Fiance questioning wedding after he found out that I've been "BLACKED" in my past. Why is making it such a big deal?

[Anonymous]

Like everyone has a past.

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Yes I had sex with multiple black men at the same time but he's been involved in MMF threesomes himself.

[Anonymous]

Because to a lot of men this is a big deal. Would you be ok if you found out he used to have MMM sex in his past, taking it up the ass, oral, swallowing but then changed all that to where he only wanted you for marriage now? Maybe you would, but a lot of women wouldn’t. You can call it insecure or whatever you want but it’s his insecurity, it’s his choice. If he doesn’t want that he doesn’t want that. Most men don’t want the embarrassment of every dude knowing their girl was ran through. You show up to a dinner party, half the men there looking at you as the man knowing that they all nailed your girl.

[Stevepro68]

Anyone who cannot accept that people existed had a life and made choices in the past and that the past cannot be changed. Are childish, insecure, and immature. It doesn't matter if it is sex or anything it is a reflection of their issues.

[Staximus]

You both sound like a couple of swinging sluts. I would call of the wedding, too. Getting gangbanged by multiple men of any race is not something I would deal with.

[Joshydavid25]

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[slatyb]

Doesn't matter. He's a racist and will resent this forever. Call it off.

[Anonymous]

I guess, but how would you feel if he had a sexual encounter with the starting lineup of a volleyball team? Let's be honest, a MMF for a guy is not the same as a MMMMMF for a woman. You need a group sex of 1 M and 4-6 F for it to be similar.

[Asker]

It was the high school basketball team. I had a bit of a hoe phase

[Opinion Owner]

And if he had done the same thing with the volleyball team, how would you feel about it?

[Asker]

Surprised and impressed. Normally he can't last 5 minutes

[Staximus]

The basketball team? I wouldn't call that "a bit of a hoe phase". You jumped into the abyss of hoedom

[RedInnocent69]

Was filmed? Don’t think I can opine without watching

[nl171]

He seems shallow and you should get out

[jahaims]

When broken trash meets broken trash