Do married guys get hit on more then single guys?

[WTFdivorce]

I think they do

No don't think so

[Guy13]

Whether a married or divorced man, they have 1. "Chosen", 2. "Can Commit", and 3. "Doting Husband" Factors. These are the ultimate Accomplishments and consume cash, job, and intellect concerns. For most, a 'once chosen' man is a considerable option too as there is one who has exemplified a seriousness about life.

So the lesson is 1. Never fail the "Degrade the Ex" test because now you can do what you failed to do "this time"... And if you knew to do it then you wouldn't be there with her now (girl thinking) etc. Regret is good but whimpering like a puppy is not good.

[coachTanthony]

Yes women love when other women have signed off on a man. It's called preselection.

[WTFdivorce]

Interesting definition.

[Subarugirl]

Hahah right, because women love mamas boys because they have emotional trauma haha

[purplepoppy]

It's the same logic as hiring staff. Do you take someone who's currently working or who's unemployed. If no one else wants the unemployed gut there must be something wrong with him.

If a guys not with a woman that's a big red flag. You just know there must be something wrong with him. Much better to pinch someone else's boyfriend or husband because you know he's tried and tested.

Even of you just want sex its better because married guys don't keep chasing for dates after.

[Kelly6]

Totally agree

[SnowedIn]

This is seriously brilliant.

[WTFdivorce]

Much like the coach said below I think the term is preselection. They are already tried and tested.

[findacure4wokeness]

@purplepoppyThe guy you pinched will leave you too for another younger woman when you hit the wall and no one wants you. You are also hurting the other woman aswell.

[purplepoppy]

I think we all agree it'd be great if the coach did a mytake on how to steal other women's husbands

[pass_the_celery98]

First of all, that’s a wrong analogy comparing employment to pursuing someone. Women are intrigued by men who are taken. The only guys who pursue women even though he’s with someone are usually fuck boys and cheaters. You have to be good at your job to have experience. Why is it that students who finish school can land a job even though they were unemployed studying in school? Because certain people possess something others may not have. I know people who didn’t have a degree or experience still land jobs that paid $70,000+/year. I could say does university have an age limit to receive a degree? No. A woman in her 80s received her Masters degree in Canada. But the way society thinks nowadays is that if you don’t accomplish a certain thing by a certain age THATS A RED FLAG! Women follow this stupid warped ass feminist movement and they don’t want to settle down. They care more about being promiscuous, lack of decision making and thrive off drama. I’ve had companies over look me because I wasn’t working at the time only to see previous companies take huge financial losses or go bankrupt, that’s the interesting part of life. I could give the example of an animal. I’ve seen videos on YouTube of a dog that looks like shit and go to a dog pound. But someone comes by sees that dog and sees potential in that dog even though the previous owner didn’t care about it. It’s actually a red flag when a woman is in her 30s or 40s and she’s single or has been divorced two or three times. I notice the trend on GAG that women find it easy to make such stupid comments about males and the guys and men on here don’t have any balls to talk back. So women say 🤔 wow we can belittle men and guys and get away with it 😀

[pass_the_celery98]

…yeaaa whatever I’ll call out the other gender on their bull shit. If you want to argue and clap back at my comment by calling me a female hater, a simp or whatever grade 3 logic you have, go ahead, but your post makes no sense. One thing I know about women is many of y’all bitch, nag, chase the wrong guys/men only to be hurt in the end…lack of maturity.

*deuces* ✌️…muting this post so I don’t have get any notifications. I’m saying this because I know people are going to comment or reply to my post by giving me shit. Therefore, just because I don’t reply back don’t think you’re right. I’m turning off my notifications, that’s why.

[username98237498]

alright then there must be something wrong with me

[RationalMale]

Interesting perspective!

[Aphrodite801]

Wow you people are stupid, just yikes.

[Aphrodite801]

@findacure4wokeness not your ignorant sexism being ignored lol

[jennifer_bloom]

The only reason a married guy might get hit on more than a single guy is the married guy might be more attractive then the single guy. I scanned a dating site for around 4-6 minutes and was amazed at how unattractive single guys my age were. When I was in my 20s dating sites were filled with very very very good looking guys and now the guys my age are hideous.

[CubsterShura]

It may depend on where you are looking. Probably in person you could get more women hitting on you but if you look online it may be a little harder. It depends on where you are and what the people there are looking for. Married women are more likely to get responses online because a lot of guys who only want flings with no strings attached find married women to be the best candidate for that. In person tho, you may get more women interested because they are already a bit impressed by a married man so they think if they can win him over then that's a win, that's not the same as a married man online because then it's clear he is looking for someone and that is not the same as winning over.

Finding married men more attractive is known as 'pre-selection'. I understand the concept but find it kinda stupid. Not all married men are good men, and even when they are good and compatible for their wives they may not be compatible for me. I can't imagine anyone consciously wanting to pursue a married man other than a woman who is either very naive or malicious.

[Mybeachlife8888]

What one woman will find attractive in a man is usually what most women find attractive. Takes care of himself, assertive, confident, has a good job, nice clothes or style, well put together, and not a simp when it comes to women. On top of that, when it comes to being married, most men make a decent living or at least have a good job. Look up the stats on what women think would be a good wage for a man they decide to marry and then look up what the average income for a man is. If you don’t get where I’m going with this, it’s that on the grand scale of everything there are is a small handful of men that are found to be super attractive by women….. and then there’s another small handful of men who might not necessarily be super attractive but they are marriage material. So yeah, married men get hit on more.

a little side note for you ladies out there…. When you find a good guy, you might want to hold onto him.

[WTFdivorce]

Good observations.

[Chazmatazz269]

I’ve known several single dudes who bought wedding bands just to make it easier to get women. They didn’t all know each other and i met some of them at very different places and times in my life. There’s definitely something to it.
Ironically, although i do know dudes who chase married women, i’ve met several single women who wear a wedding band to ward off would-be suitors. Mostly bartenders and waitresses, but one was a travel agent.

[WTFdivorce]

LOL.

[echoaj]

I'd say yes. When I tell girls I am single they don't care. When I tell them I have a girlfriend, then they want to get to know me.

Here is my theory of why this happens:

1) Single guys come off as more needy. "Something is wrong with them which is why they are single."

2) Married men are more approachable since they are more relaxed and girls don't have to worry about dealing with their feelings.

3) Women like to test a man's attention. It's more rewarding for a woman to get a married man to pay attention to them than if it is a single guy.

4) Married men have been vetted. They are willing to commit where a single man you have no idea their intentions.

[DizzyDesii]

Probably. And a lot don’t wear their ring nor feel the need to tell you first. So now a days i have to ask more than “are you taken?”. I have to ask “are you married?” So i can run away from the mf even faster

[WTFdivorce]

Or even ask, " Is there anyone that might think they are in a relationship with you?" lol

[DizzyDesii]

Omg thats such a good one!

[BazookaTrouper]

Some GAG users claim that "all men who are single have something wrong with them" for simply being single, though I've noticed they're all idiots who are on my blocklist. The kind of women that hit on men who aren't single on purpose aren't women I'd want, and fellas shouldn't chase them.

I don't know if the phenomena you ask about is true for sure (users on this website aren't a representative sample of the general human population let alone my country), but given what I've said in my first paragraph it shouldn't matter.

[Jay3344]

I know that becoming comfortable with women is more what women pick up on. If you’re in a relationship you might even be so comfortable you don’t notice your partner. Women like to feel the comfort that a man with a woman has. She feels it when she talks with him. So it makes her feel more confident and at ease talking with the guy. If he’s married I don’t think that helps but if he’s a good guy she can feel comfortable enough to have an easy conversation. That’s a rough synopsis of my take on it

[Sasha0426]

Both men and women get hit on more when married because people see that as a challenge. No one wants a single person because single’s don’t have anything that people can take. It makes it less challenging and boring.

[WTFdivorce]

Some do see it as a challenge. I see it all the time in bars.

[Asad1ONE1]

It's crazy how naive you guys are 😂. Most people in their right mind only approach people they hope that are single.

[MrNameless]

That's one thing, but I don't think it's the underlying reason. People in relationships are pretty much vetted to be more likeable and assume dto be more emotionally stable and available to be in a long term relationship.

[AmeerX]

I think single women and taken men are hit on much more.

[Asad1ONE1]

Actually, neither men nor women are hit on much these days, single or taken lol.

[AmeerX]

@Asad1ONE1 may be. Well, I think the biggest culprit is social distancing and social media.

[Asad1ONE1]

Yes social media is really one-sided in favor of women it seems lol 😢

[AmeerX]

@Asad1ONE1 not really

[AmeerX]

The problem is people value Social media so much. Instagram is so visual while gag is pretty decent in my opinion

[Asad1ONE1]

Oh well. Hope you're right

[NathanDavis]

I used to get hit on a lot more... when I was younger and also single, but that was because I had more time and inclination to go to certain places or situations in which is way more common for people to hit on people

I've never been married though... so I do not really have a way to, personally, compare one another

[Justin1019]

Apparently, yes! They do get hit more often than single men.

The reason for this is because many women are narcissistic. Women who hit on married guys feel an ego boost when they managed to steal a married guy's attention from his legal wife. It makes these women feel more alluring than the legal wife of the husband they stole.

[suzzieQ]

Lol dude you do realize then men are more narcissistic than women, right? Also women dont steel married men... he's a grown up, he chooses where he spends his time and who he gives his attention. He isn't being stolen; he's making the active choice to cheat.
A grown adult is responsible for the choices he makes, and should take accountability for the actions he takes.

[suzzieQ]

She's not the one cheating... he would be... He's the one who to a vow to be faithful. Maybe he should grow a pair of balls and some integrity and not make vows he can't keep.

[Paul_in_Indy]

Way to stay classy.

[suzzieQ]

Okay calm down, no need to get overly dramatic and throwing insults around. I will not tolerate being spoken to that way. If you cannot have a conversation and express your disagreement in a respectful manner without resorting to explicit language and insults than this discussion is over.

I am not justifying anything. All I am saying is that if a man cheats, he and he alone is responsible for cheating no one else. It's called accountability and integrity. You dont steal a married man unless you are kidnapping. he's a grown up and he alone is responsible for the choices he makes.

Unless you are implying that isn't capable of controlling himself, which it kind of sounds like. He would still be by his wife's side if he exercised some self-control and didn't cheat on her. Don't blame someone else for his actions, no one forced him to cheat, that was his choice. lol

[Justin1019]

@suzzieQ

You did contribute to him cheating on his legal wife. Without your seduction, he would still be by her side. Then he will mature, and his bond with his legal wife will be unbreakable.

Anyways, you seducing the guy do mean that you don't care about the legal wife.

[suzzieQ]

If a man choses to cheat, that is 100% on him and no one else. Unless you are saying that you can start deferring the responsibility of your actions by blaming someone else. Doesn’t work that way. As an adult you and you alone or responsible for your actions. Which means he’s responsible for cheating, the only thing the women he cheated on with is responsible for is who she chose to sleep with.

do you think he’s like a helpless child that doesn’t know what he is doing, lol I don’t think so.

Also any man who choses to cheat on his wife with me would not only be responsible for committing adultery but also statutory rape.

[hahahmm]

Yes. Also guys with girlfriends get hit on more than guys without. But if you're the type of guy who is a leader (or wants to be) it's not a plus for women to chase you since the fact they do that does not make them more attractive to you or make you more likely to get with them.

[misogynistic_pig]

Yes, women are more attracted to men who are already in a relationship than single men.

Thus, there is evidence that copy mate choice applies to humans, as well as being a widely observed phenomenon throughout the animal world.

[FriendlyCanadianGuy]

When my brother got married, he kept telling me that girls would look at the ring and start flirting. Some outright ask him for sex... It's insane to me , but he tells me he's never had this much attention from women !

Maybe I should wear a fake ring lol

[all_hayl]

No surprise in this prideful/arrogant/selfish world we're in. If a woman can successfully seduce a married man, it’s sure to be a boost to her ego (purely selfish, since she evidently doesn’t care about destroying the man’s marriage, and is more interested in her own “accomplishments”).

[EmyyWolf]

LOL 🤣

I don’t think so.

It’s simple if you look like Brad Pitt you get all the girls married or not. If you don’t look like Brad Pitt. What do you think the answer is…

🤣🖕

[MLGbreezy]

For sure guys in a relationship in general will get hit on more then if they weren’t in one. Cause woman think it’s attractive when I guy gets girls and if you got a girl they want to know what’s got her hooked. So instead of going out and finding a man of their own it makes perfect sense to go hit on a married and or man in a commuted relationship. Woman make no sense

[findacure4wokeness]

I had more women hit on me when I was in long term relationships. But would I be trust worthy for leaving a girlfriend for another woman? Smart women know they have a chance of finding a loyal man if she dates single men and stands no chance of getting a loyal man by taking him away from another woman.

[Messianic_Monk]

The married guy. He's established that women want him, therefore he's a good catch if you're judging superficially.

Now because a lot of women want him you ought to be careful because if he has options he might exercise them.

[MrNameless]

Yep. If you are already in a relationship, you are higher up the 'social hierarchy." People see you as a catch and vetted to be desirable enough to be around and more potentially for a relationship.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yes…

As well as men in relationships.

Little did the girls know that as soon as those taken men get tempted and act on it, they lose that thing, the other girls got attracted to him initially.

[all_hayl]

I can see how a women would try to seduce a married man as a boost to her ego. It’s utterly selfish - but such is the world we find ourselves in.