Boyfriend said he won’t propose marriage until he gets to meet my male friend?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend are serious about eachother, and we’ve spoken about marriage before. He wants to marry me and I want to marry him.

However, I have a male friend who I text quite a lot. He sends me memes, tells me about what he does in his day etc. He’s never met him before but he thinks this male friend is interested in me.

He wants to meet this man and said he won’t propose before he’s comfortable. Should I arrange a meet up to please my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Yes of course. If there’s nothing between you and your friend on your part than it shouldn’t be an issue. Now I can’t say the same for your friend. Most men know that when a man is friends w a female it’s cause he wants something more from her than just a “friendship.” So maybe he wants to feel him out, not literally but get an idea of what he’s like as well as feel you out w how you are around him. Me sing if we have troubles in our marriage are you going to run to this dude which a lot of women tend to do especially if he’s been in your life for a while. Possibly a red flag to your boyfriend.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you think there is some significant part of your life that you should hide from your future husband, you are not ready for marriage.

[jshm2]

Well... it's a complex one.

Could be your "friend" is into you, but you are not into him. But it seems your boyfriend is more interested to know if you are likely to cheat on him.

[Lara_Croft]

Are you honest with your boyfriend? Are you pretending to not like the attention the friend gives? Be honest with yourself and your boyfriend. God loves you

[Zestyassmf1997]

Yeah. It’s a fairly small request.

[Anonymous]

It's a reasonable request. Honour it.

[kingmaker21]

Nice so you have only one male friend?