Am I right to be insulted that my brother wouldn’t ask me to be a groomsman?

[Anonymous]

I don’t approve of it and I don’t like her. He knows that. We talk all the time. I see him sometimes. He was over here today. Our other brother is the best man so it is very weird to leave me out of it completely. They were going to do paintball with only the groomsmen and my other brother asked him about adding me into that group and he said that it’s only for them. I don’t know how I even Mention this topic. I don’t want to go to this wedding. In fact, the only reason I’m going is because it would probably upset my grandfather if I did not go. Otherwise I wouldn’t.

[EmmaMary]

Just why the fucking hell would your brother ever want you to be involved with his wedding plans, when you're acting like some pathetic little prepubescent brat...Grow Up and try starting acting your fucking age.

And please don't attend the wedding (even if it does upset your Grandfather) because I can well imagine you being the biggest pain in the fucking ass, and creating a most unpleasant scene.

Hopefully your brother might even request that you are not present.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so very much indeed for the SO.

[Nikki1989]

Jeez, I wonder why he didn't ask you?

[Staximus]

You shouldn't feel insulted. If you don't want your brother to marry this woman, why the hell would he ask you to be a groomsman? You're not the brightest bulb on the Christmas tree.

[OlderAndWiser]

A wedding is a celebration of love and commitment with friends and family who want to support us. You have no place at this wedding. Get over it.

[Anonymous]

You don't approve so why would you want to be a groomsman? Why would you expect your brother to want someone who doesn't approve to be his groomsman?

[Anonymous]

Glad he insulted you. Do everyone a favor and stay home.