Help I’m sad I’m not married & feel lonely? why all my family is married except for me?

[Anonymous]

I’m the youngest and last from my family. Everyone in my life is older than me. My step siblings are all older & married years ago. Even my brothers wife’s 5 sisters all are married now.

im 25 & feel lonley. I have a boyfriend but he does things slow. We don’t live together as he lives with his mom. Even my neighbor is same as me she lives with her mom or sometimes alone & her boyfriend just visits like mine does & we aren’t married.

I worry as my parents are old & everyone is set for life married & im alone not living with boyfriend so he can take care of me daily 😔 I have baby fever too. I don't know when or if it’s even seen I’ll be married in future or what age 26,28, I don't know. But I feel sad & dull in life lately

[DownInTheDumps]

Why be sad as someone else mentioned marriages today end up in divorce or it could be worse like me. Be cheated on after you get married and than get dumped right around the time you find out you are pregnant.

[Asker]

Yea but my family r all married and never divorced. So my parents r angry I’m not married and compare me to them. They focus a lot on my brothers wife’s 5 sisters as they all r married too. But I follow my boyfriend in his life , I shudnt care about those sisters. My life isn’t those sisters life’s my life is inside bfs life

[Asker]

Only people divorced is my parents as my dad cheated on my mom while she was pregnant & beat her. But they still compare me & angry I’m not married at 25. Eveyone in my fmaily is older no one is 25 my age. I’m the last youngest person left I feel alone

[Anonymous]

after the months you've posted this, you'd think you'd get your life together or get a new boyfriend who wants to live with you and marry you. but nope... instead you stay stuck, willingly.

[msc545]

Marriage is a problems 70% of the time (divorce), not a goal. Don't be in such a rush,

[Asker]

My family are angry I’m not married and show off how everyone is married except for me they compare me 😔 no one in my fmaily is married so even more they believe divorce don’t exist.

[msc545]

They can believe that all they want but it is untrue. Don't let them rush you into anything - you are the one who will suffer in aa divorce - not them.

[Asker]

I can’t see my family as they are all happy have a husband follow them everywhere and buying. Home showing off thier ring. I cannot attend holiday or family parties with them as I’ll be the only one alone and everyone will be with thier husband and I’ll be a loser alone 😔

[msc545]

Just find a random guy and take him, or better yet - don't go.

[Asker]

My boyfriend wudnt go he’s not a party guy , he’s more low key , also I follow my boyfriend into his life so I doubt he’ll be at my brothers wife’s families house for the party. Also it don’t make sense as I don't know any girsl going to their brothers wife’s sisters parties. My brother married them not my boyfriend. So I shudnt even be following my brothers wife’s families parties…. If that makes sense…

[Asker]

My brother follows his wife’s life and I follow my bfs life. Cuz u know wen u have a partner either he follows your life or she follows his life? so yea but I cannot go everyone is married so I cannot attend their parties anymore I would be weird little girl just bored alone watching everyone mingle with their husband laughing having good time

[msc545]

yes ok just don't go.

[In_Trance]

So what are you doing about it?

[Asker]

I hav to wait if boyfriend marries me in future in coming years

[In_Trance]

alright

[Danny_dan92]

Shit happens