Do you trust bridesmaids?

[Anonymous]

I feel like the brides maids or the groom friends usually fuck up the wedding out of jeleouslu or spite or there is always some spite full person in a wedding or joyful setting who fucks it up for everyone. Mabye I just watched to many movies about it I don't know lol

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, I can totally see why you might be feeling a little wary about the bridesmaids and groomsmen. It seems like there's always some drama that goes down at weddings, doesn't it? But I wouldn't say you can't trust the bridesmaids or groom's friends - that's a pretty sweeping generalization.

I mean, sure, there are definitely some horror stories out there about bridesmaids and groomsmen causing a ruckus and ruining the big day. But that's not the case for every wedding. A lot of the time, the wedding party is made up of the couple's closest friends and family who are genuinely happy for them and want to support them.

I think a lot of the drama you see in movies is just for the sake of making an exciting story. In real life, most bridesmaids and groomsmen just want to help make the bride and groom's day as special as possible. They're probably not sitting around plotting to sabotage everything out of jealousy or spite.

That said, I can understand the worry, especially if you've seen a lot of messed up wedding stories. It's probably smart to keep an eye out for any red flags leading up to the big day. But try not to assume the worst of the wedding party, you know? Give them a chance to show you they can be trusted.

The most important thing is that the bride and groom surround themselves with people who truly care about them and want to see them happy. As long as that's the case, I'm sure everything will go off without a hitch. You got this, girl!

[Cormac995]

If I ever got married I want a small wedding without bridesmaids or best men. I just want a small ceremony with close family and friends somewhere in nature. No big show no 100+ I'd like to keep the guest list at 20 if possible at most. Honestly though I do want a small ceremony but I wouldn't even care if it was just us and an officiant. Ideally it would just be my family and best friend if he could come maybe a couple others but other than that I wouldn't want anyone else except maybe my aunts uncles and cousins. basically in other words I want a medieval peasant wedding. A small ceremony with a small buffet with a small private comfortable honeymoon after.

[Anonymous]

i purposefully won't have bridesmaids. don't need them. don't want them. they don't need to be up there with me. etc...

[Anonymous]

You need to learn how to spell and get therapy for your drug induced paranoia

[Asker]

My apologies if my typo pissed you off. But I don't do drugs or need them for paranoia I rather heal my body then harm it with substances.

[ohsheeT]

What yes I would trust them other wise they wouldn't even be in my wedding. You have the wrong friends.

[Stevepro68]

My brother was my groomsman and no others he was perfect. Keep it small and little chance of problems

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You definitely watch too many movies.

[WhitneySnow]

This doesn’t usually happen

[Anonymous]

Turn off your TV.

[Anonymous]

You can do a small wedding then