women want what they can't have why is that? please explain your answer.
Do married men get hit on more by women?
Do married men get hit on more by women?
Do married men get hit on more by women?
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If a married man isn't wearing his wedding ring and he's in a situation where a woman would hit on him, that's suspicious in and of itself. Most unmarried women wouldn't hit on a married man knowingly.
There's a pretty big misunderstanding among men as to why women show interest in taken or married guys (whether knowingly or unknowingly). It's not because she sees another girl happy with him and wants what she has. It's not because he's able to dedicate himself to a woman because that's just stupid. Women go after committed men because committed men are often better overall than other guys. Not all of the time, but a guy who is friendly, accomplished, good looking, and well groomed is more likely to be in a relationship because those guys are more desirable. Of course there are guys like that who are single, but it's much more likely to see those guys in relationships or married while the creeps tend to be single. So if a woman doesn't know a guy's relationship status, then it's much more likely that she's pick the taken ones on quality alone.
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guys that are "married" or "taken" appear to be more stable and women like men who are stable emotionally and financially in life. They also like the idea that the guy is able to stick with one woman and not be a player
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I think some people, male or female, want what they can't have. I personally don't hit on taken men, but I know some women who do. I also know many men that prefer married women, they call it "a challenge".
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Yes.
Women often hate to admit that they think this way, but they do: if a guy has a girlfriend or wife, other women think "She's with him, so there must be something good about him." It means that the guy has been "female-approved". That will make a guy more attractive to a lot of women, though MOST won't pursue it for moral reasons. There are always a few who will, though.
I always get hit on 5 times more when I have a girlfriend than when I'm single, and that's one of the reasons.
The other reason is that some women like to flirt, but want to do it with "safe" guys who "can't go too far", or at least, that's what they tell themselves to justify it.
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I think it's rather the other way around.
Women marry guys because of their positive traits. Perhaps women see in him exactly what his wife sees him him.
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Women want the same thing. If a guy has qualities that attracted one woman then it makes sense that those same qualities are going to attract other girls. It doesn't matter that he's married or if he's single. If he has what a girl wants then she will be attracted to him
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When I worked in retail during college, all the men with wedding bands on that came up to me appeared so much hotter haha
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maybe... but most women don't want to get involved with a married man, so if he got hit on maybe she didn't know he was married.
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I think it's the whole 'forbidden' they fantasise, if he were single most women probably wouldnt care. I assume guys are more respectful when its the other way round?
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no, I'm not a homewrecker. married men are often very attractive but most girls with decency stay away.
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I don't hit on married men. But I'm guessing its because he's got it all, hence he's going to attract more women. This is why women settle with betas. They are more likely to be faithful.
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From what I see yes. Not just married men either. Men who are taken.
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Yes because the girl hes married to must have found something attractive about him so other women want what she found in him
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Not only women want what they can't have, everybody does.
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Only if they are hot
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Haha NO
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I don't think so.
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