Is it possible to get married without money?

[red-lipstick-girl]

I don't think of getting married right now, there are many reasons, the first of which is unemployment, the second reason is that I cannot find a suitable man for me, but the first reason is the biggest problem because I don't have money.

[ohsheeT]

I don't know why I love this question so much I can't stop smiling or laughing about it because this is truly who real people are


They want something so bad but they have none of it what it takes to do it

It's kind of like me wanting an apple pie but all I have is the pan to put it in and some sugar I don't have eggs I don't have flour and I don't have apples but I still want an apple pie


Now depending on who you are you can make it work
I mean if somebody told me right now no you can't do it because I don't have everything
I would take that as a challenge and I would go find everything if I didn't have money


It might take a little bit of time but I could do it

This is the same with your question the best part about being a human being is we can do anything we want to that we set our minds to that's the bottom line right there if you are committed to it you can make anything work and sometimes you're not only make it work but you make it great it all depends on how committed and disciplines you are


Now with an apple pie thing one that I could just go for it

But with marriage it's a whole different thing because you have two people that are involved you have two people that have to take on the same challenge and you have to be able to work hand in hand side by side

Heart to heart brain to brain same page same page with each other in order to make it work it can be done but it's going to take a lot of work I wouldn't recommend it I would rather be set up before I did it but it can be done


It's not like the apple pie where it's only me involved and making it work it's a little bit easier than

Your question about having all the ingredients to make it work

I personally wouldn't recommend it to you just because I would want you to be happy your partner to be happy and in order to do all this you need a job you need money and you need commitment and you need love and a bunch of other ingredients to make it work it's hard to not enough for people when they have all this stuff all the ingredients to make it work so when you don't even have the basics I would say no

[D_Bone_Steak]

Money, or lack thereof, is always an issue in any relationship that involves financial matters.

If the financial matters were removed, and he meets or exceeds your other standards, I doubt you'd give a fuck. Am I correct?

My wife makes the money for instance, and I haven't worked in like 20 years. Work is for suckers and chumps. "But D_Bone, what do you do then?" you may ask. Well first off, I fuck with my big dick.

Second, I don't just sit around getting fat. I hit the fucking weights every day. My arms are so big that a doctor can't use one of those strap-around-the-arm blow-up devices to get my pulse. I have 48 double D tits of pure muscle.

We don't have a big dog to kill home invaders because I'd make the dog look like a pussy when I rip the guy's jaw off his body and break the gunman's arm in 4 places.

I'm also good with our kids and very supportive. She sometimes sucks me off while I play video games. I doubt any wage slave gets that sort of treatment. She serves me by working her ass off to get that money and doing a whole lot more than just sucking me off while I'm playing video games live with the boys online cracking up that one of us gets our dick sucked while we're playing.

Here you are complaining about what? Money? Go make some and get a guy like me instead of some fuckboy that thinks he's a playa from da hood n shit. Or do you sit around waiting for a man to solve all the problems?

I hope I made my point clear. You could, stop complaining and hit the weights like me every single fucking day and be so damn hot that men start oozing cum just by being around you... but you don't... if you want the man that makes all the money, then wouldn't that make it easier? You're only 21 and from your profile pic, you're not all fucked up, you could do that.

Give me 40 pushups and 100 squats right now... do that every day now. Do that until it's just your warmup for the weights. Shiiiiiit. Just the 40 pushups and 100 squats alone would probably make you the sexiest chick ever. I 100% guarantee some skinny tech nerd would gladly buy you a car just for you to say you like how hard he works after that. That's the thing though... would you drop that hypergamy to accept someone weaker than you? Or do you just want him to be better than you at everything?

No matter what you really want, some form of work and sacrifice is the only thing that will make it happen to the gold standard. You could go make money like my wife, or hit the fucking weights like an animal like me. Gender doesn't really matter who the fuck does what. Don't listen to all these stupid so-called 'feminists' who just want the traditional man without being a traditional woman.

Don't listen to them. But pay attention to the fact that they have nothing but cats when they go home. If they have a man at all it's nothing but problems. Do you want this as your physical fitness coach?

No? Then why would you want your relationship man seeking coach to be a fucked up cat lady that can't keep a man herself? And if you look close enough, that's basically what they all fucking are. Sad isn't it? Again your 21, she's over 40 with no eggs and did nothing right... her advice is like eating cat shit.

I've ranted a lot on this one so I'm just gonna bounce out. Late!

[red-lipstick-girl]

But it is not right that you do not work and your wife does work. It would be more logical for you to bring money home instead of building muscle. Muscles do not satisfy your hunger. I will work anyway, but I do not want a man who stays at home.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Awe that's cute. You're hanging onto those traditional values that serve you. Get over it... feminism has 'liberated' you. Now you can work 9 to 5 and pay almost half of what you earn as income tax. Democrats love this and you should too if you vote for them. You're not trying to be some Trumptard right?

[red-lipstick-girl]

I am both a traditionalist and a modern girl. I studied and finished 2 departments and I will start a job. What I do is not feminism, but what you do is needing a woman.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Thanks for demonstrating what I think is the main difference between our genders. Plenty of guys out there work really hard just like you, and you know what they don't say to me?

They don't say "D_Bone, I'm strong and independent, and I don't need no woman."

[D_Bone_Steak]

It's also very telling... take away the money issue and all of a sudden you don't even need the man. Funny how that works, right?

[Staximus]

Dude you sound like an overgrown child, grow the fuck up

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Staximus Ooooh you're so right and thanks to you and your pointless opinion on my opinion, I now see the error of my ways.

Who asked you?

You sound like someone who just wants to simp out and white knight for the prior challenger, which is obvious since you have no argument except exposing your hurt fee fees—not even a point of contention. Argue a point or move on. I don't care how I sound to you, and nobody asked you how I make you feel, Buttercup.

[Staximus]

Nothing worse than a bum. Have some self-respect, get a job, stop sitting around playing video games like a coddled man child beta bitch boy for fuck's sake. How long do you think that gravy train is going to last

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Staximus Jelly much?

[Staximus]

Better start saving for your retirement

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Staximus I'm already retired. And why are you still here being a blue-pilled simp... this isn't going to get you laid you male feminist. Calling me names like a child, well, mine are more calculated, correct, and I don't have to use naughty words, you bad boy you.

Look you came here ripping on me with no argument... so I triggered you about something... and I think I identified what has you triggered. We can have a conversation about that trigger if you'd like... or you can keep sounding like a male women's rights activist.

[Staximus]

Hahaha that's funny. I just don't like bums

[Staximus]

Ride the gravy train till the wheels fall off, pally

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Staximus Oh okay. So it's not me banging on women for expecting money for just having a pussy... what was pissing you off was me switching that up that game and expecting money because I'm a major dick.

Don't hate the player, hate the game. I do. These retards voted in Biden almost 4 years ago and right now as I type this, I'm watching a documentary about how Gen Z can't afford rent or food without roommates or two full-time jobs. That's the shit that pisses me off.

If you're banging on me... look, I was in the military and worked harder than most of you on this site. I have issues because I had to stay up all night and all day for weeks straight and for many for years. I've been to war. When I came back to America, not only did all the women get fat, but now they expect the gravy train just for having a pussy and being fat. I deserve to get paid for just lifting weights and playing video games.

So you can keep hating on me or just accept that I'm just a guy that hates the same shit as you... Just my focus is on the gravy train riders that do it with their pussies.

[red-lipstick-girl]

At least I don't expect a man to take care of me. I take care of my family and clean, of course I am in education, but you expect your wife to take care of you.

[D_Bone_Steak]

First, thanks for MHO, but it's not like she takes care of me like I'm some coddled child. She basically just works the money-making job, while I'm prior military, she's still in and way past 20 years (20 years is retirement in the military).

I do have to deal with people stuck in the old ways though... People that think I should be working and she should be home simply because I'm the male and she's the female... gender roles. I would bet you money that's what triggered staximus.

I raise the kids, feed them, dress them. I cook the food. I do the cleaning. I'm basically a traditional housewife except I don't sit around getting fat. I don't mind... I've worked, I'm college-educated, and it's not like I'm a total slouch. Whenever something heavy needs to be moved or a jar needs opening I'm still there. Of course, I was being meme-tastic and a bit over the top with my initial presentation... but yeah, that me in the picture and what I described is still the same. It's just non-traditional gender roles without all the gay stuff.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Put it like this, I just got the kid fed and off to school. Normally I'd be hitting the weights right now, but we're moving and people want to look at the house. So I have to stay here while the property manager lets strangers walk around my house today. My wife had to be at work at 4am, so she's gone. It's just day-to-day living except the gender roles of who should be here, and who should be there.

It's 2024... not the 1950's, so I think it's pretty normal since she makes more than I would make.

[Staximus]

Dbone, if you did 20 years in the military, I'm going to have to change your bum status to "officially approved". Carry on.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Staximus More than that... guess I'm officially approved.

It hasn't been an easy ride at all getting to this point.

Also, I do get paid still. Keep that in mind. I just don't have nothing I want to buy anymore. I've already unwillingly seen the world... fuck vacations and bullshit like that. I've already bought guns and have life secured as far as stuff. I just don't need anything anymore.

Put it like this, you can be jelly of me where I'm at now, but if you put yourself where I was at to get here, you'd probably blow your brains out just like most of my friends did. Not joking... they fucking killed themselves.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Staximus I'm also no Bill Gates, so I don't want to sound like a braggart or some shit. I've earned the basic bitch boomer lifestyle. I don't have to worry about rent or food. The old woman wants more she can work for it... not my problem. Feel me bro? Once the last kid turns 18 I might not be as supportive of it. There is only so much a person needs in their life. The world isn't one of mine.

[Staximus]

Well fuck Dbone, if you're getting paid then consider your bum status officially revoked

[Staximus]

You are no longer the mayor of bum town

[red-lipstick-girl]

I think I respect you now. It's a great success to work in Ordu. I congratulate you.

[Kelley1]

Even if by common law, getting married without money is possible but, generally, women will not marry broke men.

[Nikki1989]

You don't need much money to get married. Our weeding ceremony and license was around $150 in total.

[red-lipstick-girl]

Marriage in Turkey costs around 3,000 thousand dollars, which is the minimum price, almost impossible for the price you mentioned.

[Avicenna]

There are plenty of guys that would marry a broke 21 year old woman- that's not what's holding you back.

[Grond21]

It is possible. You don't need to have a big wedding, or an elaborate one. If you and your future husband are on the same page you could have a very very simple one that would cost almost nothing.
Would you have a civil marriage or a religious one?

[red-lipstick-girl]

Both of them have an imam marriage ceremony and then a fun wedding is held.

[Grond21]

Imam is an Islam ceremony? Hopefully you find a man who can cover the bill for it then

[red-lipstick-girl]

Imam marriage is a free marriage, but the wedding is expensive and I am not planning to have a wedding.

[Grond21]

What does it mean to be a free marriage?
I understand

[red-lipstick-girl]

So it's free

[Grond21]

Huh. That is new to me

[exitseven]

Yes, I really did not have much money when i got married. We had a low budget home wedding with maybe 40-50 people. We went skiing 70 miles away on our honeymoon. I wore my gray suit and my wife wore her mother's wedding gown.

[red-lipstick-girl]

I hope you will always be happy, I am very happy about that.

[exitseven]

So far so good

[Garud]

We have a saying here, if the man and woman are happy then what can do a Qazi (priest or pandit). ​​
It means that when the feelings of the boy and the girl are pure and they want to live with each other then this is the biggest ritual, rest of the marriage process is just a stamp on it.
Then matters like money etc. come in third place.
But only when your heart is attached to someone already and when it is not attached then the reality is that first make yourself stable

[McLlovin]

Dont need money to marry. First of all its for love its not a business transaction although people these days treat it like one, which is probably why we have many divorces. Buy anyways, you can also just get married by going to a court house. Dont need to bust the bank, its kind of stupid to go broke over a wedding anyway but to each there own.

[HighValue]

Back when more relationships and marriages were successful, people didn't have much money at first and actually built a life together. That is one of the problems in modern times is that people want the final result and benefits from the beginning instead of building together. Find a man that isn't already well off but has compatible morals and long term life goals and you should be happier.

[Desi_Butcher]

Well it all depends on how understanding and capable your man is.
Some men don't have a lot but they're able to manage and fix everything over time provided their partner is patient and ofcourse loving.
So, it is possible to get married without money and still be happy.

[ChiTown33]

That depends, what is "money" to you. Most young people are lean financially. And I get why you think it's always going to be that way.

Yes you can still get married without money. But the key is finding someone who's like minded. Who has the same goals as you financially. That way not only are you not working against eachother financially. But the combination of you two will be synergistic.

[stark04]

Yeah for women re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Gwendoline]

Yes. Have the ceremony in church. Have a wedding party at home.

[bowenw]

You can get married for very little in most places if you have a small civil/municipal marriage. It is everything else that costs a lot.

[Likes2drive]

It is for the women but not for a man, someone has to pay the clerk for the marriage license and the person marrying you then you can elope with him, that’s probably the cheapest option

[DJB72]

If you wait until you can afford it you'll never do it.

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

What's the practical use for marriage if not just a difference in paying taxes?

[AhmetHasanCan]

You don't have to have an expensive wedding. You don't have to buy new items

[KrakenAttackin]

Men don't care one bit about your money. Women are much more concerned about his money and his potential for money.

[msc545]

Don't get married at all - and definitely don't do it without money which you will need when the marriage breaks up.

[DtMe89]

Getting married without money, is possible, it'd just be VERY difficult

[Anonymous]

You can do it, but it’s more fun if you have money

[Crazzyyworld]

I just wake up and I see this world as bad boys and bad girls world, you have to compete against bad boys and bad girls and defeat them in the race then you will find someone

[Crazzyyworld]

Give sex

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes it's definitely possible and you can build together

[Blueeyes81]

It's possible to do anything without money. However money tends to make doing anything easier.

[Staximus]

You don't need money to get married

[coolbreeze]

Yes it happens all the time

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Does a bear shit in the woods?

[Kingofkings1992]

For women, yes

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You mean eloping?

[red-lipstick-girl]

No, I would never let my parents pay for my wedding.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Tf? Eloping is when you don’t have a formal ceremony, you just pay for the wedding license and celebrate with just your spouse