How do you feel about kid-free weddings?

[chocolatetwopointo]

[Anonymous]

What’s the point? The point of two people getting married is to form one unit, a family. Last I checked kids were part of a family.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and they ruin stuff u paid thousands of dollars for, ah veryy fun

[Opinion Owner]

So you’d be ok w not being invited to a wedding?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah, if thats what the couple wanted. how is that even a question?💀

[NathanDavis]

what's the point of that? entire families who dislike their own kids?

[chocolatetwopointo]

no for the couple to not have children interupt the wedding, like they usually do

[NathanDavis]

kids being kids is mostly an endearing thing... lol

I don't think I would want to belong in a family with either rotten spoiled kids... or adults who do not love their kids enough that they have to ban them

[chocolatetwopointo]

sure but not at a wedding, a wedding is supposted to be one of the best days of ur life. do u wanna look back and think of when that kid went and ruined everything js bc he was a kid? its simple respect for the couple

[NathanDavis]

"it was the best day of my life... I kicked out the kids"

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah, bc otherwise they’ll scream while ur wife is walking down the isle, would u want that? and ruin all the expensive stuff u spent so much money on?

[NathanDavis]

there's been a kazillion weddings in my family... lol

all of them with kids... and this, has not been a thing

I guess it is about how you raise your kids...

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok good 4 u, i dont have kids. but kids are naturally js crying and being kids, people dont want that at weddings

[NathanDavis]

I'm good at calming them down, and make them laugh again...

[chocolatetwopointo]

that won't help? during the ceremony its supposted to be quiet. a crying baby won't help and u trying to calm them down won't help either, u ruined the ceremony

[NathanDavis]

well, their wedding... their choice, right?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah? if they want it u should respect it, im simply explaining why most couples dont have kids at their weddings.

[Anonymous]

I can think of few things more self-centered than telling the people I invite to my wedding that they can't bring their kids.

[chocolatetwopointo]

how is that self centred?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not going to waste my time explaining simple concepts to stupid people.

[chocolatetwopointo]

how is somebody self centered for not wanting interuptions?

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said, I won't waste my time explaining a very basic, simple concept to someone who doesn't have the mental capacity to process it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

we both know u js messed up but dont wanna seem stupid

[MemeSupreme]

feels pointless

people still drink, smoke, and party at weddings lol

[MemeSupreme]

like ones that have kids so it serves no point to remove them

[chocolatetwopointo]

i think its to not have any distractions, like kids acting up or crying during the ceremony or cause chaos at the party

[MemeSupreme]

i dont think it's common enough to be a valid enough reason

bc it's the kids seeing their family unite too and the people getting married most likely want the kids there too

[chocolatetwopointo]

u want to think back to ur wedding and hear crying babies? think of all the expensive stuff they ruined? never getting to relax bc u have to take care of the kid?

[MemeSupreme]

have you been a wedding before

that doesn't really happen

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao yes it happens💀 have u seen kids?

[MemeSupreme]

i wasn't asking in like an insulting way, but ik people who haven't been to weddings before lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

neither was i?

[chocolatetwopointo]

and do u think those kids will even remember anything ab the wedding? they won't. so its pointless

[MemeSupreme]

what age group are you talking about with kids bc most will

[chocolatetwopointo]

like 10 and under r usually most likely to cause caos, but they might remember it, and 5 and under will probably cry but won't remember it

[Anonymous]

I've only attended one which wasn't kid free, I was too drunk to recall much but I know I prefer divorce

[ChicoFromThe305]

Weddings are for adults anyways