Personally for me I'd prefer to have a small wedding with just close family and friends.
Which do you prefer small wedding vs. big wedding vs. intimate/elopement? Why or why not?

Personally for me I'd prefer to have a small wedding with just close family and friends.
Depends if you mean church ceremony or party (sadly in English you don;t have separate names for this)
Small or intimate as large weddings are expensive and impersonal.
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I would prefer a small wedding. Obviously, I want my close friends and family at my wedding, so an elopement would not be feasible. I am not big on marriage, but if I were to be married, I would definitely keep it small.
I'm Indian and there are a lot of cousins, relatives etc. Once you invite someone, you have to invite their whole family and the number just keeps going up. I don't like expensive things... well, except for dresses and skincare that is. You also have to pay for honeymoon and other expenses, so for me, the smarter option would be a small wedding.
I had a fairly small wedding - we had less than 50 guests. We did it mostly to make our families happy - we really just wanted to go to city hall and sign the paper, and then have pictures taken in the park, LOL! But I am glad that we had an actual wedding ceremony - it was fun and created great memories. Itβs not important though.
Donβt care as long as part of it is in the church and thereβs a 1.5-2 karat upper grade 💎 on that finger
I selected intimate/elopement. That's hindsight being 20/20 and my wife and I are in perfect agreement on this! :) We loved our wedding, that's the truth. But it was HUGE. And huge sucked. And was expensive. And was a logistics nightmare. And... And... And... The problem was that once we invited person X or family Y, we couldn't not invite person Z and family A. So, it became a beast. Again, we enjoyed it but it wasn't, in the end, what we wanted. We agree now that we would have been better off eloping.
I'm a child of a big Catholic family meeting a giant Catholic family; if I tried to elope with someone, they'd probably kill me. Well, unless it was a for a very good "this has to be done now" reason, with the stipulation that we'd have to have a party later.
We had a big one, and we wouldn't have hanged it. We were glad to have so many people who have been parts of our lives throughout the years be able to share and enjoy our special moment. Plus a lot of those people pitched in and allowed us to have a relatively big and nice wedding without much cost.
My husband and I eloped. I've been to enough weddings to see there is always some kind of drama and the families want to control everything. I wanted our special day to be just ours.
I never liked weddings lol my mom always had to drag me to them when I was a kid haha but from the few my moms second marriage was the only good one and it was just a small garden bbq wedding
The typical Indian wedding which is always a grand affair that lasts for several days including many ceremonies. I will only get married once and have always dreamed about it.
Never say never. I'll not vote; but I will give my answer: I rather be single than be married.
No weddings. Just a verbal and physical agreement of our commitment to each other. The state and communities donβt need to know much
If I ever marry, Iβd like a small and simple wedding. Intimate.
I plan to just get married without a wedding. Then pay for a nice ass honeymoon. 🥰
My wedding was super small. Basically like a courthouse wedding but not in the courthouse
We had a small wedding. About 50 people. People that were there say it was one of the best weddings they ever went to.
Small wedding. Everyone dresses like we're at the MET gala and we eat burgers and drink cocktails and dance.
A wedding with people that matter.
Us and our parents only.
None. I don't want marriage
Intimate/elopement.
Because relationships are 1 on 1 private time so a celebration of a relationship should also be 1 on 1 private time.
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