we don't marry but still stick together... and maybe we also have children, or not have children... I am open to consider all those options if they do happen to happen with the right person, of course

marmie · Answer

No. Maybe in the future, but i'm not in a hurry.

Before i get married, i want to make sure

we have compatible goals/values
we've lived with each other for a while, so we know what we're getting into in that regard
we've discussed all sorts of challenging topics like kids, finances, where we want to live, and other potential dealbreakers.

Emiliamazing · Answer

I am happily married, nearly 20 years now. I always figured I would be, so I'm glad it happened :-)

TroyDT2 · Answer

I will get married if I find out that I am terminally ill and my best friend is still single. Since I have no living family, she is my heir. If we married I could transfer my assets to her without her getting hit with any inheritance taxes. I'm not rich, but a reassessment of the house would make the estate exceed the limit.

ChiTown33 · Answer

No I'm not

While I like the thought of being married. Marriage is a lifetime commitment. You don't approach marriage lightly. The women who approach me typically have more temporary thoughts in mind. If I ever meet a woman I find capable of a lifetime commitment then that may change. But till then I'm just going to live my life and not worry about it.

Nessieeeeee · Answer

I want to get married. I'm still young, I hope I find the right one

beebella · Answer

It's not something that I can really see myself doing, but never say never, I guess. 🤷‍♀️

humanearth · Answer

Yeap, I'm married and have more then one wife to

Blackcupcake · Answer

I’m not married and I don’t think I’ll ever get married lol

God_of_Thunder · Answer

I am not married, and although I've always wanted to, someday, I have recently changed my mind. I no longer have any desire to get married.

Pink2000 · Answer

I am not married. I don’t think I would like to get married.

mstbooblover · Answer

I have been married for 38 years till my wife passed away. Most probably I will not be marry again.

Sixgunsound · Answer

If you’re not already married by now, at this point in societal development the future doesn’t look bright.

Lucy68 · Answer

No I'm not married and I'll probably never get married

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes; I will get married someday. If I don't find my soulmate, I will just live my life as a solitary man, and then I will marry a pretty 60-year-old woman when I am 65.

Jdjfjcjj · Answer

Getting married is hard. It's finding the right partner

Agent_Elflord · Answer

Thought I would, but relationships in general are starting to look less and less like something I want to bother with.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Not married, never been married, and im not rushing it.. I don't know if i want to get married lmao

TacosRAwesome · Answer

No. Would be surprised if it happened but I'm trying.

xJayleenx · Answer

No I’m not but I’m hopeful about it that it’ll happen a year from now. Hopefully I’ll live to get married, travel, and have children God willing.

Prettygurl12 · Answer

I am married. I got married when I was 24.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

If I won’t get married on Earth, probably in Paradise to Noura.

Mark987 · Answer

No I never have. I won't rule it out because you never know

MountAverage · Answer

Why are you assuming we all want to get married?

Lucifer_666 · Answer

I’m not married and it’s not in my plans in the near future.

SnowedIn · Answer

Married for 23 years.

Smartman5 · Answer

I'm not married yet but I want to get married in a few years

Twalli · Answer

No, and if it works out with everything involving my girlfriend I will get married

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, very happily married.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not, it definitely wouldn't be an American Woman.

Zolly99999 · Answer

If I find the right person... yes I would

bigpauly · Answer

I’m not. I don’t have plans to. Do you?

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Married twice

Katie1964 · Answer

For over 25 years happily married.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

Yes! I am married since September of 2012.

Summeroflove · Answer

No. Hopefully eventually

LazerBean · Answer

Yes, it's a lot of fun.

Bethany22 · Answer

I have a feeling I will never get married

BLP11520 · Answer

Married wish I was not

Agape93 · Answer

Nope nor do I want to be

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I have been married for 26 yearrs

Andres77 · Answer

3 times... i'm done

AsaKyo · Answer

No, I probably won't :'))

Sparkie460 · Answer

Yes im married. I've been married for 30 years

impalabill77 · Answer

I hope I do eventually.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Not married don't see the point in it

Fuentes · Answer

Nope not wasting my time

alance99 · Answer

I would like to marry a girl someday in future

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Nope and nope

eagle1951 · Answer

was married 37 years

Anonymous · Answer

No and probably not

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Married, never again

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