Girls, is there anyone so lucky to have a husband who understood u and u r having the happiest married life even when u weren't virgin when u married?

[Anonymous]

[sawno]

Virginity isn't important to me and I am the guy who is insanely loyal and wants to build a deep meaningful relationship. Not the biggest on marriage though since its not the same as it used to be when things were balanced.

[KrakenAttackin]

@sawno. We were all once like you my friend.

[sawno]

@KrakenAttackin What stopped you?

[KrakenAttackin]

@sawno. You can be the best, most faithful, attentive, loving man possible; and a woman's feelings for you can suddenly switch off. Being a good man and loving partner is absolutely no guarantee a woman will reciprocate.

[sawno]

@KrakenAttackin Doesn't stop me, I had an absolute dream relationship and out of nowhere it indeed turned sour due to reasons beyond my direct control. But it only motivates me to find something like that again. Sure the heartbreak sucked heavily but that healed and I'm capable of doing it all over again if I have to. So the risk of a heartbreak in exchange for what I desire most is a risk I am willing to take.

[KrakenAttackin]

@sawno. The key words are "beyond your control". These days the risk is more than just a broken heart, there are very real social consequences and potentially civil/criminal consequences should an unbalanced women go that route.

[sawno]

@KrakenAttackin I didn't have any bad outcomes other than loosing her. The bad ones you'd need to vet early on. In my case I met her online and we did the texting -> audio -> video -> in person route. Thats pretty safe since I knew her very well prior to meeting her.

[KrakenAttackin]

@sawno. Times are certainly different. I wish you well.

[Nikki1989]

What does being a virgin have to do with anything?

And yes, we have been very happy for over 8 years.