Why happy wife, happy life?

[Anonymous]

What about happy spouse, happy life? Did hubby have to be miserable in order to make make wife happy?

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I hear men don't want to get married I don't blame them cuz ofthe way societal treat men like dirt

[Summeroflove]

Unfortunately the men who say that are the most miserable men of them all who are married to abusive narcissistic one sided women… I feel sorry for these men because they would be happier if they divorced the old hen decades ago.

A real relationship that’s happy is double sided meaning both people love and are giving to one another. But so many times what happens when someone marries a narcissistic male or female… One person gets the short end of that stick. Just trying to keep the other person happy so they don’t lash out in negative ways.

A real relationship isn’t someone walking on eggshells and bending over backwards for someone who gives them little to none in return including sex… Which many times is all a relationship had going for it at one point until that was also gone.

[Anonymous]

I have a Happy wife, but no sex life.

[Asker]

Damn that brutal

[Opinion Owner]

I know. I have the worst luck.

[Nikki1989]

It stems from the fact that women have often been responsible for a significant portion of emotional labor in relationships.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

It'd just an old saying I feel like bit if your spouse isn't happy you're not usually happy either

[masterSir]

women don't like to be held accountable as long as it's them that is being made happy.

[Iron_Man]

I know? Why are we in that position us men

[Jmstone]

Her happy made me happy

[Anonymous]

Yeah