Why do parents keep pestering me to get a girlfriend and get married if most high value women nowadays want a rich and handsome man and I am neither?

[Anonymous]

[BetaBucks]

They want you to marry an unattractive girl? Or do they want you to magically pull a hot chick without having money or looks?

[Asker]

By high value I mean low body count or virgins who are also at least average looking. They think I can marry a girl like that without looks and money.

[BetaBucks]

They're delusional. Let me guess, they're from some non-Western nation and don't realize what happened to Western/Westernized women?

This is like some of my family, who left Turkey back before it was Westernized and still have old school beliefs. They were trying to force marriage on me from a super young age and didn't realize how fucked up the dating and marriage environment was.

[Asker]

They are from Eastern Europe. Even Eastern Europe is Westernized now.

[BetaBucks]

Yep, just like Turkey. There's no more "going back home" to find a wife. Well, other than for the weight part. Women are still fit and beautiful in Eastern Europe and West Asia. Culture is trash now though.

[Plugs]

High value women want high value man. U are not lol

[Anonymous]

most of the older generation have no fucking clue what the younger generation is going through and they still have the nerve to bash us when they are just as likely to make the same mistakes

notice how it's always aimed towards men. when men don't want to marry or have kids, then he must be some basement dwelling loser but if women don't want to marry or have kids, then it's her choice and she's free to do so

[Opinion Owner]

if handsome good men like Tom Brady and Dwyane Johnson can be divorced, what chance does the average man have? even Henry Cavill and Michael B Jordan are still searching for their soulmates and living a happy life being a bachelor

[Asker]

They think they had it worse than us when they didn’t have any worse. Probably it wasn’t better for them, but it’s definitely not better for us

[Opinion Owner]

they simply don't understand what the women are like these days in these streets because they've been force fed feminist propaganda of men bad, women good narratives and only a select few men do they truly think are good people

a man can do and be everything right and still get screwed over. I've already listed a few celebrity men who are tall, rich, famous, handsome etc. still having difficulties themselves

a lot of men in our dads generations are subscribers to OnlyFans FFS and somehow their sons are the "problem" and the moms are no different outside of the dads willing to sweep aside their slutty past during the height of the sexual revolution days

seriously, ask your parents how many great female role models they can name whom women are trying to emulate and I bet they can't name shit

I'm sure Taylor Swift, Britney Spears, Miley Cyrus, Kim Kardashian, Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion come to mind lol

[LazerBean]

Because they are overestimating your value and therefore think you're marriage material

[Asker]

To be honest, someone with my value had no trouble finding a life partner 30 years ago. But it’s not the case anymore

[LazerBean]

Nobody has trouble finding a life partner today unless they only want someine above them

[Asker]

@lazerbean
But if you want someone in your “league” who wants to date out of their league, then you have a problem
It is not that simple to say who is above and who is below. Maybe I feel I am above a certain girl and I reject her, but maybe she isn’t below me. Maybe a girl thinks the same towards me and rejects me, when she is not actually above. It’s quite subjective.

[LazerBean]

Most people know what is in their league, and that is why most people have no trouble getting into a relationship if they want to. You have trouble because you are one of the few who doesn't know your value

[Asker]

Do you actually think any guy you reject has a lower value than you? Or any guy who doesn’t want you is of higher value? There isn’t such thing. I mean there is a difference in value between a CEO and a homeless man, let’s say, but in the same social class, it’s harder to tell what someone’s value is. I don’t think every girl I rejected is not valuable, maybe to other guys she is valuable. Some people said I was stupid for rejecting a hot girl. I just didn’t like something about her. That doesn’t make her less valuable

[LazerBean]

"Do you actually think any guy you reject has a lower value than you? Or any guy who doesn’t want you is of higher value?"

No I do not think that is the oy reason for rejection, and I never said I did. I just said that it is the reason that you in particular are a failure in the marriage world.

"I mean there is a difference in value between a CEO and a homeless man, let’s say, but in the same social class, it’s harder to tell what someone’s value is."

You admitting that you can't tell the difference between a CEO and a homeless man is just further proof that you are poor at gauging the league of a person.

[Asker]

Now you make me laugh. “There is a difference between a CEO and a homeless man”.
And you understood that I admitted that I can’t tell the difference

[LazerBean]

Not sure what the point in repeating me was but ok lmao

[Anonymous]

Why are u going for a women out of your league? They expect a women like u.

[Asker]

What do you mean by out of my league? I don’t care about facial looks because you can’t change them. I want them to be slim because I go to the gym every day and I am fit as f.. k. I can’t understand fit guys dating fat girls. And I mean FAT, not slightly overweight, which sometimes can be sexy. I also can’t date women who slept around and have a high body count. They should preferably be virgins, but it’s not 100% necessary. I get dates from quite good looking women, but when they tell me about having a sexual ‘past’ or they are so easy (signaling that they have a sexual past), I tell them that they are not my type. My body count is only 2 and 1/2, let’s say.

[BetaBucks]

Yeah bro, something like 80% of women are overweight now, and society has pressured little girls into being sexual as early as possible with as many different guys as possible. Odds are you'll just end up getting a fat chick who's blown dozens of dudes starting in early adolescence. Good luck out there.

[Asker]

@BetaBucks Probably not 80%, many of them. I’d rather keep being single or date a man than date such a woman, to be honest.

[BetaBucks]

Yeah, I just looked it up and that's just for black American women. Even latinas are at 75%. It's crazy.

[Asker]

@BetaBucks I wouldn’t care so much how fat they were as long as they were virgins

[BetaBucks]

"she can lose weight, but she can't take back all those dicks."

[Opinion Owner]

Value of people is based on their net worth. Date people in your league

[Opinion Owner]

U are definitely low value. Because u aren’t handsome or rich. Deal in your league.

[Asker]

I told you I don’t care about how ugly a woman is. If I have a low body count (because I reject sluts who want to sleep with me) and I am fit, I don’t want a high body count woman who is overweight. That’s my league: fit and not sleeping around

[Anonymous]

Your parents simply do not understand that women of today are not the women of thier time. You can't invest in a woman who does not want to commit to you and it would be foolish and detrimental to try.

Understand your parents mean well however misplaced thier guidance is.

[Asker]

I understand that they want to have grandchildren and they want our ‘bloodline’ to continue

[Gent207-2]

Do what you will

But at the end the bill of living is always due

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Gent207-2]

The consequences of all our actions both good and bad will always come up in older years