i am 30 years old, my mom keeps pressuring me to get married. if it were that simple, i would of already been married. i told my mom, its not fair for you to pressure me when i havn't found the right guy yet. she said, you would of already had 3 kids by now, its not good to have kids after age 35. funny part is, were are middle eastern and SHE GOT MARRIED AT 30 which was even more frowned upon back in the day and i know she got desperate and married my father and she has a miserable marriage with him. something else, i dont even look 30, everyone thinks im 22 or 25. i just dont know what to do, how is that fair to me when it is not in my hands. it makes me feel bad about myself and it makes me feel bad for being single... i would love to meet the man of my dreams and i dont know why it has taken so long. all the guys I've talked to were not THE ONE.