My parents are divorced and can't stand each other. I'm getting married, what to do?

My parents are divorced, and their separation was really painful. They can't stand each other, and when I graduated, my mom said she wouldn’t attend if my dad did. He didn’t.
My dad was absent from my life for most of my childhood, but we've been reconnecting over the last few years.

Now that I’m getting married, I want both of them there, but I’m scared. I’m even considering eloping and giving up on my dream wedding to avoid the stress. I’m also thinking of telling them that if anything goes wrong, they’ll be escorted out by security. But I’m not sure it would help. How can I handle this without ruining the day?

My parents are divorced and can't stand each other. I'm getting married, what to do?
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