Are you in a big rush to get engaged/married?

[Anonymous]

Yes 💍

No 💡

[Raaj4you]

Yes I am. I don't know why but even girls who are serious about dating are playing hard to get. I don't want to waste my time anymore.

I am in a hurry but It's still not working in my favour. I will share my experience. I found a sweet girl online. We liked each other. She stopped talking to me when I talked about marriage and kids. She said, I am not your slave. She didn't even try to understand me and my mindset. After few days, I showed her my 4 years online food order bills. I told her that I know you are modern woman, I am a modern man, I will not treat you like slave. She was surprised to see all the bills, she assumed that I will pressurize her to cook food. But she is still not convinced. She doesn't even know me 100%, I have never forced my mom to cook food like my younger siblings. I love tasty food but I am not a big foodie, I can eat any simple food and go to sleep.

[molonski2]

No one should ever be in a big rush to be either engaged or married , to be in a big rush = absolute and total disaster and very poor choices , not good that 20% say Yes , not good at all.

[nastyb]

nobody ever rushes to get married and yet they still end up getting divorced.

[molonski2]

@nastyb
Yep , and they still will , stats are 50/50 , but if you include " together due to convenience / non sexual " the failure rate in actually low 80s in %age terms.
And this is exactly why you " never rush " , you are rushing to failure.

[nastyb]

Actually arange marriages have a significantly lower divorce rates compared to romance marriages.

[molonski2]

@nastyb
Yes that's true , different process , and ideals.. If it works for you ( or whoever ) great , if it's just bcoz of family? hmm still no good.

But agree , more likely , better commitment , many of my previous clients were arrangements.

[jennifer_bloom]

I am happy both in a relationship and also happy single so I don’t feel I need to get married. It’s when I did my religious activities, I felt God was showing me he wants me to choose marriage over the single life.

[Xia1994]

I’m not in any hurry at all

[PBandJ_Nerd]

At this point of turning 25 this year, marriage can wait. Better to take all the time in the world with someone rather than just get married asap. Plus, you can practice commitment in the long run before you even get engaged and married, which can be a good thing.

[nastyb]

im not in a rush to get married but getting married is hard when everyone is clearly so damn afraid of commitment. then everyone complains about why they are lonely. you're lonely because you don't have a wife / children.

[Awesomesauce2005]

I'm not afraid of committing and yet here I am, lonely, sad and working my ass off.

[nastyb]

@Awesomesauce2005

both men and women are afraid of commitment nowadays.

[Awesomesauce2005]

I know, it's frustrating

[nastyb]

@Awesomesauce2005

Our society focuses on how to get over a breakup rather than how to maintain a relationship.

Humans are designed to be social animals. We are not desgined to be happy being all alone, minimal friends, no family. As we get older, social circles will begin to dwindle, parents die, siblings start families of their own , this is when we become increasingly isolated. I know a lot of people will tell you they are happier being alone, but i can garuantee you that you will never live a fulfilled life being alone.

[Awesomesauce2005]

It is so frustrating because all my young and old friends have a girlfriend or they are married. It makes me wonder what I'm doing wrong.

[Awesomesauce2005]

My oldest friend is 73 lol

[thegreenyogi]

It's not really my number one priority. And Honestly no I'm not in a rush to get engaged or be married. I can be as equally happy in a relationship with someone without all the grand gestures or formalities.

[EmyyWolf]

Nope shit is delusional.

i know several women in miserable marriages

[EmyyWolf]

So obsessed with the RING, and title of WIFE. That they’ll let a man cheat , hit & leach of their money.
😂
I CONSIDER MARRIAGE ABSOLUTE MENTAL ILLNESS

[StarWarGirl]

Yes so that our LDR could end and i can spend my rest of my life with my love.

[CriticalCatDad123]

Why would I want to get engaged/married? How exactly would I benefit from that?…

[Anonymous]

I'm not in a big rush for marriage but engagement and commitment I am more focused on to happen sooner than later

[serious_miss419]

Not interested one bit. I’ve said no twice by two different guys. Have not regretted it once

[Guanfei]

Kinda. If I could find someone to marry tomorrow, I'll do it.

[Abhinav03]

Those around me yes almost there is fear mongering in our culture if you hit certain mark afterwards it will be difficult to get married later

[itsclearlynicholas]

No as I don't want offspring or responsibility

[strateguy632]

no, don't hurry

[BCRanger10]

I'm already married.

[EmmaMary]

Already very happily married thank you.

[Nikki1989]

I am married, 10 years in August.

[laly520]

engaged already

[handsomelad70]

Seriously? At SEVENTY?

[Booklover_90]

No prospects at the moment. 😅

[LavLavLuv]

Lol no