Are hot men more likely than hot women to care about the hotness of their partner when it comes to marriage?

[marish01]

Yes

No. It's the opposite

No. They all do care equally

[DishLady]

It depends on how shallow the person is.

1. Looking "HOT"/sexy doesn't mean that the person has only shallow interests.

2. Some who obsess about being "HOT" also tend to be shallow, in which case they may want a trophy boyfriend/girlfriend/so.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I don't know, I don't think there is a difference. There are a lot of men who when they find you attractive, will do what they can to rush into intimacy. And then there is my boyfriend, very good looking man who was definitely interested from the start, but moved at the pace of a sloth.

Because being pretty is enough. We can get them to look and grab their attention, but we need way more than just being pretty to make a relationship work. A marriage is a huge commitment after all. And if being pretty is all one has, I don't see a happy ending.

[Anonymous]

Not sure what is meant by "hot". Guys tend to have a wide range of what they consider "hot". Some guys like "instagram hot", some giys like "velma" types, I don't know. But they tend to not care about money and stuff like that, so I guess?

In terms of a serious relationship, I think they care about who cares most for them. One thing about guys is that guys can remember compliments from a woman for a lifetime. A woman's care means a lot to men.

[OfMiceandMen]

I think guys tend to be a little more shallow like that. We are the more visual of the two sexes. I expect most guys would overlook a girls numerous faults and marry her if she was really hot. Only to find out later on that it was the biggest mistake of his life.

[nastyb]

The only honest man on here

[OfMiceandMen]

@nastyb Thanks, I call it like I see it.🍻

[DextroShade]

Men are visual, a woman's attractiveness matter more to him than his matters to her. An ugly guy with wealth, status, and charisma can get a hot chick, but these things won't help an ugly girl lock down a high-value man.

[marish01]

True

[FreyaRed]

People love to brag with their partners. Which sex brags more is difficult to determine.

[marish01]

Lol..

[Alwayreckles93]

What we should care about is maturity level and if the gut is spirituality strong christian. The rest it doesn't matter. I am married but If I was young and single I would never date catholic men.

[marish01]

Why?

[Alwayreckles93]

I just can't stand cabokic people.

[Alwayreckles93]

*Catholic

[dudegreat91]

@alwayreckles93 yeah religious men are difficult to deal with. I suppose you're married to a Christian guy currently and finding it hard to deal with him/conservative values

[Alwayreckles93]

@dudegreat91 Not at all best relationship
honestly My husband he is 47 . I had a hard time with worldly guys y own age when I was young in high school I am so thankful and glad my folks put a stop to that relationship. I was advice to not interact , speak mich less get involve wth guys at my high school they were none christian. Now looking back I am so glad and thankful the church memeber did not allowed the relationship to grow. The guy wasn't try hard enough to convert to christian. A gut broke up with me because I told him or you go to bible study with me or we end this he got angry and ended the relationship he graduated in 2010 later I found out he cheated on his wife he is now 32 and divorced. In fact when guy I was acting in college cheated on me I was 20 at the time he was 19 is whn I realized I should be with a guy much older then me since they attend to be kote mature and more religious spiritually my husband was 36 at the time when we started our courtship. In fact guys your age are mommas boys. I never looked back on a me my own age.

[dudegreat91]

@alwayreckles93 Its good if it was a conscious choice on your part. So you must be protestant?

[Alwayreckles93]

@dudegreat91 Yes I am a protestant. In fact thank you you just give me a good Idea I might as well changed my user from feckless to protestant. Good idea. Yeah people always referred to as the protestant at work or any public place. People get it I am different from their system ideas.

[dudegreat91]

@alwayreckles93 good, but not all guys my age are momma's boy :P

[Alwayreckles93]

@dudegreat91 well most men your age are immature too like for example that imoji of yours. Yeah.

[dudegreat91]

@alwayreckles93 ;P ;P

[dudegreat91]

@alwayreckles93 can you give me a follow

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

i forever see females with guys i think omg what is the attraction because you could have an incredibly handsome guy but then i recall most often those ones are wrong!! lol

[red324]

I can fall for a girl who's fairly average if she has a dorky personality

[soe11]

• About same with my girlfriend.
• We are not married at all.
• Will not too.
• Live together as marriage.
• We both have great fun in sex.
• We both enjoys very much positive.
• We both care about each other.
• We both hot in sex.
• We do sex whenever and wherever convenient.
• We don't mind others seeing while we haing sex on beach and on yacht.

[Anonymous]

I’ve seen mismatched couples in which the guy is a 9-10 and the woman is a 6… those couples make me so angry considering that I’m semi prettier than those females but can’t even get a mid-looking man to look my way….

[handsomelad70]

Sure. Even at 71, I'm boyishly handsome and wouldn't want an ugly broad.

[marish01]

This man knows his worth.

[handsomelad70]

D**N SKIPPY !!!

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Probably. That's what I feel like life has shown me.

[Grond21]

Yes they are. But you will always find exceptions, what one man thinks is hot another might think is average or even unattractive

[RavVid]

Life is not linear. A 10 woman will possibly realize that a 10 man will be interested in quantity and date down so the guy considers he is lucky to have got her.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Hot men don't, rich men somehow do. From what I've seen on events and socializing on my line of work.

[Anonymous]

Of course they are. Because men care a LOT more about the hotness of their partner than women do. That tendency doesn't change for hot men and hot women.

[Iron_Man]

Most men want everything the total package beauty brains, mental stimulation looks and a woman that can bring something to the table and a woman that’s kind of athletic and not a softy cry baby

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I think men care a little bit more than woman on average when it comes to hotness.

[genericname85]

it's the opposite and female choices observed on dating sites proofs that it's true.

[marish01]

In dating apps yes.
Not in real life

[genericname85]

it's not any different in real life. dating apps just show of superficial women are vs men. and that's not even a bad thing in my opinion. i mean why would you go with someone who's not genetically the best choice. that's not the point of evolution.

[genericname85]

how superficial women are*. the only difference is men aren't secretive about their nature or pretend to be better people than they really are. that's what women do.

[NathanDavis]

I don't relate "hotness" too marriage...

[Nikki1989]

I think they are too busy looking in the mirror to really care.

[dudegreat91]

Yes men in general care about looks more than the women

[StyngRay]

That can’t be generalized. Personality is not linked to “hotness”. As hotness decreases with time …. The relationship is the only “hot” thing that matters.

[jshm2]

So called "hot" people are less likely to marry. Or marry successfully.

[jack1924]

You are still care too much about looks, there are tons of thing to consider when deciding to get married, one of them is the physical attributes for sure.

[bowenw]

From my observations handsome men look for a trophy wife, but it’s not the other way around.

[Ladsin2]

Men care more about appearance than women. More attractive men have more options than less attractive men, so they can have higher standards.

[OtterMan68]

From my experience, it's more common to see a woman date down as far as looks than a man.

[Kingofkings1992]

No one who is getting married is concerned about the hotness of their partner. That is not the foundation that marriage is built on.

[serious]

No, I think it is the opposite.

[Jennz6]

It’s probably the same

[noohair]

Since I have never been hot, i don't know.

[getpucksin]

Damn that's tough

[CubaPirate]

Quite the opposite

[Anonymous]

I think it's about equal.

[Fuentes]

Not really

[MrGSpotHer]

I've no idea 😕

[MatureMan40]

Yes..