Grandma wants me married, I don't?

[Anonymous]

I told her I'm not interested in marriage and I don't have the patience or the energy for that or dating

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How to stop her pushing me for marriage?

[Anonymous]

It's okay to have different preferences. It might be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your grandma about your feelings and priorities. Communication can help others understand your perspective.

[Asker]

No grandma is toxic along with other family members - next month we will be gone

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sorry to hear that you're dealing with toxicity in your family. It's important to prioritize your well-being. If distancing yourself is necessary for your mental and emotional health, taking that step can be a valid choice. Surround yourself with supportive people who understand and respect your decisions.

[SolsticeSnow]

But... you're not even even in a relationship? I'd say 'I'm single so marriage isn't relevant. I'm not even daring right now because I don't enjoy it. So... gonna stop banging on about weddings granny?'.

[Asker]

I'm never gonna date and would rather be single indefinitely

[ThrillSeeker01]

Don't be forced into something you don't want.

[riverrat3]

Your life, not hers

[Asker]

Exactly just told her again I'm not getting married nor want to date - not worth it nowadays

[riverrat3]

I understand that

[Asker]

She knows I'm getting ready to move again and pressed about it... she'll be ok

[riverrat3]

What do you do for fun

[Asker]

Well I live a private life and focused on careers and stuff

[Asker]

My time is devoted to career and finances

[Asker]

Fun includes family and myself