Women proposing: Do you think it is wrong for a woman to propose in a heterosexual relationship?

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Do u think it is wrong for a women to propose in a heterosexual relationship?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

She is definitely the one wearing the shoes in the marriage if he says I do lol ( teasing) I know it’s common tradition for a man to propose to a woman but I don’t see anything wrong with a girl proposing , I think it’s kind of sexy thinking about it , considering I love when a girl asks me out , Because it’s usually the other way around , I feel if a girl asks a guy out they have a better chance of making it in the relationship, only reason I say that is because Girl’s are very picky on what they want out of a man. A man can be picky as well but his list isn’t as big as a girls list lol , He just wants a girl that is beautiful sweet and caring and loves to have sex and stays faithful to him , A girl wants all of that , plus a lot more lol , So if she is asking him out it’s pretty much set in stone that she is really into him , from my experiences with girls that asked me out , I have to say they were the better relationships considering most girls love a man that they adore and look up to , so if she is getting on her knees for me and I am highly attracted toward her then I’d be stupid to say No

Oigit · Accepted Answer

I don't see an issue with it. Also I don't see an with a couple never getting married as well. In general a person and couple should o whats right for them and not care about what others think.

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

I think it’s desperate if anything. If a guy hasn’t proposed yet , it’s because he isn’t ready to do so.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Women do it all the time when they pressure guys to marry them and the guy is hesitant

Qdbrown · Answer

Thetre will always be exceptions, and not the rule, but if the girl proposes, something is not right. Is this a deal killer? No.

There are guys who need to be told what to do. And quite ironically some of these guys are well-off, have a big career, but need someone calling the shots. My sales women knew the types, and knew how to push into a decision.

If you examine the guy, he was likey a mamma's boy who was led to success by her direction. It was just lucky that he was in a place to replace a mom with a wife.

Now if you know what that is, most would say there should be red flags. At some point she is going to take more self based decisions that will generally turn the guy into a doormat.

lightbulb27 · Answer

I think it's messed up, or seems so. What does that mean exactly?

To me... women are looking for someone to commit to them, submit unto them so they have emotional support through creation of family. They are hormonally variable and require support to produce and raise children. If she's submitting to him, then that's backwards... what is she saying... I submit to the man's emotions?

She can counter propose, or start it.

I guess my thinking falls traditionally based upon the structure of the family and roles. There is a hormonal arrangement of nature is there not?

That said women can be very strong in their own ways and still be women or feminine.

ShellyB · Answer

I would not do it and in general I would not recommend it, but, whatever makes a couple happy is OK so I would not use the word "wrong" for it.

JPresidente · Answer

That's a good question. I think there is still something to be said for the traditional route of the guy approaching the parent (s) of the woman for her hand in marriage and then formally asking her himself. Not totally opposed to the woman trying but I think traditional still makes it special.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

It's morally wrong and offensive. A man should immediately dump any woman who does such a thing. It's about equivalent to saying "you might be a Virgin but we're having sex on the first date. Come on don't be a loser" so basically only scumbags

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Not wrong at all. Dawn Marie was proactive enough to propose to me, although she did so a bit too quickly. If a woman is just waiting for her boyfriend to propose instead of proposing herself, she needs to practise Habit 1 of Highly Effective People: Be Proactive. Just because it’s not as traditional doesn’t mean it’s a bad idea.

Anonymous · Answer

No. I got a ladyfriend who proposed to her husband. They've been happily married now for 17 years.

When a woman says she won't propose because it's a sign of desperation what she really means is her pride supercedes her wanting to get married. And she's probably not ready for marriage.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Not wrong, no. But I do think it’s even more important for the couple to be sure that they are on the same page before women try proposing than it is when men propose (although the couple really needs to have that conversation either way).

Summeroflove · Answer

No it’s not wrong. Many women do propose. Just maybe not the way men do. But some women do it that way too.  Many women just beg a guy to marry him. That’s proposing

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

Technically, there's nothing wrong with it but for some reason it just feels off. I believe a man should do it and some other things first.

BlueScorpio · Answer

Ita not wrong, it's just a personal choice. I mean if she wants to then go ahead. I think most men and women are still doing it the traditional way though.

melanieeeB · Answer

Of course not, a woman can definitely also propose! I personally just know that I wouldn't tho just cause I don't care enough about marriage

xJeremyx · Answer

No, it is not wrong. Its a nice gesture, in fact. But if she wants to do it, she has to make sure her boyfriend is ok with it.

Noahzaid · Answer

Where I’m from It would be considered weird and less appealing. I guess, You think different.

RichardoStyle · Answer

That makes sense depending on the situation. 🤔

Vikkrram · Answer

Proposing anyone can't be wrong if the intentions are clear

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Nope. Long overdue, but likely too little too late.

Anonymous · Answer

A woman proposed to me, but it was only three weeks into our relationship. I was flattered, but I was not expecting it so early. Maybe after a year, she can propose.

Solitario_94 · Answer

No. If a woman told me she wanted to marry me I'd be the happiest guy in the world.

I don't expect her to drop on one knee to ask though, cause that kind of a masculine behavior in my mind. The point is she expressed her feelings.

Zolly99999 · Answer

Absolutely not.  This is 2022 not 1773

Fireguy17 · Answer

No not at all, she may be tired of waiting and if he says no then she is moving on.

ChillaxingLove · Answer

It is wrong. Stop trying to be the man that’s not attractive.

Cubus · Answer

Yes, it's wrong. If the guy hasn't proposed after some time then it means there's something wrong with him

Marklaw12 · Answer

Not at all. It's okay for a girl to purpose especially nowadays when all men are accused easily

Luopio27 · Answer

Why would it be?  Why do men have to do everything?

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Nope. The guy should ask for your hand in marriage but it’s not wrong to ask if you wanna

Nandan1080p · Answer

I wasted my entire college life waiting for a girl to propose me. It was my fantasy. But unfortunately i have to die with it..

htmndg183 · Answer

Not at all. There is no fixed rule. Both are in it together and both can make the move.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Yes very wrong only sissy men would allow that.

nawtee_me · Answer

Not at all, that would be one way to get the guy to commit or leave…. lol

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Not wrong but makes her look extremely desperate.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Of course not. That’s like calling your pet a gold digger if they ask for your food

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing wrong with it, as long as she gets down on her knee.

exitseven · Answer

No, I think if it works for them it is okay.,

MadClown · Answer

Yes, only men do. Its our world. you’re just basically a tree that we pee on and call it our territory 😂👀

moviedude714 · Answer

I see nothing wrong

chocolatesinpockets · Answer

Unpopular opinion, I do.

JustiReno · Answer

I’d be so embarrassed 😟

Danny_dan92 · Answer

It looks stupid af tbh

AsaKyo · Answer

No, I would propose to a guy

Anonymous · Answer

Of course not.

Shy_Steve · Answer

No, Of course not.

Anonymous · Answer

nothing wrong with that.

SaoirseS · Answer

No it’s not wrong.

Midgetmcwidget · Answer

Yes very much so

NathanDavis · Answer

nope

Utopia1 · Answer

Not at all

WhitneySnow · Answer

Not at all

Twalli · Answer

Not at all

shortster · Answer

Nope

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Nope not at all

BLP11520 · Answer

Not anymore...

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