Question to christians should you look for a spous or allow God to bring?

[seth900]

From my childhood my parents separated when i was 10 years old. Since than i always felt the need to change my parents mistake and looked on datings apps to find girl and get married it was my dream. I started using dating apps more serious from 16 years old and never had any serious relationship and now i am 33. Never even opportunities arise for me that i would meet some girl that would lead to something. the only girls that used to want relationship with me that usually where 1000 miles aways or in other continent. Plus i haf high standarts. When I found God i started to feel he was telling me i am slave to this apps and twice had strong spiritual experience that i should let go. But fear didn't allowed me. Through prayer i used to manifest least 8 times exactly girls i will meet, buy either they were far away and i prayed just to meet them or know them which lead no where. When ever i try to look on dating apps for girls i feel lust feeling or feel can't describe the feeling bad. What should i do? My logic is telling me you are geting older you won't find if you won't look?

[Daniela1982]

It's easier to turn a car when it's wheels are moving than to turn the steering wheel when it's stopped. The same applies here. God can't help you with you sitting in a chair. It's easier for him to direct you when you are active. However, if you are expecting God to give you something you can't be interfering and trying to make it happen. God works on his own time, not yours. So He makes it all come together when the timing is right for everything that needs to happen to happen. He knows the recipe. So let him put it all together for you. You just have to have faith that when you ask him that it will happen.

[Anonymous]

Pray that God help you to align your desires in a wife with His desire for you in regards to your wife. If God gave you the desire to marry, then have faith that He will fulfill that desire according to His will for your life. Continue to pray and seek, for doing so is putting that faith into action.

[Anonymous]

Look. But pray for God to put the right one in your life. And also accept it'll happen on God's timeline, not yours. Amd also realize that if you haven't found her it's because God's working on you. You might not be ready for her yet.

[seth900]

I agree with you maybe i need to work on my self still and its not the time, but than how do i deal with those feelings of lust and than my focus gets not on God, but on finding a spouse

[Opinion Owner]

It's tough. God never said it'll be easy. God only promises he'll get you through it.

[strateguy632]

should search... but add faith n prayer.

[BarryLiverstone]

Seek, ye shall find