Are people around you getting engaged 💍?

[SweetJoyGirl]

Yea, I know two so far whose fiancés proposed to them recently. This year, too! 💍💅🏾

I guess we are at that stage in life. lol 😂

What about you? Are people around you getting engaged?
💍 😌

Updates

1 y

Wow…it didn’t bug out on me this time. 👀

[DishLady]

The 20-somethings now get engagement rings, pre-engagement "promise" rings, and a bunch of other things that make me chuckle a bit. The meaning today is so ambiguously "meaningful" with everyone being so overly sensitive about every little thing... the result of too much anime and isolation perhaps.

Yes, a lot of people I admire are getting engaged and married... Folks who have gotten a second wind and a second chance at love... They seem to have gotten it right this time because they kept things completely simple, honest and direct, which is an amazing thing.

[coxoabean]

Yes, and they're all around my age. My ex got engaged 4 months after we broke up, then my friend is engaged and she's a minor, my other friend got engaged not too long ago and married recently, then there are many more. So I know about 9 people around me who got engaged. There all around my age too.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Wooooow
The minor part is crazy. 👀

[coxoabean]

Ik, and she engaged to a 22 yr old. She's only 15

[SweetJoyGirl]

…
Her parents are ok with that? 😭

[coxoabean]

Yes 😭😫 I tried telling her she should wait, but she doesn't agree. I'm pretty sure her older brother doesn't agree with it, because he is her fiances age, but at this point it'll just take her learning on her own :(

[SweetJoyGirl]

Wow……..
I have no words. 😭

[coxoabean]

Ik me neither 😭 She plans on marrying at the end of this yr.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Well, let us hope she doesn’t regret it. 😭

[coxoabean]

Yes, I hope that she won't. I hope she'll have a great marriage!

[SweetJoyGirl]

Yes! Positive thoughts for her! 💜😌

[LUCY8888]

It's like a child's game. It's not grown up yet.

[coxoabean]

@LUCY8888 yaaa

[Alwayreckles93]

Are they mormon?

[coxoabean]

@Alwayreckles93 No, they're no.

[coxoabean]

@Alwayreckles93 *not

[Alwayreckles93]

Wow now a days people get married in their 30s well at least here in America.

[Alwayreckles93]

Where did she come up with the idea of marriage?

[coxoabean]

@Alwayreckles93 Ik! She's only 15 and I'm 19 she's gonna have a baby and be married b4 me! I'm not sure, I think the guys she is with just really wanted to get married and so he asked her and because she's young she said yes

[Alwayreckles93]

She's still a baby. Have her parets try to stop her? This wedding should be canceled. I mean right now she should be looking at college options at least. Someone needs to stop her.

[SweetJoyGirl]

@Alwayreckles93 If her parents gave the ok, no one can stop it. Unless there is evidence of some form of abuse towards the girl. 🫠

[Alwayreckles93]

Are herbparents like stuck in Victorian times? I got married really young 18 and my ex left me for someone younger. The Brian is not fully developed until tge age 25. She's still a baby what are her parents thinking?

[coxoabean]

@Alwayreckles93 Her mom is ok with it, but her stepdad isn't. She won't listen to her stepdad though she said because he doesn't provide for them. I tried to tell her and warn her, so did my friend. Honestly it worries me that a 22 yr old is even trying to talk to her. He gives me a bad feeling. I just don't much like him. I tried to tell her though, and she doesn't want to hear it. I'm just hoping that either she'll realize she is about to possibly make a mistake, because there have been some red flags about the guy, and he was talking to a girl right b4 her. He ig "forgot" that he was talking to my other friend (who is 18, so much older than this 15 yr old) and then got with my 15 yr old friend. It was a bit strange to me that he could've forgot that he asked the other girl out. So I just hope something stops them both

[coxoabean]

@Alwayreckles93 They do believe in marrying young. I agree the brain isn't even fully developed at 18 let alone 15, so I don't know what her mom's thinking.

[SweetJoyGirl]

This is just so sad.

[coxoabean]

Yaa ik, it really is.

[coxoabean]

@Alwayreckles93 I have an update on this girl and ask that you could pray things workout. So this situation, the 22 yr old dating my 15 yr old friend, he ended up having s*x with her, and legally needs to get in trouble. I think he's a pedophile but this girl will not realize this. I tried to warn her. So anyone who wants to could you pls pray she realizes how bad this is. Someone has contacted the police but we're waiting to see if he'll get the punishment he needs. She isn't the first minor he's been in a "relationship" with

[NathanDavis]

a few around my age already did... late 20's, but not everyone has

a few younger in their early 20's are doing it... and also a few older couples as well

I do get invited to enough weddings every year... yes, and then... I just check their menu, to see how much I want to go, or maybe not... lmao

[SweetJoyGirl]

lmao 😂

[TallAnon]

They're all already married by now, haha

[SweetJoyGirl]

😂😂😂

[OlderAndWiser]

That stage of life? I got engaged at age 68 and married on Aril 27 this year, at age 69.

[mandyfire98]

Yeah a few of the people I know and went to college with are getting married.

[GoodManDave]

Sort of. the thing for a single guy like me is I think many people around my age are either in a long term relationship (like engaged or "about to be"), or they're married and have a few kids (or are trying). I know two people who have gotten married this year. I had several weddings about seven or eight years ago; these were the people I spent the most time with.

I know one who got engaged, married (small wedding) and has a baby on the way. (that's this year alone). I have a small wedding I'll be going to in the summer... but I haven't gone to a wedding in a few years, because as people age, they tend to "settle down" way before I have.

[Alwayreckles93]

Divorce actually its all thanks to buy moms who still consider this immature 30 year old a baby. Don't feel bad don't rush the time will come the right men for you. You don't want to take over where his mom left off. It's ok to wait and be really picky. Advice never date a Mommas Boy bad idea.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Okiiiii 😭😭😭

[Alwayreckles93]

Itsbon sweetie. The right men will come your way.

[Sugar100]

Yes eveyone in my family got married and I’ll be 27 and never got married never had a first boyfriend so that means no guy will ever marry me.

im sad because im not a party club girl, I want be a girlfriend a wife , have 3 baby boys. Life is so hallow and empty 😞

[SweetJoyGirl]

I am sorry, hun.
It will happen eventually. Especially when you least expect it. 🤗💜

[Sugar100]

I’m almost 30 and no guy is proposing to be my boyfriend. No guy wants me.

[SotiCoto]

I'm well past that. People my age typically got married a decade or so ago, have children, and I wouldn't be surprised if some of them have grandchildren.
So saying because I do technically have a daughter and she is an adult now... so... yeah.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Nice! lol

[SotiCoto]

What is "nice" about any of it? I'm a divorcee and I haven't seen my daughter in about 8 years.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Dang…I didn’t know.
I am sorry! 😭

[DryGermanGuy]

The people around me are getting divorces. Sorry for being a downer… 😕

[SweetJoyGirl]

Oop… 👀

[TommyMountainFigure]

Ironic that you and are are so similar in age, and had the same answer! ish.

[DryGermanGuy]

@TommyMountainFigure
Yeah. 😕 They all married in their twenties and had really solid relationships. I don’t know what happened.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm a lot older than you. People around me are getting divorced! :O

[SweetJoyGirl]

What are with these divorce answersssss 😭
What happened to happy marriages? 😭

[TommyMountainFigure]

<<< Is in a very happy marriage

[RHK36]

Opposite. Getting separated and divorced around me including myself. Comes in cycles I guess.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Dang… ;-;

[RHK36]

Women don't wanna act right 😬

[SweetJoyGirl]

Huh? 😪

[LazerBean]

We actually had a friend get engaged yesterday. The rest of us that are in our twenties are already married though.

[Anonymous]

it is a slow engagement time in my circles right now, which is unusual. i will probably be the next one to go, which i never thought i'd say for another 5 or 10 years

[SweetJoyGirl]

😂😂😂

[electromagnetic]

Nope. They either already are, or just popping babies and skipping that step.

[SweetJoyGirl]

lmao 🤣

[MysticDevice]

Yep. Been to several weddings so far. And they're all younger than me. 😬

[SweetJoyGirl]

Danggggg loool

[RebelinSteel]

Over the last few years, dating, relationship, engaged, married. I just move between relationships lol

[LiamJHayden]

Three couples in my circle have gotten married in the past fourteen months.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Dangggg

[Nikki1989]

There has been many in the last 2 years. I know very few single people now.

[Lionman95]

Yes most of my friends are engaged or married. I'm one of the few single people.

[TacosRAwesome]

Yes. My sister, my cousin and a friend got engaged recently. All weddings are in the current year.

[RingOfFire]

I remember going through that phase when everyone around me was getting engaged and married. Seems like another life at this point.

[MikeTheBartender]

I live in a party city... People here get divorced instead.

[Jason2469]

No people around me are getting divorced. Only a young retard would get married.

[SweetJoyGirl]

I mean, as are in our early 20s, soooo…. lol
Thanks for sharing old man. 😂

[SweetJoyGirl]

We**

[Jason2469]

Good luck. Young and dumb. American men are not getting married. They are smart

[Dnice1]

Pretty much all my friends are either married, engaged or seeing someone. Then there's lonely little me...

[loveslongnails]

No one I know is opting for marriage, and very few of my married friends are having kids.

[jamesgoldman]

No, marriage is a big expense

I see more divorce but that's the nature of business

[RossyBoi]

No, most people around me are single so it's 100% normal to be single.

[Dinklex3]

😅

Divorces all around.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Dang 😭

[KrakenAttackin]

Poor bastards.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Why? lol

[KrakenAttackin]

@sweetjoygirl. These men have no idea the shit storm they are signing up for. The moment they say "I do", a man's odds of suicide more than triple.

[SweetJoyGirl]

lmao
Nah, I think the guys will be fine. Both the girls are lovely girls. ^-^

[KrakenAttackin]

@sweetjoygirl. Every girl is a "lovely girl" until she isn't.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Are you married? 😂

[KrakenAttackin]

Divorced.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Ahhhh…that is why.
Well, ever marriage is different, yea. 💜🧚🏾‍♀️🫧

[KrakenAttackin]

Whatever, Live your Disney fantasy. I will leave this thread.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Oki!
Have a blessed day! 💜🧚🏾‍♀️

[KrakenAttackin]

Thanks.

[serious]

Yes they are getting engaged and married.

[rosemilk]

no, none that i know of.

[mayurr]

People around me but not me😗

[SweetJoyGirl]

😂😂😂

[WhitneySnow]

A couple, yeah

[FunkyMonkee]

In what?

[SweetJoyGirl]

You don’t know what getting engaged means? 🧍🏾‍♀️

[FunkyMonkee]

It has at least several meanings. to get engaged into some project, reading, writing or job, to engage an electronic device by flipping a switch, to engage in preparation for marriage, to engage in conversation...

[SweetJoyGirl]

Engaged!
As in fiancé! looool

[FunkyMonkee]

In that case, not that I know of. They don't delve into my affairs and I don't delve into theirs.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Oki lol

[Jennz6]

Nope

[Jennz6]

All of my girlfriends are Dancers 💃

[SweetJoyGirl]

Noice noice lol

[Jennz6]

Good luck with getting engaged

[SweetJoyGirl]

Thanks. loool

[In_Trance]

No not that I've noticed

[nawtee_me]

Nope, no rings here….

[White_Swan_]

Just a few people.

[Tuti-iMucize]

yes, even getting married

[MisterWack]

Yes, one so far…

[andy530]

No not really

[likeprincess]

Nope they aren't