It's not a should or shouldn't. The husband and the wife need to communicate and talk about it. There's a problem if the husband can't not have a drink. But there's also an element of childishness if the wife doesn't want him drinking. But they need to talk it out and figure out what works best for them. My wife and I had an amenable compromise with each pregnancy: I could drink and she could bitch about it. Everybody happy.
u . . . because not being able to drink alcohol is a form of suffering? And you are one of those "misery loves company" people?
If you were diabetic and couldn't eat desserts, would you expect him to give up desserts for the rest of his life?
Yeah I wish my partner would do this but unfortunately he doesn't. Makes it difficult cuz when I'm pregnant I don't like kissing or being near him if he's drinking or vaping/smoking
No. I don’t really get the point of that. But if it works for some people, it works. 🤷♀️
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Please now, if it is this big a deal then I am concerned about the baby having birth defect because obviously both are craving it.
I'm actually focusing more on the part that you need the support and solidarity of him not drinking too because it's that difficult for you to do
No that makes no sense
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