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So do you think the age of a single 35-year-old man is a problem to get married? Is it too late? Or let me ask like that: What are the disadvantages of marrying a 35 year old man?
At what age do you think most men start thinking about marriage? Is it after 30s?
that's not old? i think whether you get married at age 70 why should it matter? what's important is you're happy. i often hear thid that you should have kids early so that you can still attend their weddings or attend it without usinh wheelchair
but in my opinion the time yoy enjoy being a parent is when they're young. a lot of the kids when they grow older they will basically be preoccupied with career and finding their own romqntic partners that! s why a lot of parents are feelinh abandoned
the person who really wanna be with you is your spouse. it is not your kids. they will just visit you share a few sweet talj and they're back on their own lives. and that's not wronh that's just how life is. your greatest company in life is your spouse not your kids, not even your friends because a romantic bond is a bond meant/designed to accompany you for lige. who is the person beside your bed when you wake up and sleep is i your kids or your parents or your friends? who you talk most often is it your kids or your parents or ypur friends? who accompanies you in the hospital when you get sicj, who decides your life support to be taken out or not isn't it your spouse?
even the Bible would support that. i'm not sayinh you neglect your parents or children or friends. i think if you're a daughter or a son it's your moral responsibility to take care of your parentd. i don't have a sweet close relationship with my parents but if they fuckinh die now i will never be able to recover from iy. i will probably die of heartache and regret. but there's just nothinh much i can do for them atm so... anyway yeah if you're let's say 50 then you have kids what's the matter with that? there's a couple in my country Korina and Mar Roxas they're older couple and i bet enjoyinh time with their twin kids.
i think if there's one thing i wish the society would normalize it is beinh open-minded but who cares about the haters? i think Korina and Mar is happy and i am happy for them. for me they're even inspiration to look up to.
Let's see... 🤔
At what age did you get married?
@insteadfew Why do you ask?
Just curious
Honestly I wish I waited until then to get married, I probably wouldn’t be divorced right now to be honest , If I could start over , I would not get married until I was 37, or older , The only reason I say that , is because I didn’t realize my 30’s was going to be prime years for me like it was in my 20’s , My 30’s were actually great years for me , cuz I felt like I experienced a lot more by then , and I became a little bit more wiser and mature and had my shit together , And not to brag but I had my pick of girls’ that were melting over me cuz of how put together I was by then , and damn I was handsome lol , I became pretty picky on who I went to bed with , compared to how I was in my early 20’s , i became a Dad at 23 but I didn’t settle down with my wife until I was 27 even though we had babies together part of me didn’t want to get married to her , but I caved in and put a ring on her finger , I should of just kept the ring off to be honest,! but at the time I thought it was the right thing to do , but I lived and learned , So 35 is definitely a good year for a guy to get married considering he probably went through similar experiences like I did , he was just smarter about it lol Now I am 45 and don’t feel as good as I once was , but I still try
No I don’t think that’s too old. I hate to put it this way but in relation to kids obviously the older a female gets having kids which usually comes w marriage, increases complications as she gets older. Men can have kids at almost any age even in their 40’s as far as their sperm. I always feel as though the right age for marriage for a man would be mid to early 30’s. I’m not saying males over that age range should t get married, I just think by that age he’s got a better idea of who he is, his career, etc. Women can get married as well no matter what age so long as it’s legal, but as far as children that’s a different thing. Is this question about you?
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Not at all. Especially because men can have children at really any age. I think love is something you know when you know.
Some people get married young and stay married forever. Others get married later in life. Others rush into marrying the wrong woman
Of course not. I think that's actually a good age for a man to get married.
People nowadays marry or don’t marry at any age after 18… therefore, it’s never too late
Are you married?
Just curious 🤨
u Your questions are "all over the place." Why don't you tell us what is happening in your life and then we can comment.
35 is good as long as she’s 25.
It's not too old at all. He's in his prime. He should be mentally and emotionally mature and financially secure by then. He has had his fun and seen the world by then and is ready to settle down.
I had girlfriends from the time I was 16. I had no interest in kids because I didn't want the responsibility. I didn't even start thinking of settling down until I was around 35.
I finally met my future wife when I was 40 (she was 38) and we got married two years later. We've been happily married now for almost 26 years and have built a wonderful life together.
No, 35 years old is not too late to get married. People get married at different ages and stages of their lives, and there is no one "right" age to get married. In fact, many people are waiting longer to get married these days for a variety of reasons such as pursuing career goals, financial stability, or finding the right partner.
It is important to focus on finding the right partner and building a strong relationship rather than solely on age. Getting married is a significant decision that should be based on factors such as compatibility, shared values, and mutual love and respect.
Ultimately, the decision to get married should be based on what feels right for the individual, rather than external pressures or societal expectations.
No and most people view marriage in their late 20s early 30s ideal. By then you're fully established in your career, possibly responsible, financially stable, and ready to parent. A lot of people are waiting until their late 20s early 30s to settle down, and honestly that's ideal. There's no rush, enjoy your life now because marriage and family is a HUGE responsibility.
you can never say there's a cut off for a man to marry... but an older man 35 and on is likely to be more serious about marriage and less likely to take his vows lightly as in cheating which is so common and so unwarranted to their woman that they marry... so marrying a man 35 may actually be a plus.
It's not too late.
You asked about disadvantages. I'd say the biggest one is that they are going to be VERY set in their ways and it may be very difficult to get them to compromise in terms of blending their life with a new spouse.
The other thing isn't so much a disadvantage but something to discern: why didn't he get married earlier in life? Commitment issues? Focused on work? Aimless? Just something to look for because those behaviors don't necessarily change.
Usually its because the guy wasn't hot enough for women in their prime. 63% of men under 30 are single. 1/3 are sexless. STI rates among women are increasing at a fast rate. We have large content of videos on social media of women complaining about dating. The result being a man in his 30s is not a red flag other than he just wasn't born Chad. A woman however does not have that excuse.
@Lookingforthetruth
young men in their 20s are also unlikely to commit due to their lack of maturity. most guys like to fuck around up until 26
@Haha456 No. What what is happening is women by in large are dating a small subset of men, who can afford to date multiple women. Young men can commit but are often ignored by women in place of these men and kept on a shelf until these women hit 30+.
@Lookingforthetruth
So what? Men are the same way. Men only want women in their 20s
@Haha456 No. And data shows it. Most men are reasonable in the type of women they want. They don't put absurd restrictions on their dating pool like women do because they can't afford to. For the most part men just want a girl they find attractive, isn't a sloot, is loyal, treats them with respect and shows affection. Even the ok cupid data shows that men are far more forgiving on female beauty standards than women are on men.
@Lookingforthetruth
but all men on GAG say that women expire by 30. so how do you explain that?
@Haha456 Men on Gag do not say that women expire at 30. What men say is that at 30, a woman will no longer be top picking for men especially if they are high, value. There are multiple reasons besides looks as to why men won't want to pick women over 30 as a companion. Some of them includes decrease fertility, kids with other men, reduce ability to pair bond due to number of sexual partners, body count which has direct correlation to marriage satisfaction, emotional and mental baggage accumulated from past dating experience, set in her ways and mental illness brought on by past relationships aging.
Lastly, women over 30 aren't blacklisted by men for dates or marriage. If women are able to keep their femininity and beauty via healthy life choices and mitigated some of the traits mention previously that make older women insufferable to date then men will date and marry them. However, a lot of women don't and then they become misandristic, feminist who then try to poison younger girls into hating men and ending up like them.
@Lookingforthetruth
haha don't try to change it. No men on here respects women over 30. A woman over 30 is the LAST picking. By the time a woman hits 40, she is undatable!!!
men are the same way. so why the fuck are you complaining? you're just as or even more shallow!!
No. Usually by then they are mature, financially successful, more charming and better with women, they can still look really good (men can often age better than women), so women like confident, successful, mature, experienced men so often 35 they have more going for them then at 20-25.
U mean by then they are more financially successful and easy prey for cock carousal ready to settle down with a beta provider that has no knowledge of her sexual past.
@Lookingforthetruth
Well, if he goes for a 30 year old woman. Pretty much, in today's hook up, sleazy culture, any woman that is 30 years old and single has probably slept with 10 to 50 men.
You pretty much have to end up with your high school sweetheart to not get a harlot for a girlfriend or wife.
Finding some girl who doesn't sleep around and thinks of sex as something to do with her husband vs. trying out 20 other men and then settling for a husband is like finding a unicorn.
What you speak of... that is pretty much a given.
My dad had me, his eldest, at 35 he had been married for a year. It's definitely a blessing having parents who are adults themselves raise me as opposed to young parents still learning basic life lessons themselves.
So yeah 35 is not old and men are the product that never expires.
No you cannot gengeralize this! However, if you want to have a family, it's smart to do it before your mid to late 30's... I think.
My ex-fiance was 40 when he proposed to me so there goes your theory lol.
All of us, if we make smart/wise choices, will REACH the age of 50 or older! 40 and older!
It's never too late. I know someone two years older than me who might marry for the first time soon. I know a bunch of people older than me who have recently married for the second time or more.
35 is not old at all for marriage. In some countries, the average age for first marriage is over 30.
Men become more valuable as we age, and often don't feel comfortable marrying anyone until we can provide. That being said, marriage is a very sour deal for men, so if a man is willing to marry a woman, and he has half a brain, then he must really love the girl he's marrying.
A 30-35 yo man is just coming into his prime. If he has any sense he will not have bothered with any serious relationships during his 20's, but should be focused on his career, after he's stable and in his 30's then he can consider marriage, but should take his time about it.
That's likely when many men have the ability for the first time to be able to market themselves as the provider but likely will still lack the abaility to envoke the same level of sexually attraction that the more often than not, non-provider fun type of men do
Depends on where he's at in life. If he has his career together and his finances in order then I would definitely say yes to him getting married at 35 but if not then I would say no.
It's never really too old to get married in my opinion. It's all about having stability financially and mentally.
It depends. Do you want kids? A man's fertility period is quite long so that's not the issue, but if he's older he'd retire sooner. Does he have accomplishments? Is he financially stable? Does he have a house? What's the reason behind the delay in marriage, is a creep? Did he waste his twenties in sleeping around?
My dad got married in his mid thirties. It's unfortunate.
Not at all. Welcome to the 21st century where people live past the age of 35 and therefore don't need to stress themselves to be married with 14 ... or generally don't stress themselves about something outdated like marriage lol
Both men and women by 35+ are already mature and old but as for marriage you can get married at 18+ to any age. It is ideal for men as women marry by 35. I laugh reading comment like men can have kids any age or marry any age. Well news flash sand for women too. Oh wait you mean a man can have a kid even at 50? Oh that’s what you mean 🤣! And you think he will find a 20s 30s 🤦🏻♀️💀
who wants an old dirt sperm to have a kid with a 50+
Not me
That sounds like the perfect age to get married I’ve met too many men who say dating at 30 is much easier than dating at 22 and women can say it’s gross that men date younger women but they’re just mad that these younger women are belligerently pursuing older men and older women can’t compete
It's never "too late" to marry. However, it's often "too late" to reproduce. So, the earlier you get married, the easier it'll be to reproduce, right? A lot of women believe you shouldn't have sex before marriage, and a lot of people believe sex is really only to reproduce (like animals), since most animals don't mate for life
It doesn't matter what age you get married there could be disadvantages at all ages. If you're ready and said man is ready and you want to I would do so there's other things that come into place and factoring. It's not just age.
None, men's age doesn't matter like that in my opinion. What matters is their health, if they have kids, # of marriages and if they're stable/successful. Which aren't as age related as you might think :T
I guess I'm not really qualified to answer this question. I guess I'll just say..."I hope that's not too late to get married" (although I'm not looking to date 26 year-olds either to be fair).
Guys take a while to mature, some of them.
No, they are just getting started... I was crapola prior to 32 when I started to grow up. However I decided it's over rated and turning back into a child...
No of course not, that’s not even old. Some people fall in love at 80, 60, 40, 20, and you are able to get married whenever you feel comfortable doing so
generally if you're over 40, your chances of getting married decreases significantly (unless you are leonardo dicaprio) Most people get married in their late 20s-30s.
Nope.
I'm the same now physically and personality wise as I was at 14, and I'm still going to be the same at 40.
The only things that changed are my talents improved, my knowledge increased, and my income went up.
Women in the mid-late twenties getting married to men in their early to mid thirties. Offers more emotional and financial stability. Normal everyday occurrences.
You can marry at any age. No such thing as late.
If he or she wants a family and children, waiting until age 35 to get married is too old for a women but not too old for a man
You're never too old to get married, apparently
There's 18 year olds who get married, people in their 40's and 50's who get married, people who get married in their early to mid 20's, so yeah lmao
I know guys who get married after 35 one of my older friends, he married a 18 yr old at the age of 53, and his 23yr old daughter now has a step mom older than she is.. Anything is possible if you put your mind to it.
*Younger than she is* correction
No, I don't think that there is a limitation of age to get married. At least, there shouldn't be...
No I don't think marriage should be wrong at any age (adult wise) you find the right person when you find the right person
No, especially in this day and age. Kids have protracted adolescences today. College can go on for years and they don't want to settle down until they can buy just the house they want.
I would get married now if the girl I wanted to marry was still here, but now I don't really care. I guess around 35 would be fine
It’s never too late!
I’ve personally been wanting marriage basically my whole life, but simply haven’t gotten the chance yet. I’m never giving up, though. I’m learning what I can while I wait to meet the right woman.
Any mature age is aight to get married. The disadvantages of marrying a 35-year-old man are people gonna bully them if the dude is a bloke, or be ageist if the other one is relatively old or young.
I'm not sure I understand what you mean. How can it ever be too late for that? I mean, obviously there's a "too soon" for getting married, but how is there a "too late"? Care to elaborate?
It's less about if he's too old, and more about whether you actually meet his standard for marriage.
It's never too late.
And since you asked about disadvantages
One of the things I can think about is there will be an age gap with your children and if you don't deal with it properly it will act like an obstacle between you all.
Men will consider settling down after about 30 and up.
Men have more options in their 30s and 40s so it's very easy for men comparatively to find someone to marry or date or fuck or whatever.
sometimes the older the person is the wiser they are compared ro someone only 18 fresh out if hifh school with their whole life ahead of them but everyone is different so there is no right or wrong answer
I had relationships until I was 37. I'm now engaged with with kids. You can start at any age if you want to
No age is too old to get married and in todays world your life is just getting going at 35
No... most men don't even start dating , well stop getting rejected till that age.
No, one of my clients at work just got married at 65.
No age is to late to get married for anyone but it is to late to start a family
@Shamalien same but it was definitely a mistake cuz all my siblings that they had when they were younger are much better off me
@Shamalien awhh thanks 😊
Perfect age , maybe too young , he is well equipped and ready.
Personally, I think that a man past 30 is too MATURE to walk into traps.
Exceptions are the idiots, of course :D
NO its never too late to marry the right person ever.. age other then under 18 or 21 in some countries should not matter if its for real on both sides ,,
It's never too late to get married. There are also some people who get married at the age of 40's.
No age is "too late" it's about what your life goals are.
Nope I don't think it is... Although it's quite old to have children... But 35 nowadays isn't that old compared to the past...
You can get married whenever you want. It's a social construct, so there's no real penalty for getting married at 21 or 75. That goes for girls too
For a man no. Men start making a lot more money at that age and become prime real estate for younger women.
No, in the present culture that is just the right age for men to be even start thinking about marriage
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