Tips on how to be single mom?

[Sugar100]

I’m not the lucky person that will be married and have kids. Only lucky people get married and all my step siblings got good luck and married first boyfriend they had fast young age. I’ll be 26 no baby. I will never be proposed to by guy I love. So I don’t believe you need marry first then have baby. It’s not my destiny to get married so I will be miserable without my baby. I already have bad baby fever and empty in life as I’m a grown women now. Aside from savings what other advice do you single moms have?

[Anonymous]

My entire life I had always wanted to be a mum I even said if it didn't happen by the time I was 30 it would never happen for me but at the age of 36 I gave birth to my first and only child. You will one day become a mum but you need to get out of the negative head space of yours.

Tips on how to be a single mum. Don't do it if you will have absolutely no help at all. I am a single mum with no help at all and it has been extremely hard at times. There are times where I cannot shower because my baby is clinging to me and the very moment I put them down they are crying. Same thing when it comes to eating. If you get your baby vaccinated be prepared to spend the entire night away comforting them because my baby spent majority of the night screaming crying like she was being murdered. You have to also deal with possible reflux which can and does cause the baby to be in pain and uncomfortable. There is also the spitting up the constant changing of clothes as the spitting up gets on their clothes and they also have blow outs

If you plan on being pregnant you will need help if you have to have a caesarean or even a forceps birth. I had a forceps birth and I was stuck in bed for 2 days

Being a single mum with no help at all and no support is extremely hard

[Sugar100]

I understand but I have bad luck I won’t be perfect girl with perfect husband glued next to me that won’t happen 😞 I never got married only my siblings got proposed to by first boyfriend they love and had

[Opinion Owner]

You need to stop this negativity being negative no good thongs will happen

[glennos89]

Don't think like that please!! You are only 26 so you still have enough years left to find yourself a soutable husband...

You have absolutely no idea how many men are arround their 30-35 age and who also didn't find their destination for a long term relationship...

Im 33 and I also didn't find my woman yet. Online dating screwed everything up. People struggle to find their companion but you can't give up!

I understand you expected to be settled at your age, so did I. It took me a while to process it because I felt I had failed. But honestly... giving up on true love is the real and only failure.

There is nothing wrong with a woman who is 35 and having here first baby!!!
Ok it might be a little later then you had hoped, but heee... who cares? Your not going to be less happy then someone who is in their early 20's having her first baby. Just accept that your going to be a little later but never give up your hope. Keep trying is not a failure! Giving up is!!! 🫶

[exitseven]

The best advice would be don't do it. It is selfish to bring somebody into the world and not have two parents to raise him/her. If you are honest with yourself you will see thst it is selfish.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Summeroflove]

You’re gonna create a mess. But I have a feeling that you don’t want a honest answer. Because I think I have dealt with you before.

[Sugar100]

Im not seen get married. So I don't know what ur mad. U don’t get it cuz ur a guy. Only women get bad urges to have baby it’s to point we r miserable without our baby. It’s a womens dream have baby

[Sugar100]

I know mostly 90 percent of women are divorced or single moms. Only lucky girls get perfect life with guy glued to her daily

[Summeroflove]

I’m not angry. It’s just that if I say you shouldn’t have a baby out of wedlock. You want to argue about it.

[Sugar100]

Millions of girls have babies. Tell those millions of girls to not have babies

[Summeroflove]

Maybe those women are……. Doing something that they find the right man, keep him, and can get through the hardest of times.

[Summeroflove]

It’s not just luck…

[Summeroflove]

Well I’m not gonna tell them. Sometimes things happen. But those millions of girls have been through a lot as single mothers…

[Sugar100]

U need good luck to get married lol stop forcing me to get married when it’s not in my destiny

[Summeroflove]

I’m not forcing you to get married. What I am saying is…. You’re missing the point. Maybe those women are doing something that they find the right men and keep them…. Unlike some women

[Sugar100]

They married first boyfriend they had u can’t tell me that’s not good luck. They didn’t have 100 bfs looking for million guys

[Sugar100]

Everything happened perfect for their life they have good luck and god chose me to have bad luck and never be married

[Summeroflove]

Well. Maybe they find who works for them. Maybe luck has something to do with it. But. See you want the answer you want to hear or you wanna argue to get the answer you want to hear

[Summeroflove]

Well…. How did they get their boyfriends? How do they treat them…. Etc etc.

[clampfan101]

What makes you think you’ll never get lucky enough to marry? I’m almost 10 years older and still not giving up. I’m never giving up until I find my SO.

[BCRanger10]

What makes you so certain of all this?