My friend says when God gives you a husband, attracting him will be effortless. Thoughts?

[jennifer_bloom]

[Vevv123]

I like to think I’m unlike a female bird that chirps endlessly to grab attention. If you like me, then you like me; if you don’t, then you don’t. She’s right, connections should happen effortlessly, without any need to force or pretense and whatever is meant to be will come your way.

[Bunnybuny]

Sounds right

[GoodManDave]

I don’t know. Possibly. Supposedly, it is said that when someone just “clicks” it’s not going to feel like a lot of struggle and work just to get them to want to be around you. I think there’s a point to that…


But I don’t know - I haven’t been in very many relationships, and most have come across as very difficult. Only one seemed easy for more than a week, even though she wasn’t truly interested. The rest who have supposedly been interested (by their account), every moment has been a struggle with them a lot of the time… granted, only one would perhaps have been decent “wife” material (just not mine), so most of it has been a hassle. They flake out, etc. I mean getting one date going was like pulling teeth with most of them. I might have gotten to “sort of talking” once, and there was no date. If they were really that excited about it, they’d make themselves ant least sort of available.

[Jeff51]

Still need the attractive part for me. My wife anyway.

[melis765]

Nice nice