If a best friend who is married and have kids, but her husband doesn’t know 2 of her kids are not his, will you till him?

[Kelly6]

[Altheavas]

Ooh man, none of my business.
Vice/Versa

I am in a situation like this too my father (step father) passed away last year. Just this week his son my younger brother, discovered he has a child the same age as he is from his home town.


I don’t know shit, I didn’t hear none. I ain’t telling my mother none. She needs to move on with her life. Am I wrong? 😰😰😰😰

[Kelly6]

@Altheavas
that's the best decision

[electromagnetic]

It’s none of my business.

[OlderAndWiser]

How do you know they are not his kids? How does SHE know they are not his kids?

Usually, getting in the middle of something like this ends badly, but I feel great sympathy for the woman's husband! Will he believe you if you tell him?

[Kelly6]

@OlderAndWiser
lets say she knows the guy who is real father

[OlderAndWiser]

And she wasn't also having sex with her husband in the same time period?

[Kelly6]

yes.

[AviatorTom]

Nope. I stay out of other peoples' business. Besides, he may already know that.

[Lliam]

Nope. It's none of my business and no one would benefit. It would harm the husband, wife and probably the kids. And I would be the rat who caused it all. Wow, good job. And for what? To prove to myself that I'm a super moral? A do-gooder? No, it would make me meddling, sanctimonious piece of shit.

How would I even know the circumstances or the dynamics of their marriage? I'd just be judging the wife, probably because I have my own women's issues.

Fuck that faggoty "bro" bullshit. Let the guy live his life.

[Kelly6]

@Lliam
so far the best answer

[1millonlies]

I mean some would argue it’s none of their business. But I would say it’s the right thing to do. Just be prepared for friendships to fail. And the husband might not believe it. But his mind will get the better of him and he’ll look for it himself eventually.

[Kelly6]

@1millonlies
Very few will do that

[ArrowheadSW]

Interesting ethical dilemma. But I wouldn't tell him. Assuming one could tell with certainty that this is the case, it wouldn't be up to me to reveal it. I don't see any good coming from it. It would most likely split up the family. The kids would end up suffering.

[RetroReviews]

If she don't I will. Encourage her to tell the truth lies and deception is never a good thing give her so much time if she doesn't then I will tell him the truth and I will let her know up front I will be telling him the truth if she doesn't. Homie don't play that

[dreamstar72]

I’m sure if he wasn’t with her at the time she got pregnant he would’ve known that the two are not his. I wonder what your real reason for wanting to say something to him about the kids. I personally don’t think you should say anything. If you do it could end bad for you. Let it go. He could actually love them as being his own. Remember people do adopt.

[Kelly6]

she can bee with him after testing positive

[dreamstar72]

But why do you really care. Unless?

[DJB72]

I wouldn't let him get to the point where she's had two kids by other men. If I knew my best friend's wife was sleeping with another guy I'd tell him. I wouldn't let him be cuckolded into being the father figure to kids that aren't his without him knowing.

[JacobJordan]

Absolutely. Not about to let a shit woman benefit off a friend's hard work. She deserves to be single and miserable especially if she was married and those children are the rest of her being a slut.

[OfMiceandMen]

No, it is none of my business and if he ever suspected the kids aren't his then he would have taken the initiative to do DNA testing.

[HelpfulWoman]

i would. she wouldn't be a best friend if she's cheating trash because i have basic standards for friends.

[LaurenM1997]

I would stay out of it but also tell the friend they gotta tell the guy he’s not the dad

[bowenw]

I would tell her to come clean with the husband and leave it at that.

[Dinklex3]

No.

& I think that person isn’t their real best friend if they tell.

Thankfully my best friends wouldn’t involve me in that anyways.

[XXblack88]

I would be fighting with myself on whether I should or not.

[goebenbreslau]

omg. i hate today's degenerate society. there are so many immoral women out there.

[KrakenAttackin]

For next Christmas, get the whole family "23andme" dna tests 😁.

[Mark987]

If the man is my friend I would 100% tell him, but if I don't really know him then I probably wouldn't. I don't get involved things that are not my business, but if he is my friend then of course it's called loyalty.

[lorenzomichael]

Fuck no! it’s none of my business. And if I was to do something that scandalous. I’d be a piece of shit friend..

[Mrtcn01]

No I don’t care it is their problem not my problem. But I definitely f*ck his wife too😅