I recently got engaged and my wedding is next year in July. When everyone at my work found out they were all super excited for me. I'm very popular at work and I'm not exactly used to it as I've always struggled in the past to fit in but some of my colleagues at my current work place are like family to me.
Of course I'd really like to invite some people from work but some people are talking to me as if they're already invited.
For instance im in a group of friends at work I like all of them besides one guy in the group. This group also used to include this hid now ex girlfriend who he had a baby with.
They're both very young at only 21/22 but they had a very toxic on and off relationship but now they are done.
I warned this guy but if he didn't start treating her right she'd leave him. He's always spending all his time and money down the pub, even back when he was with her. He'd leave work early too when she was on maternity to go pub.
Then they broke up and he made her out to be crazy and him to be the victim at work. I was the only one calling bull shit. I'm saw she was no angle herself but there's alway two stories to these things. I told him I wasn't gonna take sides.
When she came back to work I realise she was abit of a lair and annoying but she still wanted to be my friend and I felt bad for her. We got talking about her ex and she told me how he treated her and already can see he's a dead beat dad myself. I felt even more pity for her as she's pretty much a single mother with no support from him and he's turned everyone against her. I told her how I actually really don't like her ex. She asked me to invite her to my wedding and not her ex to get back at him.
I thought to myself that it was kinda petty and my wedding is not about them plus I find them both kinda embarrassing but I do feel sorry for her even if I don't really like her.
Her ex would be really upset if he wasn't invited to my wedding as he thinks we're good friends and he's given me lifts out before and stuff. Everytime he see me he shout my name out of excitement and seems really happy to see me but I don't agree with who he is as a person he does drugs, drinks to much and he's a shit dad.
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